Before you know it, it's a new day. I know that for many people, a new day represents a new harvest and a new hope!

But for me, it's the opposite, because every new day is undoubtedly on the verge of dwindling life that is unstoppable...

So, that's the main reason why I didn't want children in the first place. Because I am worried about myself, when my life is about to end, in the helpless parting of life and death, with infinite concern for my children, I will leave this world completely without any choice...

Heaven is ruthless, it is great love, and great love is doing everything...

Ruthless people reject the Dharma, and they suffer from affection and will, and they will eventually ascend to the hall of elegance...

So where is the child's future elegance?

In fact, in the past, even today...

Before that, my grandmother and mother had asked my grandmother and mother to take their children to play in a wider space by the river, but almost always they replied the same way: "The child doesn't want to go!" ”

At one point, I couldn't bear it anymore and said with a little anger: "If the child goes as soon as he calls, do you still need to do it now?" That's why it's all the more so..."

However, in desperation, I finally decided to suspend my job. I took the child again to the familiar street...

Anqing, a second- and third-tier city, is particularly cold in the morning of deep winter. When I was carrying the child, and he was still strongly insisting on walking the fixed route before, I suddenly did the same, quickly ran forward a few steps, then crouched down, and waited until he threw himself into my arms, and quickly threw him into the air...

When I put him down again, he seemed to have forgotten the specific route he was going to take, and happily and obediently, let me take my left hand and walk towards the river together...

The Yangtze River, which originates in the Tanggula Mountains of the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, has been lying like a cloud band falling on the earth since the Jurassic period. It seems to be never-ending lightness and surging, but it is always in quiet play, dominating countless streams and lakes, glowing with angelic sincerity, through thousands of years. Always like a loving mother, nurturing the hope and future of life...

At this time, on the bank of the Yangtze River, I looked at the child who was still reluctant to step into the park in the river area, so I said to him politely in a premeditated manner: "Go, Dad wants to go to the toilet..." Because I have long discovered that although he is not very old, he has a natural quality of sacrificing himself and achieving others! Therefore, I took advantage of him in my recovery and tried again and again to follow instructions.

But no one would have thought that his once soul-level advantages would become one of the factors inducing autism in an unsatisfactory acquired environment, because of the influence of his grandmother.

It's easy to see why, just like now, children want to play, because play is not only a child's nature, but more importantly, the main curriculum for children's healthy growth and exploration of the world...

If I am a busy parent, if I am a person who does not care about the feelings of the child, or like her grandmother and mother, because of the isolation and paranoia, and the mentality of her grandmother's subconscious radiation to drive the weak, then it will naturally be difficult to understand the child's feelings, and he will be depressed by fear and indifference. Then children will actively or passively give up their own needs, so that in order to accommodate adults, they will lose important opportunities for healthy growth and development!

In fact, it was this main reason that caused his mother to close off the conscious experience, which caused a disconnect with the subconscious mind. Although I have been trying hard to rehabilitate her, because of her parents' involvement, to this day, her three consciousnesses are still not fully integrated, but there are signs of rebound and regression! Therefore, today, they are separated from each other, forming a double negative force, and continue to imperceptibly affect the two children who are in their prime.

However, what is worse is that in his grandmother's paranoid personality, the mentality of revenge and driving the weak, in the cognition of thinking consciousness, with initiative, as long as it is allowed to indulge, except for his two children and two grandchildren, and his mother's family, will play an insignificant negative role in the conscious split.

However, in the face of their own children and grandchildren, they will play a negative role in disguise with a loving attitude in the unconscious radiation effect, and cause a lifetime of pain to their offspring in the experience of deformity and satisfaction, but they don't know it! This law of subconscious mutation, like the events in life, is formed in a dream without knowing what the dream is.

This phenomenon is also as the Buddha said, "Enchanted beings..."

If we discard the influence of actual behavior and thinking consciousness, purely in terms of the family atmosphere, then the family atmosphere is like the air of children, they will be easily imperceptible by the strong under the effect of conscious perception, forming the assimilation of psychology and character and even fate. Therefore, the psychology and character formed by the problems of his grandmother's original family assimilated her daughter, and today she assimilates her grandson. As a result, the mother and daughter duo are superimposed on each other, unconsciously continuing to assimilate her daughter and grandson, while radiating the fate of their lives!

