In real life, we can often see some people who are full of fairness in their hearts, seeking fairness for themselves everywhere, and maybe you are one of them.

In the company, you may complain that others do as much or even less than you, but they are paid more than you.

I was annoyed by the fact that it was unfair to think that the income of famous singers was too high and they couldn't even afford a house.

It feels very unfair to think that when someone else does something illegal and undisciplined, you can always get away with it, but you can't even run a red light.

"You went out last night, and it's so unfair to keep me at home tonight." If the other person doesn't accept your opinion, you're indignant.

Always repay the kindness of others: if you invite me to dinner, I should treat you back, or at least give you a bottle of wine.

There is a string in everyone's heart, and that is to seek balance between themselves and others everywhere. Along the way on the path of justice, they gradually realized that even the pure and noble Jesus would be criticized and criticized by many people. There is no absolute fairness in life.

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Xiao Liu recently had a "fierce battle" with his wife, the reason was that his wife's company divided some hygiene products, and after discussion, the young couple was going to take out some things and give them to the two elderly people. Then Xiao Liu distributed it equally according to the principle of reasonableness and fairness, and gave everyone equally.

But his wife did not want to do this, and she thought that if she had given more to her mother's family, she should give it to her mother; And Xiao Liu thinks that they are also old people, and there is no need to divide them.

They began to argue until their anger burned. Before the things were delivered, the two had a tense relationship, which greatly affected their mood.

It's really an interesting story.

In life and work, it is the wisest choice not to be demanding, to accept unfair facts, and to treat them with a normal heart.

Anne is a middle-aged lady who has been having a hard time working and living. Once, she was introduced to a professional writer as an editor. The writer agreed with her that she would be paid according to the amount of work, and that she would be paid a dollar for each manuscript edited. Because of the large amount of content to be edited and her lack of experience, it took Anne nearly ten days to finish a manuscript. She felt that she had suffered too much, so she complained to the writer: "Don't you think you are being paid too little? ”

The writer said unhappily: "What do you think is fair according to a number?" ”

Anne asked for a time-based pay, $25 per hour. The writer agrees. When Anne finished writing her second novel, she realized that something was wrong again. It turned out that when she wrote her first novel, it took ten days because she had no experience and put in a lot of ineffective labor. Now it's much faster, it only took two days to finish the second part, so I only got $750. She was extremely unbalanced and asked to change the way she was paid. The writer said with annoyance: "This is the way you ask for payment, what is there to dissatisfaction with?" If you're going to be unhappy with something, no one else will be able to satisfy you. "The writer suspended Anne's job, and she was once again unemployed.

Life does have its unfair side, absolute fairness does not exist, and the world is not created according to the principle of fairness. If we encounter something unfair, don't complain all day long, in fact, it is useless to complain, he will not change your situation in the slightest, and it will only increase your troubles in vain.

Nature has an imbalance in nature, for example, leopards eat wolves, wolves eat badgers, badgers eat rats, and rats eat ...... One only has to look at nature to understand that these are always unfair to the weak who are threatened, the strong survive, the weak perish, the survival of the fittest, there is no fairness at all.

Life may not be as good as we think, and it is biased in the treatment of everyone. Some people have been very smooth since they were born, everything is smooth sailing, there are no ups and downs, and their careers and marriages are envied by others; But some people are destined to be unlucky from birth, career setbacks, hardships in life, and emotional frustration are all bothering him, and sometimes even small plans are difficult to realize. Actually, this is normal life. In fact, there will always be certain differences between people. If someone else's situation is better than yours, then no matter how much you complain, you will not change your own situation.

Some people say: fairness is the fairness of the strong. There is some truth to this. Fairness does not ask others to give you, we strive to be strong. In ancient and modern times, many geniuses can rationally recognize this. They don't demand fairness, they strengthen themselves, and they stand out from the complaints of ordinary people. As long as we can calm down, not be entangled by it, and not let it become a rope to control ourselves, unfairness will naturally slowly turn into fairness. You don't have a good family background, but after a long period of tenacious efforts, you finally got outstanding results, which is from unfair to fair; You didn't get a job title this time, but you endured it and started by improving your work, and finally you became the sole leader of the company, which also changed from unfair to fair.

In fact, there is no such thing as absolute fairness in this world, and you can never find absolute fairness if you look for it like you are looking for myths and legends.

There will always be unsatisfactory errors on the balance of pay and return, and the painstaking pursuit may only be exchanged for a body of exhaustion, and the sweat is not always exchanged for the expected harvest. Why should you dwell on unfairness? One of the reasons why people's psyche is often hurt is the demand that everything must be fair. In fact, there is no absolute fairness in the world, so we don't have to hold a fair ruler to measure everything.