28th paranoid parenting influence

Before you know it, it's been another tiring night. Maybe the sky is beautiful, I want people to see each other naked and honest, so after the hot dinner, we hope that mosquitoes can also be chic, enjoy the outside world, so when lighting mosquito coils to send off guests, a family of five under the leadership of their mother and daughter, came to the lively and cool community square...

Every night seems to be in the same darkness, leaving the stars exposed. Because the beauty under the sun, although it is within reach, it is often difficult for people to see its hidden roots through its enchanting brilliance.

Therefore, although darkness is full of fear, it also makes it easier for people who are good at adventure to obtain the meaning of the truth. Just like exploring human nature in real life, only by having the courage to calm in the darkness of the trough can we feel like being in the night. See the farthest and deepest star.

So, at this time, I was facing the parents who were playing with their children, although I could also feel their heartfelt joy and laughter, but my lonely heart was still unmoved. And like standing on the land of no one in the past, leisurely listening to the voices from the autism group!

When I saw that many institutions in the group used flower-like packaging to attract parents to buy so-called rehabilitation materials and cutting-edge technology, I thought to myself, in fact, even they know that those courses and so-called technologies that have little effect are driven by fame and fortune, so that they have turned from angels to wolves in sheep's clothing. Therefore, let me feel once again that in this materialistic world, the soul hidden under the temptation of material things makes the goodness and beauty in human nature pale and powerless.

At this time, the child was riding his grandfather's church bicycle, but I noticed that he was like a coquettish woman who had learned to be coquettish, looking left and right, walking and stopping, hoping to use this method to attract the attention of us and other children!

A gust of spring breeze at night...

Sometimes it's like a spoiled child...

It can make people inadvertently...

There's a slight drunkenness...

I don't know when...

As the children's voices fade away...

In a square where people are getting sparse...

Time old man began to urge, hoping to drive away more and more parents and children. When taking advantage of the helpless late night, before the approach, many children, finally in the expulsion of the old man of time, once again with their loving parents, left here one after another.

I am no exception, in the autism group, Huashan argues the sword, while standing out from the crowd, he also slowly drags his steps like lead stones, like a snail, walking alone behind their mother and daughter, until he moves for a long time, and finally returns home alone!

As soon as I entered the house, suddenly a residual smell of mosquitoes penetrated my nostrils. When the cool breeze blew, I suddenly became alert and worried that my child would catch a cold, so I immediately turned off the electric fan that was spinning at high speed!

Because, in the season when the weather is still cool, because the developing child's function is weaker, the skin is not enough to protect the qi, and it is easy to catch a cold due to the wind. However, no matter how thoughtful I was, and the things I feared appeared the next morning without discussion, and in the midst of their stereotypical inertia, miraculously happened again...

The next day, when Dabao got up and washed, and was grinding and chirping to eat, unexpectedly, his face suddenly turned pale, and in an instant, he seemed to have lost his soul, and he looked soft, and ignored my teasing, and walked into the room alone, lying on the edge of the bed with an expressionless face.

At this time, the experienced grandmother and the shadow mother quickly arrived, and said in a little anticipation: "Maybe I want to vomit again, let him go to bed and sleep..."

However, with a three-point premonition, I didn't expect that as soon as I carried him to the bed and lay down, the child suddenly raised his head, and then with a "whoop", he vomited all over the bed one after another.

After a period of vomiting, the child's face became even paler, with a faint breath, and finally lay down quietly.

Since this situation has occurred many times, even if you don't have to think about it, it must have been caused by the cold wind last night. But since they ignore it, how can I complain about them, thinking that people are not saints? I thought to myself, if they can learn from this and pay attention next time, then the child will be worth it this time.

However, I know that paranoid schizotypal personality is difficult to consciously obtain independent lessons from past experience, and they are often more inclined to avoid pain in order to protect themselves, and only then can they consciously search for past experiences in their minds for self-preservation of current events!

Therefore, thinking of this, I hope they can deepen their impression, so I said lightly: "I should pay attention in the future, especially at the turn of the seasons, that is, adults are prone to cold due to fanning fans, so children should pay special attention..."

Unexpectedly, as soon as I finished speaking, her grandmother hurriedly said as if she had been wronged by a bad person: "I turned on the fan because of the smell of mosquitoes at home..."

I said, "yes, then in that case, it's better to let the child go to the room." Or if you don't turn on the fan, even if it tastes a little, it's better than a cold..."

However, his wise grandmother still held her head high and said, "He was disobedient, and he got him into the room, and he had to run out to play on the sofa..."