This assimilation effect of psychology and personality and even fate is the basic principle of psychological pushing.

Therefore, in terms of children's education, especially autistic children with individual differences, the family environment is like a single-plank bridge for them, and it is easy for them to grow up and be careless.

In fact, since the child was brought back to the countryside by his grandmother, although she gave up her part-time job in order to take the child, however, the child has been in such a negative state for many times, because in essence, she has almost kept the child in such a negative state in order to obtain the achievement or sense of value brought by farming...

Imagine, in such an environment, children have been like this for a long time, so what will happen to children's growth and soul?

I think that due to the limited nature of growth, it will gradually become like bacteria in the laws of nature, and in order to better adapt and survive, there will be no doubt that it will move towards the direction of assimilation, mutation or abnormality! However, the truth is far more complicated than that.

Therefore, the reason why children are reluctant to enter the park is mainly due to the radiation and assimilation effects of mental restriction, which leads to the fact that children are like naughty little statues in this restricted assimilation principle, and gradually become docile elephants in the process of growing up, due to being restricted by long-term iron chains.

Because this iron chain has been unconsciously tethered to its heart and its destiny for a long time through the action of its body...

This is because the mind is the instrument that operates the body.

Because, the body is the generator of the mind and its carrier...

Because the mind and the body are one and the same, limiting one to the other...

Therefore, what I want to do today is to use his mutated stereotyped behavior to effectively lift the gray iron chain of his soul, help him recreate the red iron chain of happiness, and let him regain the freedom of his mind, hoping that his body and mind can quickly integrate into reality!

This principle is reversed, just like I used the happy red chain again, using the conscious consciousness as the starting point, awakening his impulsive desires, so as to impact his already limited mind, let him break free from the constraints of the negative gray chain, and at the same time implant the happy red chain consciousness to replace the gray chain consciousness in his previous subconscious. Then at the same time, the gray iron chain is completely removed, otherwise the gray negative iron chain will be temporarily ineffective because it continues to stay in his subconscious, although it is restricted by the red iron chain, but once it is stimulated by the corresponding situation, it is easy to be awakened, resulting in the impact of the red happy iron chain, forming a conflict, and forming a potential internal cause of splitting. Bury a lifetime of hidden dangers for your child.

In fact, his current mother, this hidden danger of division has been revealed, causing her to be stimulated accordingly, and often like two completely different people, but unaware of it.

My grandmother was a malignant conscious split with an imbalance, the same type as my own mother. The grandfather is a conscious benign split that is biased towards imbalance, and the saddest thing is the child's mother, who belongs to the two extremes of the unconscious benign and malignant split at the same time, but does not know it. Therefore, once it is hit, it is easy to form a person with true schizophrenia and severe depression.

And her parents and my mother, although they are also schizotypical, but only belong to the conscious schizotypal personality, so at most they cause chaos and pain in life, but will never be truly schizophrenic patients. Therefore, the confusion and pain caused by the division of the consciousness can help such people to become more complete in the process of escaping the pain.

However, the type of unconscious splitting of the child's mother, confusion and pain, will lead to three major consciousness faults due to the closure of the conscious consciousness, and when the stress limit is exceeded, it will form a typical schizophrenia and depression patient.

And the potential split that I used to have, was even more serious because I had multiple splits, as many as four, and so far, in the history of psychology, the most found was an American woman, who had thirteen splits in consciousness. Her splitting reaction is the same as the typical splitting reaction, which belongs to the subconscious behavior that is difficult for her own thinking and conscious consciousness to perceive. The difference with the typical split is that the typical one belongs to the twofold split, while she belongs to the thirteen-fold unconscious fault split that lacks the support of the conscious consciousness!

My quadruple split may be one of the more typical ones in the history of human psychology, because I can perceive that the four split selves often alternate with the corresponding environment. It can also exist in a stressful situation for a short period of time. This phenomenon, when I didn't integrate them in a unified way, they were like a family of four who often fought endlessly, and I was often exhausted. Therefore, in the process of integrating them unifiedly, I have no intention of developing four modes of thinking, the coexistence of the four personalities, and after obtaining the unified integration, I can drive them as I want, and let them at a critical time, when they are in a high-pressure state, they will be forced to go out at the same time, and they can obtain four times the usual IQ to serve me.

