Section 8 Learn to forget something
Each of us lives in a world of troubles. More or less always surrounded by worries, it is not important to have troubles, the important thing is that you learn to let go of your worries - learn to forget. Forget the troubles, forget the trivial things in life, forget the unsatisfactory in life. Only by forgetting these can we travel lightly and live more freely. If we can't forget and take care of everything, then those troubles, those unpleasantness, and those sorrows will only accumulate more and more, and it will only make us feel more and more tired in life.
In the family, the difficult scriptures are one after another, and the weight of life never disappears, it just takes turns to visit us in various different ways. If we don't learn to forget, we will always bear the burden one after another, and one day, heavy pressure will destroy us completely.
In love, perhaps we once loved so deeply that we couldn't face the reality of our beloved lover's departure. However, we should learn to forget, let time dilute the pain, and feel the beautiful life in the future again.
In life, we may encounter many intentional or unintentional injuries, and we can't pay too much attention to them, because there is never an end to retribution, and it will only make our lives wasted in hurting each other.
We should learn to forget. We often see the words "close the door with your hand" at the door. In fact, these four words can be applied to life, very philosophical, for the past sorrows, resentment, frustrations, we should also do "close the door".
The past is in the pastWhen you can't change some facts that have happened, you have to learn to forget.
It is said that he is a very famous psychology teacher. One day, when the students were praising the unique craftsmanship of the cup, the teacher deliberately pretended to miss, and the coffee cup fell to pieces on the concrete floor, and the students kept crying out of regret. The teacher pointed to the fragments of the coffee cup and said, "You must feel sorry for this cup, but this kind of pity will not restore the coffee cup to its original shape." In the future, if something irreparable happens in your life, remember the broken cup. ”
It was a very successful quality education lesson, and the students learned through the broken coffee cup that when people cannot change the doom of failure and misfortune, they must learn to forget it, and not blindly complain and regret.
There are too many things in life that are not worthy of our sorrow, we must face the trivial things in life with a peaceful mind, and learn to see open, look down, look far, and see through. Learn to enjoy the happiness that should be in life and tolerate a suffering, and you will have an opportunity to surpass yourself. Use our wisdom to shut up all sorrows, and embrace every two steps of our life with a transcendent state of mind, so as to win a broader life.
The British politician George believed that he himself was able to succeed mainly because he understood at a young age that when he walked through a door, he closed it. In other words, we have to close off yesterday because we can't go back, so why should we live in the old days: repeat the past? Double the burden on our hearts? A little more useless tears?
"Forgetting what's behind" is really a very clever art, otherwise the past will block the present, and it will also stab you in the future, and the person who will write this in the future feels that some of the many things in the past are too sad to forget, so he throws them down with all his might, rushes forward, and tries to move forward.
The protagonist of Hugo's immortal masterpiece "Les Miserables", Val Jean, was originally a hard-working, upright, and kind person, but he was poor and had a hard time. In order not to starve his family, he was forced to steal a loaf of bread, was caught red-handed, judged a "thief", and was imprisoned.
After being released from prison, he couldn't find a job everywhere and was snubbed and ridiculed by the world. Since then, he has really become a thief, taking sheep by the hand, stealing chickens and dogs.
The police have been tracking him down, trying to get evidence of his crime and send him to prison again. Again and again, he escaped.
On a snowy night, he fainted on the road and was rescued by a priest. The priest took him back to the church to eat and lodging, but when the priest fell asleep, he swept away all the silverware in the priest's room. Because he has decided that he is a bad person, he should do bad things.
No, on the way to escape, he was arrested by the police, and this time it can be said that everyone has stolen goods. When the police escorted Jean to the church and asked the priest to identify the stolen items, Jean thought in despair: "It's over, I can only spend my life in prison!" ”
But the priest gently said to the police: "I gave him these silverwares." He was in too much of a hurry, and he forgot to take a more expensive silver candlestick, so I'm going to get it! ”
Jean's heart was shaken.
After the police left, the priest said to Jean Valjean: "Let the past pass, start over!" ”
From then on, Jean was determined to change his mind and become a new person. He moved to a new place, worked hard and was motivated. Later, he succeeded and spent his life helping the poor and doing things that were beneficial to society.
Those who blindly immerse themselves in the shadow of the past will certainly not belong to them in the future.
Time doesn't turn back, and it doesn't stand still. Life is a process, just as nature has spring, summer, autumn and winter, as calm, as simple, and as natural. There is a lyric: "Yesterday is short after all, tomorrow is forever." ”
We often wear ourselves out for the sake of fame and fortune that we value too much; He often indulges in all kinds of misunderstandings about others towards himself, and lingers on the contempt of others. So, I planned to create a romantic and warm world for myself, but in the end, I put one spiritual shackle after another on myself, and the blue sky on the empty heart was unconsciously smeared with gray, and with the footprints of growth deeply rooted in my heart, always inadvertently tormenting and destroying myself.
In life, we are happy, painful, troubled, and longing. There are many people and things that we should remember and cherish. But in many cases, we should learn to forget, to forget those confusions that do not need to be remembered. No longer wallow in the sad past, no longer bound by the glory that passed yesterday.
What should be forgotten, what should be left behind, we must be clear, we can't live with the grass and trees, we can't be drunk and dream of death, waste our lives, we must make a difference. Only in this way will we be waiting for a glorious tomorrow!
Whether it is sweet or sad, whether it is humiliation or glory, all this is in the past, it is no longer important, we must look at the past with an inclusive heart, drop the load, look up at the hopeful tomorrow, and don't stop because of everything in the past.