In life, you shouldn't be concerned about everything, and you should be confused when you should be confused. In real life, there are indeed many people who are too calculating, and some people are shrewd, they are willing to show their intelligence everywhere, and they love to be more honest with others.

In a lifetime, some people live a chic life, while others live too tired, and the root cause is that they are too serious in life.

Of course, you can't be cynical and play life, but you can't be too serious and admit death. "If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if people are observant, they will have no friends", if you are too serious, you will not be used to anything, and you will not even tolerate a friend, which is equivalent to isolating yourself from society.

The mirror is very flat, but under the high-magnification glass, it becomes an uneven mountain; Something that looks clean to the naked eye, but when you take it to the microscope, it's full of bacteria. Imagine, if we "wear" a magnifying glass and a microscope to live, I am afraid that we will not even dare to eat; If you use a magnifying glass to look at other people's shortcomings, I'm afraid that guy is unforgivable and hopeless.

Some people claim to be smart people, looking shrewd, always holding the determination of "tooth for tooth, eye for eye", putting on a posture of fighting for every inch of land, to face some trivial things in life. Their principle of life is not to suffer any losses, but in fact, it is precisely such "smart people" who allow themselves to suffer big losses.

The bus will always be crowded, and when there is never time, Dandan went home from work on this day and waited for the bus at the stop sign in front of the company. After a long wait, I finally came here.

There were a lot of people in the bus, and only a bunch of heads could be seen in the black. Dandan squeezed hard upwards and finally squeezed into the car. But when squeezing the car, I accidentally stepped on the fat sister-in-law next to me. The fat sister-in-law's loud voice shouted: "What are you stepping on, are you blind?" Dandan wanted to apologize, but when he heard this, he couldn't hold his face and shouted: "I stepped on you, what's the matter?" ”

So, the good show of the two women began. The two sides hurled insults at each other and added bad words. With the escalation of firepower, the two actually moved their hands, the fat sister-in-law gave Dandan a look first, and Dandan immediately retaliated with a tooth for a tooth, both hands went up, and scratched the fat sister-in-law's face.

Dandan's nails were long, and they scratched the fat sister-in-law's face, but she was not hurt much. Thinking of this, Dandan couldn't help but feel proud.

Finally, at NNT's house, as soon as she entered the house, Dandan poured bitter water on her husband. But she didn't think she had suffered a loss, but scratched the wicked woman's face, so when she said this, her face was bright, and then her husband looked at her and asked in surprise, "What about the gold earring on your right ear?" As soon as Dandan touched his ears, the earrings were already gone......

We often think that a tooth for a tooth is the biggest principle for not suffering a loss, and we always think that others take advantage of ourselves, and we must try our best to take three points back, otherwise we will suffer a big loss, but is the truth really as simple as we imagined? Actually, it's not, because when you triumphantly think that you haven't suffered anything, in fact, you may have suffered a big loss.

One man said that one night he and his wife went to his father-in-law's house for dinner, and during the meal, he mentioned that it was a serious mistake to postpone the construction of the highway again. But the father-in-law said he was very happy. "That highway shouldn't have been built in the first place, and if it was built, it would destroy a historically important valley," he said. ”

"But I spend more than an hour commuting back and forth every day." "I told him that I thought there were mixed pros and cons to building that highway, and that there were four times as many vehicles on the road now as there were ten years ago, and there was no increase in the number of roads. My Lord Tarzan then complained that I was too selfish to care about my own convenience and not care at all about monuments of great significance. ”

"I couldn't take it anymore and said, 'Progress can't be stopped.'" Now that it was over, my father-in-law immediately got up and walked away, and when he left, he said: I don't have to listen to your nonsense in my own home. ”

"I wish it had never happened. If I had been a little more alert to how sensitive he was to the subject, I might have tactfully said, 'We disagree, that's fine.' In this way, unpleasantness can be avoided. ”

People live in the world, face all kinds of relationships, and are surrounded by all kinds of people. It's impossible to be particularly serious when dealing with different people in your life. If you are too careful, you will find that in life, it is difficult to be a person, and it is even more difficult to do everything according to your wishes.

How do you feel about interacting with people? In the intricacies of interpersonal communication, if you want to be serious, you can find four or five things every day that make people angry, such as being framed, being implicated, being ridiculed, and so on.