Unexpectedly, listening to the words that were already unbearable, but at this moment, when I was too lazy to say more, the child's mother suddenly came out of the toilet and said wisely: "This big treasure is just disobedient..."

I didn't expect to see this next-generation mother, so bothered to cooperate with paranoia, think about it, and no matter what, this is the first time they have ignored it. Compare their hearts to their hearts, even if they are good at shirking their responsibilities, they will naturally pay attention to it in the future.

However, I didn't expect that a great task fell from heaven and a miracle reappeared. When I was about to take Dabao's temperature, unexpectedly, at this time, Xiaobao in his mother's arms suddenly caught off guard as if he had discussed it, and suddenly began to vomit desperately as if he was in the fun...

At this time, I was suddenly angry and really wanted to point at their noses and scold: "This big treasure is disobedient and runs around by himself, what about this little treasure, is this child who can't walk also run around disobediently?" ”

But bear to think about it, forget it, this little treasure slapped them at the cost of sacrificing himself, and besides, they wouldn't be so stupid that they didn't even know about embarrassment, right? So, thinking of this, I was silent, looking at them silently, with a look of worry that I would question again, and let me remain silent!

However, although this is their carelessness, even if they put the blame on mosquito coils and children for the sake of self-defense, it is human nature for them. And they didn't expect that Xiaobao would highlight his skills at a critical moment, making them unexpectedly look like they had just vomited a child, and they were listless. Therefore, I didn't bother to say anything more, so I thought about it as if nothing had happened, and continued to take the temperature of my two children according to this. But I didn't expect that the two children had a fever at the same time while vomiting!

Think about the masterpieces and styles of these two generations of Virgins, who can make two children have a fever and vomit at the same time on time like a computer. Thinking about it, I couldn't help but remind them again in anger: "With this experience, I must pay attention next time..."

However, I didn't expect that his grandmother seemed to be even more angry than me, and I saw her suddenly say like a divine help: "Then why didn't you come back first last night and do a good job?" ”

When I heard it, I only felt that my blood was going up, and my brain suddenly "buzzed", and I was in a trance, and I didn't know what it was like to be angry!

So, I was a little chaotic, and then, under their command, began to take medicine like a pig enema, first forcing Dabao to drink medicine and then continue to serve Erbao.

Later, when I came to my senses, I thought that maybe it was because my language was not strong enough and too gentle, which made my paranoid grandmother want to seize the opportunity again and give full play to the value of her own existence.

Maybe she found out that my stupid suggestion always worked, and made her eager to improve herself in the sense of protection of shirking responsibility, so that she suddenly let her release the sound of heaven again inexplicably, and show off her might! But no matter what, she also gave me face, and finally added more to Xiaobao's clothes at my suggestion.

After a while, when I noticed that Xiaobao had a wet feeling, I politely said to her: "Just keep it at this temperature, and the child should be fine soon..."

And Dabao, at this time, may be because of the recovery of his physique, although his face was still pale when he vomited, and his breath was also weak, but before he was in bed for three minutes, he couldn't bear to get up and pound it. At this time, Xiaobao, except for some exceptionally quiet, is almost the same as Dabao, although the fever has not subsided, there is no obvious problem.

It so happened that her mother also rested, and it was not until the afternoon that I silently took Dabao to the big blowing amusement park of the municipal hospital in the opposition of her grandmother.

At this time, although the child has a fever and vomiting, and has not fully recovered, I am afraid that he will be like before, once he has a cold and fever, he will go back and forth for several days. Today, when I am inspired by the theory of Chinese medicine and my own experience, I think that the child is not infected by a virus, but only has a fever due to a cold, which is mainly due to the cold, which causes the blood circulation to slow down, and when the body temperature drops, bacteria take the opportunity to multiply. The body will start the stress response, which will not only destroy the bacteria through fever, but also effectively allow the body to recover in the state of blood heat on its own.

Therefore, if this principle is followed, the blood circulation can also be strengthened through active exercise, so that the blood circulation can quickly reach normal and improve the function. Then, on the other hand, it can also dissipate heat at the same time, and because of the rapid recovery of physical fitness, and timely elimination of bacteria, you can get rid of drugs and quickly restore health!

Sure enough, after such reasoning and application, when the child was sweating profusely, he played from half past four to six in the afternoon. When he returned home again, Xiaobao also recovered quickly after sweating in his clothes. Thus breaking the historical record of Dabao's lifetime, a fever, and a complete recovery...