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In terms of legal definitions, there is a clear distinction between criminal acts and lawful acts......

What kind of behavior is a legal act and what kind of behavior is illegal is clear and real in the law!

It's like everyone knows that in the law, swearing and hitting are two completely different concepts......

The former is more often involved in disputes between people, but the latter is often related to criminal offenses......

Unlike swearing, which often doesn't require legal liability, hitting can be considered a crime if the other person is hurt enough......

Because of this, in real life, there are often many quarrels between people......

However, between people, the situation of escalating to the point of doing something because of a quarrel between people is relatively rare, and the reason for this is actually because at the legal level, scolding and beating are two completely different behaviors!

Law is, by its very nature, made up of all kinds of rules and regulations!

The vast majority of people's behavior can be put into this framework to define, a person's behavior or not is illegal, many times it is a clear thing, violating that law, what kind of punishment should be in, many times within a fixed range......

In the world of law, right is right and wrong is wrong!

What is innocent is innocent, and what is guilty is guilty!

A lot of the time between right and wrong is black and white!

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In the humanitarian order, however, the situation is completely different!

In the humane order, even the same behavior may lead to completely different conclusions due to different causal relationships!

In the humane order, whether an act is right or wrong, and whether it is appropriate to do so, or whether it is mishandled, in many cases, it is not about the thing itself, but about the perspective of cause and effect!

For example, a person chooses to commit suicide by jumping off a building......

From a legal point of view, this is of course a suicide case in the pure sense, and the main person in charge of the case should fall on the suicide himself, because no matter how much external pressure there is, whether or not to choose to take the last step is actually in the hands of the suicide himself......

However, from a humanitarian point of view, if a person chooses to commit suicide by jumping off a building, then it is necessary to analyze the reasons for the person's suicide by jumping off the building......

For example, if it is because the person is unable to repay the money owed to a loan shark, then it depends on why the person is borrowing a huge amount of money that he cannot repay, and if it is for gambling, then it is naturally self-inflicted, and there is nothing to sympathize with......

However, if it is a loan to treat one's relatives, then it is also a matter worthy of sympathy, and if behind this story, there is a loan shark group secretly fueling the flames or even an overt trap and lure, then there is no doubt that the loan shark group should also bear part of the responsibility for this person's suicide......

In the final analysis, the same suicide by jumping off a building because of financial problems, different specific circumstances will actually greatly affect other people's perceptions of this suicide......

For example, if you jump off a building because of gambling debts, then no one will sympathize, but if you choose to jump off a building because you have been defrauded of money, then people will tend to severely punish those fraudsters to get justice for those who committed suicide by jumping off the building, because there is a direct causal relationship between the two!

On the other hand, if you jump off a building because of emotional things......

Then it is also necessary to specifically analyze what kind of emotional turmoil this person has experienced, in this emotional turmoil, the reason that eventually leads to the breakup will be because of his own personality problems, or because of the other party's personality problems, if it is the fault of the other party, then this person will be sympathized, and on the contrary, if the other party's behavior is not improper, but the suicide simply chooses to commit suicide because of his own fragile psychological capacity, then it is the suicide's own problem!

And to put it another way......

If the suicide was a child, the situation would be different!

Children are different from adults, children themselves are not capable of bearing criminal responsibility, simply put, no matter what kind of mistakes children make, theoretically speaking, there should be no children themselves to bear any responsibility, this is undoubtedly a thing!

If an adult chooses to jump off a building because of his fragile psychological capacity, then no one will sympathize with him, in the final analysis, it is more just his own problem......

But if a child chooses to jump off a building because of poor psychological tolerance, then there is no doubt that the responsibility will definitely not be on the child, it must be the responsibility of both the school or the parents, and one or both of them must exert too much pressure on the child, causing the child's emotions to be out of control, so as to make people regret the behavior!

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In this case, it is pointless to discuss what is right and wrong!

