After lunch, Ye'er went to the room to continue sleeping, my daughter washed clothes in the bathroom, and after I took care of the kitchen, I came to the third floor alone to turn on the surveillance camera.

Sure enough, the footage displayed by the surveillance shocked me, and I was not shocked. It's mud, and you can still count on it to put it on the wall? A lump of mud will never hold up the wall!

The surveillance showed that when I just walked out of the room and went to the street to buy groceries, Ye'er, who was still sleepy, suddenly woke up at the moment, and it turned out that she was pretending to be asleep. She sat up, leaned against the back of the bed, and then turned on the WeChat video chat, and there were all kinds of ambiguous video calls between the G man and woman, all possible and possible cheating men and women。。。。。。 I looked through them quickly, and their video call lasted until I came back from shopping at the market and the sound of the door opening the door, and they ended the dirty video call!

I'm not angry, I'm just saying: it's time to say goodbye.

I backed up their WeChat video calls, and then walked to our room very calmly, at this time Ye'er had already laid down to sleep, and I didn't wake her up, I knew she was pretending to be asleep, she was always like this, people were at home, but her heart had long since disappeared from this home. I said to Ye'er: "It seems that you are really sleepy, show you a video, it is really good-looking, you must be interested." ”

Saying that, I opened the video and handed it to her, Ye'er was still pretending to be asleep there, but when she heard the video call between her and another man this morning, she snatched the surveillance camera from my hand at once, and then sat up and leaned against the head of the bed to watch the video there. There was no anger on her face, but she could clearly feel her embarrassment, but she didn't blush, just the embarrassment of my dirty deeds being discovered.

"You have surveillance in your room?" Ye'er asked me a little helplessly.

"Yes, I was going to put a monitor in my room when you got home, but I didn't. Because I don't want to distrust you like that, but you always treat me as an idiot, and I am unscrupulous again and again, so I can't help but believe in you so much! I said calmly.

Ye'er threw the video on the bed and lit a cigarette. At this time, the sound in the video was heard by my daughter, who walked into our room, picked up the video surveillance from the bed and looked at it curiously. My daughter is old and an adult, I didn't stop my daughter from watching the video, but I saw that my daughter turned off the video after watching it for a while, and said to Ye'er, who was smoking: "During the meal, you kept saying that you were sleepy, and you were sleeping all morning, and your father went out to buy vegetables and cook in the morning, how do you still have time for other people's videos?" Who do you say you are worthy of? Besides, who still talks about true love on video calls with others now? What a bad head! ”

After my daughter finished speaking, she handed me the surveillance video and went back to her room.

"There are a lot of men outside you, this family doesn't need you anymore, you can clean up and leave!" I said coldly, and then walked out of the room to the living room, where I sat on the couch and lit a cigarette. The warm spring sun is so good, through the floor-to-ceiling windows, it is all sprinkled on the floor of the living room, on the coffee table, on the sofa, the smoke from the cigarette smoke in the strong and wanton sunlight, it seems so poetic, but also so free to drift away.

After a while, Ye Er packed up her things and went downstairs and left. You go, I don't keep it; However, I may not welcome you to come。。。。。。 Ye'er left this time, I didn't keep it, and neither did my daughter.

Hearing the hateful and helpless sound of closing the door when Ye'er went out downstairs, my daughter came out of her room and said to me: "You two are such big people, why are you still so naïve!" When my mother first came home, I said to you, how can there be any harmony in the world? Some just repeat the mistakes of the past! However, you don't believe it, and now you know that you regret it, right? ”

"You don't gloat there, okay? I just want her to go home and live a good life, I just think she's going to change, who knows she's still like that. I said to my daughter.

"If education can make a person better, then those students you teach can be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University! You're a teacher, don't you know? Did you teach Xueba? They have been top students since they were children, and those poor students who make you rack your brains and work hard to make up classes every day are considered good to pass the test with a score of 60 in the end. Besides, if a person can really be educated well, then there is no such sentence as the death penalty for criminals in the national criminal law。。。。。。 ”

My daughter is a bit like me, and she always has a set of things when she talks about them.

Yes, what the daughter said was right! This is also the most tangled part of my nearly 30 years as a teacher, and this tangle has been lingering in my educational career, and I have not been able to find an effective solution until now.

Poor students are poorly educated, or it is difficult to educate well. Poor in the first grade, poor in the second grade, poor in the third grade。。。。。。 The higher the grade, the more knowledge points, and their grades gradually changed from double digits to single digits. However, I still don't give up, I am always reluctant to give up a child easily, my kindness and persistence make me rack my brains every day for a few poor students in the class, and try my best to make up for them, but when it comes to the final exam, their grades are almost the same as those of poor students in other classes.

After all, my suffering and tiredness did not get the rewards they deserved. I admire the shrewdness of several of my colleagues, who have long since given up on the few bad students in the class, do not have to write homework, do not have to hand in homework, can play in class, can sleep, but are not allowed to talk or disturb others. In the eyes of several of my colleagues, these poor students simply don't know anything, rather than having a bad education, it is better to give up like this, because even their parents don't care, how do you expect others to be responsible for your children?

However, my kindness makes me reluctant to give up on these children, I am always so naïve and persistent in using after-school time to help them with their homework, but year after year, I have been a teacher for nearly 30 years, I really haven't succeeded once, those poor students are still poor students, and those top students don't need you to deliberately tutor them at all, they are still school masters.

Yes, don't try to change a person through education, because some of some people's traits are engraved in their bones, and you can only change them by self-transcendence, otherwise, it will be difficult for you to change her!

Educating unintentional people is one of the great evils of people, but I am still so naïve and kind and persistent that education can make a person better. Now that I think about it, maybe I was really wrong, a restless woman, no matter when, with whom, she will always be a restless woman.

Stay away from restless women!