However, this state can easily lead to energy failure, which can lead to health problems. Therefore, there used to be long-term high pressure, which was the main cause of my body failure!

This type of person has a strong ability to unify in terms of the three major consciousnesses, as well as a strong ability to unify under the influence of ontological awareness. They have a strong cognitive ability of thinking consciousness, a deep, delicate and rich perception ability in the conscious mind, a solid subconscious storage ability in the subconscious, and at the same time the awareness of the self. As a result, such people are gifted and talented in literature, philosophy, monasticism, and scholarship. However, in the reality of life, because of the constraints of reason, they have formed a desire for the enjoyment of the flesh and senses, and have a strong transcendence, and have formed a mentality that is easy to satisfy, so it is easy to appear incompatible with reality.

Therefore, in terms of the formation of human psychological character and destiny, although the innate individual is an important factor, the acquired environment is also a major factor. However, all this, if it is reversed, should be equally feasible if it is smelted into a systematic method for shaping the mind and shaping destiny. So, although the truth is just beginning to be verified. But in any case, at least now it seems that the child has walked on the path of the park in the company of me under the principle of such character formation.

At this time, although he took a small step forward, he was still in a bit of rejection and blindness, with a confused look, like a lost bird, and some did not know how to look at this for a while, and then look at that. Despite his performance, there is no doubt that we have officially begun to enter the red chains that make happiness...

At that moment full of confidence and anticipation, my eyes were like radar everywhere I went, constantly searching and imagining to look around. I hope to quickly detect the fulcrum of his heart and help him to build the destiny of the earth...

The sun was slowly rising, and in the park, which was starting to be a little warmer, many children kept walking past him. But he still seems to be out of place with them like an angel who doesn't eat the fireworks of the world...

Just when I looked at it and finally found a sports Tai Chi turntable not far away, I seemed to be expected again, seeing the dawn again, seeing the dawn, and seeing the new hope it can bring to children!

When the aimless child, in my inducement and reluctance, walked to the moment of Tai Chi, as expected, he once again seemed to discover a new continent, his clear eyes began to flash with joy again, and he played with great interest...

This is yet another example of how stereotypical behaviour can be used as well. Then, in the process of increasing the scope of growth, it is naturally easy to disappear the original stereotyped behavior under the substitution effect as the interest expands. Or reach equilibrium. Because stereotypical behavior is also a joy for a child, and it is a way of self-growth. The difference is that when you go beyond the norm, you are prone to be too addicted to it and detach yourself from the external world, resulting in narrow interests. And narrow interests will reinforce his stereotyped behavior. It is inconsistent with reality, and is called abnormal by the so-called normal people!

Therefore, it can be shown that the stereotypical behaviors and narrow interests of autistic children, from the perspective of the acquired environment, are actually mainly due to the lack of family experience and activity space, resulting in weak vision and insufficient attachment. For example, if the dog has been ignored by the owner for a long time, and the space is limited, it will also become silent due to the wanton barking, which is also easy to cause the frequency of wagging the tail to decrease a lot when seeing the owner!

Therefore, stereotyped and narrow-minded vision and attachment are, in their original nature, problems caused on the basis of conscious family experience. As for this kind of problem, there is no doubt that there are innate individual differences and acquired environmental problems, and the dual effect is small. Otherwise, there is no point in healing. Only a small number of children excluded individual differences due to autism induced by improper parenting. And the child's mother is a typical example, which used to be closed due to the acquired environment.

Therefore, the difference between the two kinds of problems is that stereotype and narrow interest are essentially two extreme behaviors on the same issue. The problem of opportunism and attachment is essentially due to the lack of experience of family affection and the negative repression of family affection, which will lead to the same two manifestations, but due to the intersection of nature, they are essentially the same problems induced by different inducements.

If it is due to the lack of experience of family affection, in the normal environment of maternal love, the child may mainly show the behavior due to the dullness of conscious experience. However, if it is a negative repression of family affection, the child may be due to the overly sensitive conscious experience, resulting in the closed behavior in the habit of avoiding pain. When she was a child, she was depressed because of the escape from pain, and then gradually lost the function of conscious experience in isolation, resulting in a lack of conscious experience as the support of conscious experience and subconscious thinking, forming an unconscious benign potential split.

