Chapter 02 Diagnosis of Autism

When I first walked into the office of the expert dean, in the empty room of one person, the expert dean, who really looked like a man, seemed to be unconcerned, and consciously said to me in a low voice in an unconcealable depression: "You wait and come back!" ”

At that time, although my thinking consciousness was thinking that it might be that he was diagnosing other children, my conscious perception experience was extremely incongruous and suspicious.

Although it is difficult for my thinking consciousness to judge the truth of his heart from his words, my conscious perception function makes me keenly feel from his tone and expression that his language and attitude seem to have ulterior motives while lacking confidence.

Sure enough, in the midst of anxious waiting, when I knocked on the door again and went straight in, I found that he had just turned from the window. Maybe it was because I didn't ask for his consent that I showed up again and surprised him.

Because, his eyes are obviously a little erratic and scattered, and at the same time, he seems to be trying to hide something in his deliberate sidelines. But before I could think about it, there was a faint smell of tobacco wafting from the window.

At this point, it seemed to me that the first time he asked me to go out, maybe he wasn't ready to face me, or maybe he was really a real smoker.

But whatever the reason, it is undoubtedly exposed to a large extent, which shows the level and quality of an expert. Thinking of this, most of the hope and expectation that I had rekindled before suddenly disappeared in an instant.

However, in the dilemma, although I was a little disappointed, I still tried to look at him in a natural way without being noticed by him, and when I saw a pair of eyes lacking firmness and gloom on his middle-aged face, I quickly took out my cigarette, and with the attitude of treating the behavior of a layman with the courtesy of a layman, in a hypocritical respect, I quickly handed the cigarette up...

Unexpectedly, this method had a miraculous effect, as if the elixir was in an immediate effect, making his originally tense face become much softer in an instant!

His reaction seemed to have been expected for a long time. Because before making an appointment, in order to prevent them from deceiving their medical treatment based on profits, and worried that they would use the authority effect to fool their parents and achieve the possibility of earning benefits in the case of insufficient professionalism, I gradually deliberately told them that they seemed unconscious and infiltrated with favorable information about me personally.

So, before going to Hefei, I searched for information about their institutions in order to get more information. Although the scale and external image of this institution are regarded as an authority on autism in Hefei, its nature is that it has a tendency to kidnap public private hospitals.

Because of this, I was skeptical that such hospitals often collect information about parents as much as possible before making an appointment, so as to analyze and study and formulate corresponding strategies, so as to seek more benefits. This kind of unscrupulous rehabilitation institutions that violate professional qualities and principles, and are not child-centered, have long been common in the field of autism rehabilitation.

What's even more unbelievable and unacceptable is that I didn't know at the time that the field of autism rehabilitation had already been like a deal. A tacit market pattern has been formed between institutions. As a result, many autism rehabilitation institutions have turned the rehabilitation field that originally saved lives and helped the injured into an art of painting flowers and flowers, which is almost flooded. It seems that autistic children, a big cake full of temptation in their eyes, are in a hurry to squeeze their heads, and want to seize the opportunity to quickly divide a piece...

Even in the process of my understanding, there is a young female teacher in kindergarten who can successfully fool parents to accept the implementation under the coercion of money, similar to the taming mode of beating and scolding and intimidating, and instigating her to buy so-called effective information!

At that time, I saw the video of the child sent by the parent, and I couldn't help but reprimand her a few words, and immediately warned her to give up, otherwise the child's problem will only get worse. But when I saw the long message she sent again, there was helplessness and helplessness everywhere between the lines, and I couldn't help but feel desolate and sad in my heart...

It can be seen that in the autism rehabilitation group, in order to earn more benefits, there is no shortage of deliberate recklessness, recklessness, judgment, and even violation of conscience, which is called humanitarian rehabilitation, but in fact it is only for its own interests, which is equivalent to experimenting with children. Although, while they want to improve their technology, there are also many parents and children who have been harmed by irresponsibility...

Many of their propaganda methods are more like pyramid schemes, throwing bait, pulling people's heads, and some even use ineffective resources to create authority in a brilliant way, and so on. As a result, under the corrosion of money, fame and fortune, distorting human nature and harming parents and delayed children is far more than recovery!

Even Hefei, a city close to an international metropolis, this representative institution has spent the price to buy a name on Baidu, think about it, can this name be real? Can people who know the truth believe it?

