Chapter 305: The Controversy About the Inside Story of Confucius's Marriage
"Revealed! Revealed! Big Revealed! The inside story of Sage Kong's marriage! ”
In the live broadcast room, someone swiped this message on the screen to remind all fans.
When other fans saw this, they were disgusted. But there are many Confucius fans who think about it carefully and think that is the case!
What is it that history has preached about our Confucianism and its founder, Confucius, but very little about his wife and his son, Kong Li?
Under this person's "big revelation", many people immediately paid attention.
Oh, yes! It is said that when Sima Qian wrote "Historical Records" to write about Confucius's burial, his pen and ink were very heavy, but he did not write about the burial of Confucius and his wife?
Early! Some people smeared Confucius, saying that Confucius "gave a wife".
Out of wife! It is the meaning of divorce and divorce later. said that Confucius was developed, so don't marry a wife. What else to say: Confucius's marriage was an arranged marriage or something.
He also said that Confucius's wife, our teacher, disliked Teacher Confucius for being poor and would not make money. People make money when they run schools, but you lose money when you run schools. Why? Your tuition fee is low, huh? Three strips of dried meat? That's too little for tuition, isn't it?
And there's more! You don't pass the political review if you accept students, "there is no class for teaching", you accept any student. Outcome! Cause trouble for yourself and wipe your students' butts every day.
It is precisely because the teacher is so annoying that after Mr. Kong developed, he didn't like this wife like "Mr. Lu" later.
Speaking of the inside story of Confucius's marriage, many fans think of "Mr. Lu" and speculate that Confucius's marriage situation may be similar to Mr. Lu, in name only. No! Mr. Lu is a copy of Mr. Kong.
Some people smeared Mr. Kong, simply guessing that Mr. Kong was having an affair. The most direct evidence is that when Confucius was defending the country, he may have had a leg with Nanzi. Otherwise? Why is Zilu angry?
Zilu knew the inside story, but under the pressure of public opinion from teachers and classmates, he didn't dare to continue to be angry and didn't dare to speak out.
For the sake of the saint's reputation, the people of later generations concealed the inside story of the saint's marriage. The disgraceful things were concealed, and the good ones were picked out.
So! What happened to Confucius's marriage has become a historical mystery.
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Some people say: Confucius had a marriage contract, which was set before the death of Confucius's father. After the death of Confucius's father, Confucius's mother told Confucius about the marriage contract. Therefore! At the age of nineteen, Confucius went to the Song Kingdom to fulfill the marriage contract.
It is said that Confucius did not go to the Song Kingdom to find the glory of his ancestors and the lost soul, but! Deliberately to fulfill the marriage contract.
The live broadcast just now happened to broadcast Confucius talking about it, it seems! Confucius went to the Song Kingdom to fulfill the marriage contract, which should be true and credible. It's just that! Say it on the live broadcast! Confucius himself didn't know who he would fulfill the marriage contract with when he went to the Song Kingdom?
Because! Father Confucius died early, and he didn't spend much time with Mother Confucius, and he didn't specifically talk about the marriage contract. Furthermore! According to Confucius's mother, that was the content of Confucius's father's conversation with his friends before he married Confucius's mother.
At that time, a friend of the Song Kingdom, perhaps a world friend, encouraged Confucius's father to marry another house and have a healthy boy, so he made such a promise.
Because no one thought at that time that Father Confucius would really marry Yan and give birth to Confucius. It was probably when Father Confucius sighed later that he talked about it to Mother Kong. Because it's just casually said, so! Mother Confucius did not specifically write down the name of the friend of the Song Kingdom (Shijiao).
After all, Mother Confucius and Father Confucius have not lived together for many years, so! didn't take this matter seriously, so that Confucius didn't remember who it was.
There is another reason: Confucius's ancestral home is in the Song Kingdom, and although he moved to the Lu Kingdom, he has always maintained contact with the Song Kingdom. Ancestral home! People from my hometown! Isn't it? So! There are many people who know their ancestral hometown, and it is understandable that Confucius did not remember who it was.
