In this way, after I finished teaching the children every day at school, I came to a remote place in the school playground, and I squatted there stupidly, without saying a word, without any expression, just squatting there stupidly, and waited until I heard the bell ringing after work, I would get up and go home to cook food, my strange behavior has been for more than a week, I completely ignore other people's opinions, I am only doing myself.

When I got home, I watched my daughter eating the meal that her father had prepared for her, and I had to think about my children.

Children are the continuation of your life and the endless driving force of human beings. What people think of as love is just a game between people, and the so-called love is just a mutual use. If you use it well, it is called "good fate"; If you don't use it well, it's called "bad fate", how can there be any love in the world? The first article of any marriage law in any country will not state: marriage must be the only condition of love!

The classic dialogue of a Western church wedding is this, the priest who officiates the wedding ceremony will ask, "Would you like to marry ***?" Would you like to marry ***? When the question is finished, both men and women answer that they are willing, and then it is the agreement on the contract between the man and the woman who are united in the form of marriage, as if they have signed a contract, and they must be guaranteed in the form of a pledge: "From now on, no matter whether I am happy or poor, rich or poor, I will never swerve for life, this is my vow...", and then exchange wedding rings, which means that this is my territory, as evidence, and I will never go back!

However, some people keep this agreement, that is, for a lifetime; And some people do not abide by this agreement, and the first thing these people who do not abide by the agreement is to take off this "token", as if the breaching party in the business field tore up the contract.

Think about it: if the pastor officiating at the wedding asks the 20-year-old **fan: "Do you love this 80-year-old man**ning?" Doesn't such a question or answer seem very funny or very contrary to your intentions? Therefore, even God knows that marriage is a contract between a man and a woman who use each other, and the so-called love is not the only condition for marriage! So, at a church wedding in the West, in front of God, the pastor will never ask you such stupid things as "do you love her (him)"!

The Chinese wedding ceremony is also like this, there are no exceptions in ancient and modern China and foreign countries, marriage is just an agreement between men and women to use each other, the Chinese style of the officiant of the wedding will say "one worship heaven and earth, two worship the high hall, husband and wife worship", this means that you have made an oath in front of heaven and earth, parents, men and women, and you are not allowed to regret it in the future! I always feel that such an oath is not strong enough, and the sense of ritual is not strong enough, so today I also invited all my relatives and friends to witness together, and see who dares to break the contract in your later life? Exquisite people will also invite famous celebrities, dignitaries and dignitaries to be witnesses, that is, witnesses. In this way, a Chinese-style wedding invited all the "heavens, earths, people, and gods" who could be invited to witness, and see which of you would dare to violate this contract in the future! However, after a short time, there were still people who violated this contract, so some crazy men and women scolded "Chen Shimei, adulterer", and five thunders in the sky。。。。。。 Using such vicious language to attack and insult the defaulting party will not be a good death!

The beautiful love stories in Europe all take place in fairy tales, almost all of them are princes who fall in love with beautiful princesses, one is greedy for beauty, the other is greedy for power, this is a typical mutual use and exchange; And China's beautiful love story is in the myths and legends of the fool's dream, among which the "Cowherd and Weaver Girl" is the most typical representative, just imagine, how can the "Weaver Girl" of the heavenly court look at the "Cowherd" in the mortal world, the ancient "Weaver Girl" will never look at the ancient "Cowherd", and today's "Weaver Girl" will never look at today's "Cowherd", the reason is very simple, because they are not equal, do not have the value of mutual use, if there is really such a possibility, "Weaver Girl" fell in love with the "Cowherd", That's just the occasional flirting of the "Weaver Girl" to amuse you.

The ancient Chinese were really smart, while they invented these love stories, they knew that this was "foolish dreams", they were all nonsense made up, and the dreamers were afraid of waking up from the dream, so the beautiful love stories of the Chinese style are all based on "lovers will never become dependents" as the final ending, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai's "butterfly", Dong Yong and the Seven Fairies' "Magpie Bridge", Xu Xian and the White Lady's "Water Manjin Mountain", 。。。。。 These myths and stories with "lovers will never become married" are always deceiving the infatuated men and women in the world over and over again, generation after generation, making people have endless reverie and hope, so that toads will also have the idea of eating swan meat. Because the ancients who made up these beautiful love stories, they knew that this was a ghost trick of "foolish people talking about dreams", but in order to make their stories round, they had no choice but to adopt such an ending! They let you know, don't dream, it's time to wake up, such a good thing can't happen, or you should get up early and go to the construction site to move bricks and earn money!

Since marriage is an agreement between men and women to use each other, and it is a contract, then there must be a party who breaks the contract, and this principle is the same as the contract signed by a businessman to do business. Therefore, if you choose divorce and default of contract, it is nothing more than two situations.

The first situation is that you meet a dishonest and restless person, this dishonesty and restlessness are in the bones, the male is stained with flowers and grass, and the female is watery poplar, all of them are eating the bowl and looking at the master in the pot, and it is impossible for any contract to restrain their turbulent hearts. When they get a marriage certificate with you, they never think about keeping this agreement, just like some people who borrow money from you, they borrow money from you at the same time, they don't plan to pay you back at all!

I've met too many people like this.

Ten years ago, a distant cousin of mine cried with a sad face and said that he urgently needed 2,000 yuan, and asked me to help him no matter what, and he would pay me back in just a week. I lent it to him, but after ten years, he just wouldn't repay the 2,000 yuan I had lent him. He outsourced Xiao San, ate, drank, prostituted and gambled, helped Xiao San buy furniture, installed air conditioning, and helped Xiao San buy mahjong tables and billiard tables in his home, but he just didn't pay me back. When I couldn't stand it and asked him for money, he actually said, "What's the big deal, isn't it just 2,000 yuan?" Pay you back! I said, "Yes, 2,000 yuan is not much, but you can give it back to me!" "No, I will pay you back when I have the money in the future!" This is the ugly face of this kind of person who does not abide by the agreement, he is crying and begging you to borrow money at the same time, he has no intention of repaying your money at all, if you really want to repay the money, just 2000 yuan, 200 a year, ten years should also pay off the arrears.

Also ten years ago, a distant cousin of mine also cried and mourned, saying that he was in a hurry to use 20,000 yuan, and asked me to find a way to borrow 20,000 yuan to turn over his business anyway, and promised that he would definitely pay it back to me by the end of the year. However, it was another ten years and two years, he divorced and remarried, helped women buy houses and cars, but he didn't pay me back!

There are several cases of this happening to me, I don't want to say it again, it's all tears, so don't lend money to anyone, if you are sure that you want to lend money to someone, then you must first be mentally prepared for him not to pay back.

Borrowing money is like this, marriage is also like this, when you meet a person who does not abide by the agreement, is not honest, and is restless, no matter how good you do, for him or her (her), it is all bullshit。。。。。。 These words are their labels, for such people, you can't restrain their turbulent and restless hearts with any agreement, Ye'er belongs to such a woman!