Similarly, many other so-called institutional experts are overgrown like weeds. Even some of their own children are difficult to recover effectively, but they can do it like a true immortal god, and they are all over the country! So it can be imagined that there are hundreds of rehabilitation technologies on the market that are difficult to distinguish between true and false, distributed in the hands of these many institutions and experts, so how many of them are real? And how many of them are fake? I think this should be a question worth pondering for every autistic parent!

For a moment of reflection, it was as if centuries had passed. When I turned around and gathered my thoughts, I don't know when the so-called dean expert had already sat down on the chair.

Looking at him sitting like a Buddha, and then looking at the white coat he was wearing, I couldn't help but think of my lover from an angel. Because, my lover is also an angel in a white coat, but she once explained: "Angels, just wipe people every day..." Because in my eyes, this is the real angel! It is the hospital that really saves lives!

The moment I came back to my senses and met his eyes, time didn't allow me to think about it anymore, so in this case, the seemingly simple went straight to the topic.

However, just as I was about to open my mouth to consult him, he reached out his left hand and handed the child a toy in the shape of a square house. And tilted his head sideways and asked seriously, "What is your name for him at home?" I looked at him and the child, and replied with the same seriousness: "Call him honest and ambitious!" (pseudonym)

And at this time, the child, perhaps because of my embrace, made him feel as safe as home. Because, I saw that the moment his eyes touched the toy, he unceremoniously touched the table.

I have been sitting next to me, but I am more like a bystander, looking at the child at the same time, but also quietly observing the reaction of the dean's expert.

But then, I didn't expect the dean expert in front of me to desert like a primary school student, only to see him holding a pen in one hand and unconsciously stroking the diagnosis book on the table with the other. Then he paused for a moment, then turned his head sideways and shouted to the child: "Cheng Mingzhi, Cheng Mingzhi!" ”

When the child heard his second call, he saw the child's eyes, as if occasionally, unconsciously looking at him, and then continued to stroke the toy in his hand as if nothing had happened.

At that moment, I saw that the dean expert glanced at the child, immediately withdrew the relatively square head, and sat upright on the chair again. Then I saw his hands, still unconsciously stroking the pen at the same time, his eyes began to dangle like a scanner on the diagnosis certificate intentionally or unintentionally!

At this time, the room was silent, as if only the sound of each other's breathing could be heard. I don't know if he's posturing or if he's thinking about it seriously. In short, his expression looked a little absent-minded, which made people feel very unsteady. Therefore, I think about it, in any case, if it is explained from the perspective of subconscious analysis, then there is no doubt that in the absence of self-confidence or uncertainty, the subconscious mind will prompt the body, and will unconsciously act unconsciously, while dispersing and suppressing the master, to obtain the relaxation of the body and mind or the three consciousnesses, and to synchronize and balance with the environment at this time...

And so it was. From the very beginning, he was silent for a long time almost without any inquiry, as if he was entering deep thinking, and then he put a pen on the diagnosis form, pointing back and forth, while saying: "Through the evaluation diagnosis, your child has autism spectrum disorder!" ”

However, maybe he didn't expect that when he said this, he suddenly made me a little dazed. I thought to myself, if you just fill out a form and put a few machines there, you can diagnose the child's problem, then I think it's too simple, isn't it? So since it's such a simple thing, can't I easily get an expert hat to wear? Why bother you to drive it?

However, just when I wondered, he seemed to be the same as the child, and he was unresponsive. Seeing him like this, I thought about it for a long time, and then I only asked stiffly: "Then can you be more specific and tell me what is going on?" What is the reason and what needs to be done..."

Unexpectedly, he listened to my series of consultations, but it made him frown, as if all my problems had been expected by him. Then I saw the pen in his hand, still pointing back and forth on the diagnosis book, and at the same time, he looked at me with eyes that wanted to shine and said: "Now according to the newly revised diagnostic criteria in the United States, the scope of diagnosis has been expanded..., as for what the reason is, then this is too much..." “

I listened and thought to myself, isn't this nonsense? Even if you check it, you won't be stupid enough to tell you easily! So I replied, without thinking, "No!" Unexpectedly, he listened, and suddenly continued confidently: "There are many causes of autism, including genetics, drugs, congenitals, and acquired environmental reasons, and further examinations are needed..."

However, just as I pricked up my ears to listen to him continue to explain, I suddenly fell silent again! Then I saw a pair of quiet and thoughtful eyes, and then fell on the diagnosis book...

Seeing that he was so unfathomable, I suddenly thought about it, and found that after listening to it for a long time, I felt that the answer I wanted was equal to a no, but I felt that he seemed to treat me as a bank and wanted me to continue to take money for inspection.