Children themselves can't be wrong, so it's only adults who are wrong!

When children make mistakes, it's just that adults don't teach them well!

In this case, any quibble in itself is cold and pale!

That is, because of this, so many times, as long as a similar incident occurs, people will always put more responsibility on the school and parents, after all, the psychological tolerance of children, itself can not be strong, if children go to extremes, then no matter what the starting point of parents and schools is, in fact, it can be said to be a meaningless thing!

Many school leaders will always explain that there is nothing wrong with their teacher's education method, and the other children are fine, only this one child chooses to jump off the building, but in fact, in a sense, education is not allowed to make any mistakes, and if someone is forced to die under education, then the educator must bear a certain responsibility......

There's no doubt about that!

In a sense, education itself is a process of teaching students according to their aptitude, for different children, the teacher itself should also give different education methods according to their character and psychological capacity, which is a correct educational concept, rather than indiscriminately treating everyone equally, you know, different people, psychological tolerance and psychological bottom line are often completely different!

Some children are more lively and active, more outgoing and cheerful, more like to make trouble and pranks and the like, this kind of bear children even if they occasionally beat, will not let their psychology have any shadow and trauma, for them, they know very well that they have to pay the price for being naughty, and they are happy to pay such a price......

And some children usually have a quiet and introverted personality, such children rarely make mistakes, but the psychological tolerance is much weaker than those bear children, the skin is also thinner, and they care more about other people's opinions of themselves, so many times, it is often difficult to accept some more direct criticism or punishment, in fact, many students who choose to commit suicide in school, not every student is the kind of poor student with poor academic performance, and there are many good students who occupy a lot of proportion in this group of people. Because it is difficult for them to accept the matching and scolding of the teacher, and it is also difficult to accept the punishment with a certain insulting nature......

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In fact, don't say it's a child!

Even in the adult world, different adults will have their own completely different bottom lines and acceptance!

Only people with similar bottom lines can play with each other, and on the contrary, if each other's concepts and bottom lines are different, then it is difficult to get along well no matter what!

For example, so-called jokes and pranks in real life!

Some people are more receptive to some jokes and pranks, even if they are relatively bad jokes and pranks, they can often accept them calmly, and they will repay each other in the same way in the future......

This kind of person is generally more cheerful, so they don't care much about those things in the summary, and they are very lenient about the bottom line of jokes, so they are often acceptable to different degrees of jokes and pranks......

In their opinion, as long as they reach a certain level of intimacy with each other, then it is not a big deal to make some relatively bad jokes or pranks, they can accept such jokes and pranks, and they also feel that if they and the other person change places, they will also be able to accept their own jokes and pranks......

In fact, there are not a few such people......

In life, this type of person often has a high resistance to setbacks, and is often very arrogant in life, although they often do wrong things and make stupid mistakes, but they can quickly clean up their mood, get back on the road, and do things well......

However, not everyone is this type!

In this world, there are still some people who are often very clear about the dividing line between pranks and jokes!

Innocuous jokes can be tolerated, but pranks seem to them to be completely intolerable!

Many pranksters always like to base their happiness on other people's pain, and if the other person shows disgust, they will laugh at the other person and say that the other person can't afford to make jokes......

However, in reality, there are indeed a lot of people in this world who can't afford to joke!

And this is also a very normal thing!

Many people tend to be introverted and rational in their personalities, so they rarely make some bad jokes, because they know very well that some bad jokes themselves are often easy to affect the friendship between each other, and in order to avoid this happening, they often will not do such stupid things!

This point, just like there is a custom of marriage in many places, in the eyes of some people, this is completely acceptable trickery, but in the eyes of other people, this so-called marriage trouble, in fact, is a vulgar and disgusting behavior, only the kind of people who have no quality will do this kind of thing without quality, and the real civilized people are absolutely disdainful!

Speaking of which, this is nothing more than a difference in perception!

The so-called Tao is different and does not conspire with each other, and this is the truth!

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