If we make an abstract analogy, then the problem of rigidity and narrowness is like a water bag of dissatisfaction. As with the loss of water balance at both ends, more water at either end will result in less water at the other end. The problem of attachment and reciprocal vision, whether caused by insufficient experience or negative repression, is like a reservoir of affection, connecting two similar lakes at the same time, and the state of the two lakes will appear in a corresponding state with the state of the reservoir of affection.

When I think of this, a cool breeze blows, and then look at the busy children. In the face of the rolling Yangtze River, the natural art of the devil's axe can't help but make me feel the magic and complexity of life again...

When I relaxed, in order to balance and induce more interest from him, I began to unfairly deprive him of the world of the turntable and began to shift his goal. Then he finally walked over to the other children who were playing curiously, encouraged by my constant encouragement.

At this time, he was facing the other children, and he was by his father's side, like a squirrel playing near the couch, and began to go back and forth between me and the other children in the occasional laughter of caution and curiosity...

Soon, a few children holding the ball came not far away, and I consciously directed his attention to the ball, hoping to use his familiar ball consciousness as a medium to link him to the integration and interaction with other children...

Sure enough, the child lived up to my expectations and began to ask me to accompany him to the child who was playing football...

It turned out that he only played with the ball at home occasionally. But at this time, because he has the familiarity with the ball, so, under the psychological radiation effect, he will naturally induce the benign consciousness of the subconscious because of the appearance of the ball, and because of the interest in the ball, the consciousness of home and security, under the radiation effect, indirectly transfer to other children...

Because at this time, although he has almost never been in contact with the strange world, in his subconscious, this ball of others in front of him can also induce his familiarity, safety, a sense of home, and other chain radiation reactions...

The roundness and rotation of the ball also conform to and satisfy the curiosity and happiness brought by his stereotyped behavior. Therefore, it will be easier for him to involuntarily produce, a conscious experience of curiosity and happiness induced by familiarity, and in the relaxation of security, it is easier for him to have curiosity and happiness from the corresponding things in front of him.

Therefore, in this effect, the three major consciousnesses will continue to affect his physical and mental changes on the basis of the original and the existing!

Perhaps this is indeed the case with the evolution of emotional behavior. Because, finally, under the effect of the common ground of the ball, in the psychological radiation effect, he began to grab the ball with other children to kick the ball, and will consciously play and interact with other children according to my requirements...

Although, this interaction is too little, and it is not a state of complete autonomy ...

Although, and only because of the medium role of the ball...

Although, for other children, it's not worth mentioning...

But for him, it was so important that it could even be said that it was another miracle ...

Because, for him, it is equivalent to breaking through the pipeline to the world again, to the palace of destiny...

It was he who had once again crossed the most important threshold of his life...

The wind is slow, the white clouds are long...

Before I knew it, with the pace of time, it was eleven o'clock again. In the sparsely populated park, the child seemed to have a look of reluctance, and finally at my request, he left the new paradise he had just developed...

Today's everything, perhaps, his mother and grandmother still don't think that it was difficult to do things in their eyes before, and I just used his nature to pay for people, and his mutated stereotyped behavior, so that the child will love this place tirelessly from now on...

With a satisfying harvest, when our father and son stepped into the house again, but we didn't expect that at the moment when the child just returned home, the original thousand-year-old hidden danger made a comeback!

Because, before we had time to change our shoes when we entered the door, and before we had time to enjoy the fragrant lunch, he suddenly asked to go out again in a little anxiety, stubbornly and strongly...

Looking at the child's eyes, in desperation, I think the child may be because of the depression and release caused by some symptoms of autism, in the mutual transformation and disappearance...

If this is the case, then you should be able to try to use the principle of full infusion in psychology to solve this problem completely!

When I thought of this, I began to re-plan according to the principle of psychology full infusion, hoping to get the easiest and most effective recovery method from it!

At this time, after thinking twice about holding the rice bowl, I said to my mother, who was coaxing him to eat: "In this way, tomorrow I will bring food and drink and a quilt, and go out with him to play until he is tired, until he strongly asks to come back, and until he cries and wants to come back..."

So, without hesitation, we took action the next morning, just after dinner. Although we didn't bring anything to eat, drink or quilts, our father and son seemed to have a feeling of refreshment, and began to walk downstairs again...