I was very puzzled, thinking that it must be that he doesn't know, right? A dignified dean and expert will never be a man who has reformed his ways, right? Thinking of this, I can't help but have doubts. If you think about it from the inspection to the present, it's like a pile of mud, you just call me uncle for free, I don't think I will do these meaningless inspections again...

But thinking about it again, I feel that although this is the case, after all, he is a dean expert and cannot be underestimated casually. So he continued to hide the anxiety in his heart, and asked lightly: "Can the child be cured?" How much does it cost? ”

Unexpectedly, when he heard me ask this, his eyes suddenly brightened like the stars in the distance at night. Then I saw him reply slowly: "There will be sequelae in the future..."After speaking, his eyes were like rabbits, he glanced at me and began to remain silent, as if he deliberately stopped answering my questions!

When I asked again how much it would cost to recover, he paused for a moment, as if he had seen the light of day after a long wait, and said without thinking: "It depends on the child's situation, how much money is needed, and it's hard to say now!" ”

Listening to his such a reasonable answer, I was really a little annoyed, thinking to myself, don't you fucking just want to play Tai Chi to make some money lacking in virtue? With your level of quality, it's rare that you still know that you're embarrassed to say!

At this point, he may have sensed my feelings. Because just when I was about to ask another question, he suddenly changed the topic as if he was experienced, and said to me inducingly in the way of changing concepts: "In our place, there are many parents who continue to give us good feedback, and a few days ago there was a parent who sent a pennant to thank us..."

Unexpectedly, I suddenly felt a little disgusted when he heard this, if he didn't say this, it was okay, as soon as he said it, it felt like squirting the smell of old dung, which made me really want to beat my stomach twice, and he vomited directly all over his face before he felt cool...

At this point, I seem to have understood, I think I have performed so well, so that he would definitely not think that the kind of contempt from the heart at this time, I feel that he has more problems than autistic children! I thought to myself, if only he could apply such abilities to autistic children. However, for the sake of fame and fortune, I want to be a sheep in wolf's clothing...

Although, in order to shape their influence, many individuals and units make a fuss about sending pennants, which is nothing new. However, this pennant originally represented glory, but in the materialistic reality, it was also shot while lying down, and was used by many people to achieve the purpose of confusing people's minds and obtaining benefits.

Thinking of this, I said lightly in a state of contempt: "The pennant does not fully represent the facts, and I can also ask others to send me a pennant to help me explain some problems, but can this represent the facts?" ”

When he heard me say this, even a monkey with a three-point IQ naturally seemed a little embarrassed. Of course, his embarrassment is also valuable to me. Because his embarrassment, to some extent, also represents the potential embarrassment of the entire autism field!

However, at this moment, the child broke free from my embrace, and when he saw the blue medical bed next to him, he looked at me and found that I was unresponsive, so he resolutely climbed up in curiosity...

Look at the child, the reason why I didn't stop him is that I want to provide information about the child in front of his eyes, and I want to see how the dean expert in wolf's clothing in front of me will react!

Sure enough, at the moment when I deliberately looked at the child, the expert seemed to follow my gaze and swept in the direction of the child. So I seized the opportunity to say to the child, "Well, come down, this bed can't be played!" The child listened, and slipped off the bed obediently and obediently.

When I looked at the child who had already come down, I turned back to the dean expert and deliberately asked, "So, if my child chooses to recover with you, what will be the final result?" ”

Sure enough, maybe he noticed the child's performance just now, thinking that no matter how imbecile he is, after all, with the hat of an expert, he must be better than ordinary parents. So no matter what, but I'm sure he'll be a little bit more foolish!

In fact, his state of mind at this time seems to have entered my expectations. Therefore, when I asked about rehabilitation again, maybe it was because of the child's performance just now, which disrupted his continued thinking, or maybe because he was aware of my state of mind and was stressed, in short, he said without hesitation: "If you recover with us, then there is great hope for a complete recovery!" ”

When listening to his words, although it was a little expected, but still a little surprised, think that he seems to have forgotten the previous sequelae conclusion, and in the child's new performance, it is rare to suddenly answer like this, at least it can show that his IQ is indeed much stronger than that of autistic children!

Therefore, although his answer just now almost made my joy blossom, it made me even more contemptible, not only did I not feel grateful, but wanted to punch him immediately!

