Xue Langjing asked her eldest sister.

Has grandma ever scolded us for being girls, has she ever scolded my mother for not being able to give birth to a son, and does my mother love us? Like us? Have you ever scolded us for being girls?

The answer is undoubtedly, they have all been scolded, and her mother doesn't like them, and she didn't help them when her grandmother beat and scolded them, and even listened to her grandmother, which is what all of them have heard and felt.

The four Xue Linjing sisters were speechless.

Then she asked Xue Shanjing and the four sisters, and it was the same answer, but their mother gave birth to a son, so she didn't hear that she was scolded by her grandmother for not being able to give birth to a son, but their mother was even more obedient to her grandmother, and when her grandmother beat and scolded them, she would stand on her grandmother's side in most cases, and even teach these useless girls for her mother-in-law, and she was not as good as her mother's second aunt, her mother was just silent in most cases, and did not defend her daughter, but she was not very good at being an accomplice.

Seeing that they were silent, Xue Langjing continued.

But have you ever thought that before my mother and aunt gave birth to us, maybe they also thought like you, and they also thought that the child they gave birth to would definitely hurt.

But with the change of the years, the grinding of the environment, and all the gossip, pressure, and accusations around them, they are not giving birth to a son, but a girl, they are defeated by reality, and they have resentment towards their daughters, and they become disliked, and even disgusted and hated.

They weren't necessarily what they were before they got married, and they were once daughters of someone else's family. You all know the situation of their mother's family, how likely is it that they were once well fed? Do they also resent their mothers and grandmothers? Why let them go hungry, why not let them be fed, they may have thought the same at that time as we do now.

They went from thinking like us to being like this, how can you be sure that you won't be like this?

Looking at our peers in our village, are most of the sisters like us, who don't have enough to eat and do a lot of work? They also resent their mothers and grandmothers. Look at these aunts and grandmothers, are most of them the same as our grandmothers and aunts?

It may be better, less beating and scolding, less work, and more food, but how good can it be? Their past is who we are, and our future is their present.

These words, no one has ever said these words to Xue Linjing and her sisters, and they have never thought about what Xue Langjing said before, after she analyzed it step by step, it seems that every sentence she says can happen, so will they become like this?

Xu was that these words were too shocking for them, and after saying a while, Xue Langjing made them think for a while before continuing to explain to them.

Maybe what I said above is a bit exaggerated, not everyone will be so unlucky, they can't give birth to a son, or they can't give birth to a son, after all, most people have given birth to a son, and there are very few who divorce their wives and remarry.

Okay, so if you have both children in your in-law's family, will you be good to your daughter? Maybe you think you will now, but not necessarily then.

For example, if your family is not rich and cannot feed all your children, if you divide it evenly, both of them will not be able to eat, if you let one be fed, and the other will give a nest head to barely survive, just like us before, who do you hold on to?

You might also say you'll split it evenly.

But think about it again, when your son grows up, he will marry a daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law will honor you as a mother-in-law in the future, if your husband is gone, or he is old, he can no longer be your dependence, you have to rely on your son and daughter-in-law to support you, they will give you grandchildren, and pass incense to you.

But what about the daughter, she will get married after she is married, it is the water that is spilled out, no matter how well she raises it, she will raise it for her mother-in-law's family, and if she eats too much, your son will not be able to eat, do too much work, and not make much money, and he will not be able to support you.

When you think about it, who will you focus on first?

Especially your mother-in-law said vigorously on the side, your son will pass on the incense, pass on the ancestry, and provide for your old age, and your daughter will be from another family sooner or later, is it so easy to raise, and why is it so much food wasted.

And not only your family, but most of the families around you are like this, everyone is like this, will you still insist that your sons and daughters are treated equally?

Not to mention how big the difference between the aunt and the eldest brother and the second sister is, you can think about it casually, any family in the village, which family also raises their daughters well, and they are the same as their sons and daughters.

How do you know that they thought differently than you do now, and maybe they thought so at the beginning.

Therefore, after going to your mother-in-law's house, you may become a mother and aunt in the future.

Take another step forward in life, when you are older, your son marries a daughter-in-law, and you finally become a mother-in-law and become a mother-in-law.

You look at their husband and wife love and love, originally the son listened to you very much, now he has a daughter-in-law, he is tired of being with his daughter-in-law all day long, he listens to his daughter-in-law for everything, he doesn't listen to what your mother sometimes says, sometimes you and your daughter-in-law disagree, he stands on the daughter-in-law's side, will you have an opinion on this daughter-in-law, will you have a discord with your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

You must have seen your dad sad between his mother and grandma, right? There are also aunts and grandmothers, is the uncle also sad, both of them have conflicts with their mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, right? Have you ever heard your mother and father complain about your grandmother in private? Have you ever heard grandma and dad complain about your mother in private?

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times, not only our family, neighbors, and people in the village, how many families have not had a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

Know why not? As mentioned earlier, when they are old, their husbands are old or have passed away, they have to rely on their sons, and naturally hope that their sons will be biased towards themselves, listen to them in everything, and provide for themselves in their old age.

But the new daughter-in-law entered the door, she was in a strange environment, her husband was her only one, and she also hoped that her husband would be partial to herself and listen to herself, so that she could live in peace in this family.

In this way, both the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law hope that the man in the middle will be on their side, and this man will either stand on the mother's side or the daughter-in-law's side, and he will either choose one side or the mud from the middle.

In any case, the two women were going to 'grab' the man's ownership all the time.

So as long as it is a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, their contradictions naturally exist, when you are still a daughter-in-law, you and your mother-in-law grab your husband's care, and when you are a mother-in-law, you and your daughter-in-law grab your son's concern.

For when you are young, your husband is your dependence, and when you are old, your young and strong son is your dependence.

As long as you become a daughter-in-law, unless you have no son, you will inevitably become a mother-in-law, and your role is upgraded, and you will become a daughter-in-law and become a mother-in-law.

No matter which character it is, you have to compete with another character for the care of your son or husband.