Chapter 22: The Only Dinner I've Ever Made
I was really naΓ―ve, I always thought that all women in the world should be kind and hardworking, I always thought that all women in the world should be husband-centered and family-centered, I thought that women in the world should live a good life, but I was wrong, I was always wrong. I always think that life is so simple, students go to school well, workers work well, teachers teach well, and husbands and wives respect and love each otherγγγγγγ But some people really think differently from you, and people are really divided into categories and levels. After marriage, I found that the woman Yanzi just used me as a tool to raise her, but the crux of the problem is that she didn't want me to raise her any capital, she didn't even have a hole card of her own, and she was still enjoying my contribution with peace of mind, such a woman is really stupid!
However, a good friend of mine commented on me, which I think is the most suitable for my character, and she said of me: "Even if I find a pig to come home as a wife, I will spoil her as a treasure!" "Yes, that's the stupid and kind me I am.
After Yanzi and I got married, we slept in the morning and played mahjong in the afternoon, and the shop was not open or we cooked, so that her mother and some of her relatives and friends could not stand it anymore, and they always held a criticism meeting for her behind my back. One day, when I came home from work, the meal she made was set on the table, a plate of braised fish, a bowl of seaweed egg soup, and a bowl of rice, and the chopsticks were already set, just waiting for me to come home from work to eat. The long-lost happiness and warmth rose spontaneously, it made me feel helpless and flattered for a while, I hated myself at that time, it was normal and deserved, and let me regard it as my greatest happiness and glory, I was really cheap. Although Yanzi said that he finished the meal first, and did not wait for me to eat together, I still felt very happy, I hurriedly went into the bathroom to wash my hands and then sat down happily to prepare to eat, but when I just picked up the chopsticks and prepared to eat, Yanzi's words from this woman, such a vicious sentence, were like a basin of cold water in the cold winter suddenly poured from the top of my head, which made me instantly cold my heart.
The swallow said to me fiercely: "Every day I say that I have nothing to do and don't cook for you, and now I make it for you to eat, if you can't eat and are left, I will break these meals into your stomach!" β
Do women all belong to this special species that is ruthless and poisonous? Or are there such ruthless and poisonous special species that I have encountered? I do not know! But I know that Ye'er belongs to such a special species, Hanhan belongs to such a special species, and now swallows also belong to such a special species. However, women belong to a kind of self-made clever, but actually very stupid species, and men are often men are a very rational species, when a man begins to perceive his disappointment, that is when the man is ready to leave the woman, and when this disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, the man will decisively choose to leave the woman. However, stupid women often don't perceive the disappointment of men, and still enjoy the good that men give her as a matter of course, and still intensify all kinds of work, which will only accelerate the man's early departure.
The stupidest woman is a woman like Yanzi, who doesn't even have a hole card, and even has all kinds of "works" that are justified. She doesn't know that a woman's hole cards should be young and beautiful, reproductive ability, family background, education and character, and the hole cards that can accompany her to the end should be a person's character! But she has nothing, that is, the reproductive ability that a woman should have, and I found that she didn't have it in later life, but she is such a woman who is thick and thin, and her appearance is not flattering, and she is still so upright and vicious, I really don't know where her confidence comes from, what her hole cards are, it's really funny.
This kind of woman represents this ridiculous idea of many women nowadays, who think that they are just women, just because she is a woman, and this is her biggest hole card! She thinks she doesn't need any hole cards, it's not that she doesn't need it, but she doesn't have any other hole cards at all, she is so stupid and comfortable thinking that just by virtue of being a woman, she can point fingers at men, and she can enjoy what men give her with peace of mind. She thinks that just because she is a woman, she should not do any housework, no work, she should take it for granted and let a man raise her!
It's really a stupid idea, she doesn't know, a person's gender is not a person's hole cards, the gender is divided into male and female, this is reciprocal, not the hole card. A woman must not think that just because she is a woman, she does not need anything else, this is her biggest hole card! And the swallow belongs to such a woman, and there are many such self-righteous women in society.
This is the only meal she has ever ever cooked for me in my three years of married life with Yanzi, and since then, no matter how her mother scolds her, no matter how her other relatives and friends enlighten her, she is still in a posture of opening her mouth for food and stretching out her hands for clothes. Even her mother stopped scolding her daughter for being lazy, and changed her words to: "My swallow is such a good life, and my swallow should find such a man who can do laundry and cook to serve her." β
However, they didn't know that all my disappointments were slowly accumulating in my heart at the moment!
However, Yanzi is at home with nothing to do every day, and her only job is to play mahjong in the afternoon, although the win or loss is not very big, but after all, she still has a clothing store there, which is a small shop that someone else invested in before marriage, and I can't interfere too much, besides, even if I ask her to open a store, Yanzi will always find various reasons to shirk, and her shop is just quietly closed every day and stands there. If I talk too much, it will inevitably cause another quarrel, I have to commute to the suburbs far from the city every day, and I have to find time to spend with my daughter, I don't bother to take care of these things, and I can't take care of them.
Swallow's behavior finally angered her mother, who demanded that she either open the shop on time from tomorrow to sell clothes, or sell the store to recover some of her losses and recoup a little investment. But Yanzi's attitude is that she doesn't want to open a store, and she doesn't want to transfer the store, she wants to have her own tsundere title: a small owner of a clothing store!
But after all, this clothing store was opened by Yanzi with her mother's thrifty money she had saved, Yanzi was 10,000 unwilling, and she would not be able to withstand her mother's abuse all day, after some consideration, Yanzi, who didn't want to do anything, finally agreed to transfer the store a week later, and lost 40,000 or 50,000 yuan.