Because, from beginning to end, he didn't even let out a few farts, so he was sure that the child would have sequelae, but in less than a few minutes, like a face-changing master doing tricks, he suddenly said that there was a lot of hope that he could fully recover! Unexpectedly, these experts really live up to their reputation!

Although I am a little tired of it at this time, I think that since the expert is so clever, how can I give up so easily? Although I can't figure out the problems of the children for the time being, it is only in their loopholes, through studying them, and understanding more problems in autism!

So, I pretended to say again: "Oh, I am relieved when you say that, then I want to ask again, if you recover here, how much will it cost?" …”

In fact, his IQ is quite high. Because, when he heard me ask so sincerely, suddenly in a little vigilant hesitation, his somewhat pale face paused, and finally said in a tone of three-point charity: "More than 10,000 treatments in a month, about 40,000 or 50,000 in three months..."

But just as he finished speaking, I finally squeezed out a hypocritical smile in contempt and said, "Thank you! Doctor..."

A thank you, I listened to my own flesh, but I thought, to him, it may sound like the sound of anticipation, and I feel that in the hope of success, he wants to catch me, let me and the child sink deeper, so that we can continue to sweat and feed his wolf skin.

As I expected, he seemed to be hesitating in me, and quickly lost no time in saying: "You register first, and I'll help you arrange it first..."

Hearing what he said, I said in embarrassment: "We came today mainly to get a diagnosis, and then discuss it with our families, and we are not ready to recover yet..."

As a result, when he was eating dark nails, he began to say in the performance of Tai Chi Divine Skills: "Time is precious for children, the golden period is very important, the earlier the recovery, the better the effect, and the greater the hope of full recovery..."

In short, he has a bunch of good words, and I am like meeting a dream lover, when I was almost fascinated by what he said, I really admire him, I can do such a stirring thing about intimidation, and he can be regarded as a veritable expert!

Of course, I may be no exception like many parents, and finally surrendered his gun and threw his weapon in his humanitarian encirclement, and was forced to say in a dilemma: "In this way, I will see the recovery situation for the time being, so that I can go home and explain to my family, and when the family agrees, we will come back for a course of rehabilitation first, what do you think?" ”

I think that when he saw my sincere attitude, he should also think that the best calculation can only end here at most, otherwise I will give up the opportunity to recover temporarily in the afternoon, then he has been a hunter for half a day, and he has been busy until now, wouldn't he only have the harvest of a hair?

Thinking about it, at this time, although I was ready to undergo temporary rehabilitation, I was no longer just despised, but felt that the whole hospital was like a pile of garbage that emitted a rancid smell. For the sake of fame and fortune, they will abuse and enrich their parents, and harm their parents and children.

I thought to myself, people of his level can diagnose and rehabilitate children as experts, so with my current level, wouldn't I be able to step on the throne of the world's autism masters?

Isn't that hilarious? Because, no one can imagine that a so-called dean expert would pronounce almost two completely different conclusions on the diagnosis of the same autistic child in just a few minutes.

But at this point, I thought I would buy some cow dung from here at a cost, and see if my seed could bloom its own flowers for the sake of the child by absorbing the nutrients of their pile of cow dung!

So, when I think about it, I don't think about it, "If I follow your advice, what should I do now?" ”

Of course, when he heard me say this, his two eyes naturally continued to shine, and then I saw him twinkle his eyes, and he seemed to be ready to say to me: "Take a few classes first, and then do a transcranial magnetism, what do you think?" …”

However, he didn't expect it, I listened, and I didn't even bother to ask the price again, thinking, no matter how much you toss, it will be three or five thousand at most, right? But unexpectedly, before I could answer, he said to me in a two-choice way: "There are more than 800 transcranial magnetism, and there are more than 1,300, so what do you consider doing?" ”

I was a little numb to listen to it, thinking that you are talking so much nonsense, don't you just want me to waste more money to ferment your pile of cow dung? When I saw his heart with his teeth and claws, I didn't bother to think about it anymore, so I said impatiently: "Just do that expensive one!" “

Although I am reluctant to spend money, I know that it is easier to understand the essence of their diagnosis and rehabilitation operation by spending a little cost. Therefore, it is only by fermenting them to a little bone that it is easier for me to understand other problems in autism!

Therefore, I know that spending some money is equivalent to an unintentional waste for the child itself, but for the child's super dad, it is equivalent to spending the least price and obtaining the most valuable information in the shortest time. Therefore, at the moment when I decided to temporarily recover, I was already in the mindset of paying tuition fees, and finally accepted the persuasion, advice, and arrangement of this great expert.