When you endure, you endure, when you let go, this is undoubtedly the principle of a happy life! French l9**** master Victor Hugo once said: "The widest in the world is the ocean, wider than the ocean is the sky, wider than the sky is the human mind." ”

Why is there eternal harm between people? This is mostly caused by some insistence that cannot let go of each other. If we can all start with ourselves and be tolerant of others, we believe that we will receive unexpected results. When you open a window for others, you will see a more complete sky.

Being human requires tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, a quality. Tolerance is very different from cowardice, cowardice and incompetence, tolerance is a great mind that can tolerate heaven and earth.

A tolerant person is broad-minded and can look at everything around him with a positive and optimistic attitude and an open-minded mind. It is not a sign of tolerance to be obsessed with trivial matters. Tolerant people never get angry at other people's faults, so it's easy to communicate and communicate with this kind of person. Tolerant people are more charismatic and more likely to have good relationships.

In life, there are many people who are always scheming with others, and as a result, the people around them have become their enemies, and they have become lonely people, putting themselves in an embarrassing and painful situation.

What can be done to change this? There is only one way, and that is to learn to be tolerant.

Cook is an employee of a company in the United Kingdom.

One day, when Cook drove his blue BMW back to the garage in the basement of his apartment, he found the yellow Ferrari parked so close to his parking space. "Why don't you leave me some space!" Cook thought indignantly.

The next day, Cook came home before the yellow Ferrari. Just as he was about to turn off the engine, the Ferrari drove in, and the driver pulled her car to a stop as close to Cook's as usual.

Cook couldn't take it anymore, he was suffering from a cold and a terrible headache, and he had just received a demand from the tax office, so Cook glared at the yellow Ferrari owner and shouted, "Look at you! Can you leave me some space? Stay away from me! ”

The yellow Ferrari owner also glared at Cook in return: "Who are you talking to!" She shouted as she left the car, "Who do you think you are, the president!" After saying that, he turned around and walked away with disdain for Cook.

Cook gritted his teeth and thought, "I'll let you taste my awesomeness." ”

On the third day, when Cook returned home, the yellow Ferrari had not yet returned to the garage, and Cook pulled the car next to her parking space, and she would not be able to open the door because of the concrete pillars.

But for the next few days, the yellow Ferrari returned to the garage before Cook every day, forcing Cook to suffer.

"Is it okay to keep going on like this? What to do? But Cook immediately had a great idea.

One morning a few days later, as soon as the hostess of the yellow Ferrari got into the car, she found an envelope on the windshield.

Dear Yellow Ferrari,

I'm sorry that the male owner of my house yelled at the mistress of your house that day. He didn't mean to target anyone, and it wasn't his usual style, but he got the letter from the mailbox that day with bad news. I hope that you and the mistress of your house will be able to forgive him.

Your neighbor blue BMW

The following morning, when Cook walked into the garage, he immediately spotted the envelope on the windshield, and he eagerly pulled out the letter paper, which read:

Dear Blue BMW,

My hostess has also been upset these days because she has just learned to drive a car and therefore can't park her car well. My hostess is glad to see the note you wrote, and she will be your good friend too.

Your neighbor yellow Ferrari

Since then, whenever the blue BMW and the yellow Ferrari meet again, their drivers greet each other with a happy smile.

The rest of the story is even more intriguing: the hostess of the yellow Ferrari is the chairman of a large company, and after a period of dating and investigation, she hires Cook as the manager of a department of the company.

Cook used a tolerant mindset to face life, and eventually made himself stronger—from an ordinary employee to a top management of the company.

We need to know that tolerance can be cultivated.

When I was in elementary school, I had a fight with a female classmate.

In memory, her eyes were large and bright; Keep a pure, ear-length short hair. In my opinion, she is beautiful, and although her two front teeth are a little protruding, they do not detract from her beauty, but add to her character.

For a long time, she was in my group and sat right in front of me.

I like to talk to her, joke with her, and play with her hair from time to time, but of course, I don't mean that, I'm not even 10 years old!

In our rural primary school, the girls were very conservative, not very friendly to the boys, and sometimes had a hint of "hostility". Perhaps, they have already understood a little about the affairs between men and women, and deliberately alienating male classmates is a special psychological factor. Of course, this female classmate will not be an exception. Every time I didn't have anything to say to talk to her, she either raised her eyebrows or scratched me with her fingernails.

In a Chinese class, we studied the lesson of Wei Wei's "Goodbye, Relatives". The text is written about the scene when the uncle of the volunteer army left Korea and returned to China after the victory of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, the enthusiastic Korean people said goodbye to them. There was a little girl named "Little Golden Flower" who couldn't help crying sadly when she saw that her uncle was leaving. At this time, this sentence appeared in the article: "Little Jinhua, don't cry, sing me another ballad of pounding rice!" This sentence immediately reminded me of the female classmate whose name was homophonic to "Little Golden Flower" in the seat in front of me, and I couldn't help but be happy. As soon as I got out of class, I yelled at her with a smile on my face: "Little Jinhua, don't cry, sing me another rice ballad!" "It was probably this time that her "claws" scratched a long trail of blood on the back of my hand. Alas, it bleeds! I was so angry that I punched and struck. Not to be outdone, she gritted her teeth and scratched around. I grabbed her by the hair, pushed and shoved, pushed against the wall, and slammed her head against the wall.

At this moment, her "savior" fell from the sky - the homeroom teacher suddenly rushed in. After the two sides let go, she just cared about parrying and didn't care about crying, and with a "wow" sound, she fell to the ground and rolled eighteen. The teacher didn't ask anything, scolded me for slapping my head and covering my face, told me to bend over and stand, and then went to pull her and coax her.

Neither of us paid attention to the other from then on.

When we were in fourth grade, we weren't in the first class. She left a grade. Later, we went to the same junior high school, and although we were not in the same grade, we would occasionally meet after school. Over the years, we've both changed a lot. I began to grow that dashing beard, and she also became a beautiful young girl. Every time they met, the two of them met slightly, and then turned their heads to the side in embarrassment. Maybe at that moment, we all remembered that scene in elementary school. During that time, I wanted to say sorry to her, but I never got the courage to do it; She may have silently forgiven me, but she never dared to show that tolerant smile.

After graduating from junior high school, there was basically no news of her. Unexpectedly, on the eve of the college entrance examination, a classmate in my class suddenly mentioned her, saying that she was his relative, and when he was playing at her house, she also asked me about it. It seems that "if you don't fight, you don't know each other", and after a fight, the memory is even deeper. However, to be honest, as I grew older and more experienced, the more guilty I felt, and I don't know how sorry it was that I had brutally hurt a dear classmate when I was young and ignorant!

I often wonder if we weren't so calculating in the first place; If we have learned to cherish and tolerate since we were children, all this unpleasantness will not happen.

Some people say that tolerance is a symbol of weakness, but in fact, tolerance that is suspected of weakness cannot be called true tolerance at all. Tolerance is a rare state of life – a state that requires practice and practice to achieve.

To be tolerant of others is to make way for one's own heart. Only in a tolerant world can people play a harmonious song of life!

Those who become big careers have big minds. Such a person will not spend his days worrying about trivial matters, focusing on petty profits all day long, and wasting a lot of time and energy. When a person has a broad mind, he will have more understanding, more tolerance, more gentleness, more pampering and unflattering bearing, and more able to experience tranquility and happiness in life.