Allowing a few villains in my heart and letting go of a few things that are not in line with my heart is also a test of my own mind.

The mistakes of relatives, the misunderstanding of friends, the credulity caused by false rumors, and the right and wrong created by rumors, in the face of these, anger and helplessness will dissipate, anger will not make things go away, only a temporary forbearance can help you restore the image you deserve, so as to get fair evaluation and praise.

Miss Wu, who works in a sales company, also has no "gas" after changing her opinion.

Ms. Wu was very angry at her boss's daily scolding. She has been the pearl of her parents since she was a child, and she has never been scolded, she really can't stand the scolding of her boss. Every time she brought the proposal to the manager, she always got an answer. It's like, "What is this?" Is it an essay for elementary school students? Gradually, she began to lose interest in going to work. When you meet that kind of boss who loves to scold, it's really moldy for eight lifetimes. Whenever she thought about it, she would be so angry that she couldn't sleep.

One day, she met her senior brother from college. Now working as a journalist. When talking to him about his troubles, the senior laughed about his experience: "I, ah, the original manuscript that I wrote all night was torn to shreds by my boss. Then, he suggested to Miss Wu that what her boss did should be a kind of education. If that doesn't get rid of your resentment, then you see the scolding as the price you have to pay in order to get your salary. ”

Since then. Ms. Wu's attitude has changed 180 degrees. When she sees her work as a necessity to get a salary, her mood changes and she is very happy.

Forbearance is not cowardice and deception, on the contrary, it needs more self-confidence and tenacity. "If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan", this sentence is true. The story of "Guilty of Petitioning" has been passed down through the ages: Lin Xiangru is like a prime minister, with a high and powerful position, but he does not care about Lian Po and is polite everywhere, why is this so? For the national community also. "Will be harmonious" will unite the whole country; If there is no suspicion in the country, the enemy will not dare to take advantage of it. Lin Xiangru's forbearance is precisely for the sake of national stability. Forbearance is a kind of vision and measurement, and a person who can deny oneself and forbearance is a manifestation of eloquence.

The ancients once said: "Endure the calm wind and waves, and take a step back from the sea valve sky." It can be seen that forbearance and concession can benefit oneself. But in real life, many people are unwilling to endure and are not willing to let go. Because in their view, "forbearance" and "letting" are manifestations of cowardice and incompetence. Therefore, in case of trouble, you have to fight for the high and low, straight, and do not fight for "winning" and do not let go. As everyone knows, it is precisely because I don't know how to take a step back, so I often smell the little things, and I don't regret it until I can't finish it, but it's too late at this time.

In life, we will inevitably meet some unreasonable people, even malicious people, and sometimes they will be bullied and abused by such people for no reason. Whenever such a thing happens, it often makes people feel unbearable. However, if you can't bear it, you will just become the other party's punching bag, and it will also bring unnecessary trouble to yourself. Patience can make the other person know their mistakes and even feel ashamed.

Once, on a bus, a young man spat on the ground, and the attendant saw him and said to him: "Comrade, in order to keep the inside of the bus clean and hygienic, please do not spit." Unexpectedly, the young man not only did not apologize after hearing this, but scolded loudly, said some unbearable swear words, and then spit three mouthfuls of phlegm on the ground fiercely.

The flight attendant was a young girl, and her face was flushed with anger, and tears were rolling in her eyes. The passengers on the bus talked a lot, some were upset for the attendant, some helped the young man to make a fuss, and some crowded over to watch the excitement. Everyone was concerned about how the situation would develop, and some people whispered that they should tell the driver to drive the car to the public security bureau so as not to get into a fight in the car for a while.

Unexpectedly, the female flight attendant calmed down, looked at the young man calmly, and said to everyone: "It's okay, please go back to your seats and sit down so as not to fall." As he spoke, he took out a paper from his pocket, bent down to wipe off the phlegm on the ground, threw it into a handful, and then continued to sell tickets as if nothing had happened. The car was silent, the young man's tongue suddenly shortened by half, and his face was unnatural, the car did not stop at the station, so he hurriedly jumped out of the car, just took two steps, ran back, and shouted to the attendant: "Sister! I'm convinced. The people in the car laughed, and praised the flight attendant for not being simple, he was really able to bear it, although he didn't scold back, he subdued the boy.

This female flight attendant is indeed very competent. In the face of the insults, if she could not resist arguing with the young man, she could only escalate the situation; scolded him, and damaged his own image; Silent, it seems too dull again. She invited everyone to go back to their seats and sit down, not only expressing her concern for everyone, but also diluting the matter in front of them and relieving the tension; She bent down and wiped away the phlegm as if nothing had happened, and at this time silence was better than sound, more convincing than any words expressed, not only touching the young man, but also educating everyone.

Patience is indeed an indispensable quality in life. Being a broad-minded person is not only a charm, but also an element of success.

How many people can be accommodated in a person's mind, how many people can win respect and love. A wise man will always endure and resolve all kinds of unhappiness in life, use inclusive wisdom to cut off the endless long line of retribution, and feel the happiness of smiling and hating with a grand mind.