It's a miracle that my forbearance and kindness have allowed me to meet a woman like Yanzi who can still live her life so persistently. Women always like to be clever, when Yanzi and I decided to get married, I asked her whether she should get a license first, and then get married, at that time she was noncommittal to my proposal, did not say yes, did not say no, I did not force it, we held the wedding as scheduled without a license. In fact, whether you get the certificate or not really has nothing to do with marriage, if it is a bad fate, even if you get the certificate, you will get divorced; If it is a good relationship, even if you don't get a certificate, it will be ten thousand years.

Before I knew it, I had been married to Yanzi for two or three months, and one night, Yanzi told me that her mother wanted her and I to get the marriage certificate as soon as possible. In fact, I know very well that this is not only her mother's idea, but also her own idea, the original disagreement and my license, it is nothing more than that they played a little clever, worried that after marriage, I will have some bad habits or misconduct will be exposed, so that she will dodge away. And after two or three months of investigation after marriage, when they felt that I was a more reliable and worthy of lifelong trust, she decided to go with me to officially get a marriage certificate.

I am someone who is worthy of her trusting for life, but she doesn't know that she is in my heart, but she is not the person in my heart who wants to be with her. But what does it matter, since I have been married to her for two or three months, her character and vices have been almost exposed, we just live together, there is no expectation and no disappointment, if you don't have it, you are not afraid of losing, and whether you get a certificate or not may really have little to do with me. But now that Yanzi has offered to get a marriage certificate with me as soon as possible, I can only agree to her like this.

We made an appointment, and I remember very well that it was March 8th, a Wednesday morning, and I asked for half a day's leave with the unit leader in advance, and then Yanzi and I went to the local civil affairs bureau to prepare for the certificate as if we were going to perform some formalities. When I arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, Yanzi walked behind but refused to follow and walked into the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau, so I had to turn around and shout at her to come in quickly, and I had to hurry back to work after receiving the marriage certificate.

When Yanzi heard me calling her, she simply stood there and didn't move, so I had to go back to her and ask her what was going on, if she forgot to take her ID card, household registration book or divorce certificate and other relevant documents and put them at home.

Yanzi didn't answer my question at all, but said to me coldly but firmly: "It's okay if you want to get a marriage certificate with me today, but you must transfer the façade house in your name to me first!" ”

This is really a greedy, shameless, ignorant and funny woman! No matter how high my debts were or how hard my life was, I didn't have the idea of that façade room, because I knew that although this façade room was not big, its rent could effectively solve part of my daughter's current high school and future college study expenses. Since ancient times, you have sold a house and sold a house, unless you are a rich person, but a rich person will not choose to sell his property because of the difference of a few dollars.

It's ridiculous that this woman standing in front of me now is shameless and asks me for a house! The house can be given to you, but what do you have to say? This house doesn't have any of your contributions, you don't even have a hole card that a woman should have, why do you want me to give you the house! Is it because your gender is a woman? It's shameful and ridiculous!

When encountering major events, children and women can be confused, but as a man, you can't be confused, and no matter how confused a man is, he must have his own principles and bottom line, otherwise, you will be a waste, and you must be hurt in the future.

"The house can be given to you, but you have to tell me, why?" I asked the woman standing in front of me.

She said righteously and awe-inspiringly: "Why? Just because you want to get a marriage certificate with me today! ”

Dizzy! Is this marriage certificate what I want to get? After two or three months of investigation after marriage, remember that such an investigation is mutual, you are examining me, and I am examining you. You think you've found your destiny in life, you think you've found a man who can be trusted for life, but I don't think you're the woman who will be with me for 10,000 years, you know? If it weren't for the accidents that happened due to alcohol at that time, if it weren't for the fact that I was worried that I wouldn't be able to survive, I wouldn't have chosen to marry you. People, must be clear about their position in the hearts of others, when you have no hole cards, do not put forward conditions to others, otherwise, the embarrassment must be you!

"Don't worry, I won't get this card!" After saying that, I walked to the bus stop without looking back and took the bus to work.

In the evening, I didn't go back to my home in the city, but chose to stay in my hometown to accompany my daughter. For the first time since we got married, she didn't call, and I didn't call her.

When I was about to get off work the next evening, I was wondering whether to stay in my hometown tonight with my daughter or return to my home in the city, when Aunt Yanzi called and asked me to go directly to her house as soon as I got off work, and she invited me to dinner tonight. Of course, I couldn't refuse the elder's invitation, so I had to promise to wait for me to get off work and take the bus directly to her house for dinner.

When I took the bus for more than an hour after work and came to Aunt Yanzi's house, which also lives in the city and not far from our home, I found that Yanzi, one of Yanzi's best friends, and Yanzi's father and mother were all here. Have you contributed or paid a penny for other people's houses? You can't ask for something that isn't your own. Besides, you are still young, as long as you live wholeheartedly, are you afraid that you will not be able to afford a house? ”

While talking to me, Swallow's aunt motioned me to hurry up to the bathroom to wash my hands and prepare for dinner, and when Swallow's aunt spoke to me, Swallow just sat on the sofa in the living room quite awkwardly and unnaturally, pretending to be chatting with her best friend as if nothing happened.

During the dinner, Aunt Yanzi counted all kinds of Yanzi in front of so many people: playing mahjong, not going to work, sleeping lazy, not doing laundry and cooking, and not doing housework。。。。。。 Aunt Yanzi's number is enough to give me face. In the end, Aunt Yanzi asked me to call the unit leader tonight to ask for leave, saying that I would be late tomorrow and go to get the certificate tomorrow morning.

And so, on the morning of this Friday, March 10, Swallow and I received our certificates three months after the wedding ceremony had already been held.