At this point, Confucius has a marriage contract, and it is settled. Confucius should have a marriage contract, and it was for this reason that Confucius decided to go to the Song Kingdom to find his ancestors.
Searching for ancestors was the main reason why Confucius went to the Song Kingdom, to find the glory of his ancestors and to find the lost soul. And another reason for him to go to the Song Kingdom was to fulfill the marriage contract.
Although I don't know who to fulfill the marriage contract with, this is the marriage contract set by Confucius's father after all.
Behave! Keep your word!
People cannot stand without faith!
Therefore! Confucius went to the Song Kingdom at the age of nineteen for two reasons.
There are also fans speculating? It is possible that the elder brother Meng Pi asked Confucius to go to the Song Kingdom. Mengpi was older than Confucius, and he had relatively more opportunities to get along with Confucius's father. Maybe? He vaguely knew that Confucius had a marriage contract, so he encouraged and supported Confucius to go to the Song Kingdom to find his ancestors.
After fans finished talking about whether Confucius had a marriage contract, they began to talk about whether Confucius was happy or not?
Nature! Most people say that Confucius's marriage was unhappy.
Because! Confucius was a careeraholic, and for the sake of his career, he did not care about his family. Or rather! He gave all his home to his wife!
If the relationship between the husband and wife was good, Teacher Kong and Shi Niang would not have only given birth to a pair of children. In that era when there was no family planning, as long as you could have children, you could have countless children.
When a man sleeps with a woman, he will have children.
Why? What about Confucius having only one pair of children?
So! Most people speculate that Confucius's marriage was unhappy.
There are also many fans who think that the teacher must be bad! Otherwise? Why didn't any students mention her?
There are 3,000 disciples of Confucius, and there are ten philosophers and seventy-two sages in Confucius, how? No one mentioned Shi Niang?
There is another piece of evidence: after the death of the master, Kong Carp cried for his mother, but was reprimanded by Confucius. Therefrom! Some people believe that the relationship between the husband and wife of the saint is not good.
Guess from this! The teacher is not good, and the students are reluctant to mention it.
When someone smeared Shi Niang, someone stood up again, saying that many emperors in history had divided Shi Niang.
For example: In 1008 AD, she was posthumously named "Mrs. Yunguo" by Zhao Heng of Song Zhenzong. In the third year of Yuan Zhishun, that is, in 1332 A.D., she was crowned as the "Lady of Dacheng Most Holy Wenxuan Wang". In the eighth year of Jiajing of the Ming Dynasty (1529 AD), Confucius changed his name to "the most holy teacher", and she was also called "the wife of the most holy teacher". After the death of Confucius, "that is, the hall where Confucius lived is the temple", the Qi official clan was sacrificed together with Confucius, the Tang Dynasty began to have a dormitory temple, there was a statue in the early days, when the Qing Yongzheng fire was rebuilt, it was already the tablet of the god when it was rebuilt, and the woodcut shrine was covered, and the shrine was placed in front of the table.
When I saw those people smearing Confucius and then smearing Shi Niang, it aroused strong dissatisfaction among many scholars and fans.
These scholars believe that Confucianism and Confucianism were studied historically, rather than biographies of Confucius and his mother. So! There is less record of the inside story of Confucius's marriage.
So! The saint cannot be discredited because of this!
We can't smear the ancients and the old people out of nothing!
People have been dead for more than 2,000 years, and you still smear them based on speculation, which is ulterior motives and immorality!
"Let's stop arguing and keep watching the live stream!"
"Look at what the truth of history really is? Anyway? The master raised Kong Carp as an adult, and she had infinite merit. ”
"You people? I want to ask you guys? Are you studying Confucianism? Or is it to deliberately smear Confucius? Confucius was an ancient man thousands of years ago, did he offend you? Even if there is a problem with Confucianism, you can't smear Confucius and Shi Niang like this? Isn't it? ”
(End of chapter)