Chapter 21: Not as I Wished
Although my marriage does not have any passion, just to live with what we need, I am still full of hope for our future life, and Swallow is also full of infinite hope for our future life, because she has never had children, and herself, including her parents, are eager for her to have a child as soon as possible.
But everything after marriage is not as I wanted, I am an extremely simple person, I have lived on campus since I was a child, including now, I always imagine the beauty and simplicity of life with my own eyes. I've always been naïve to think that life can be hard or tiring, but life really should be simple. My daughter goes to high school in a middle school not far from home, and I also work at a school not far from home, of course I mean my original home, I go back to my home in the city after work at night, I will go back to my original home two days a week to accompany my daughter, Swallow takes care of her business in her clothing store during the day, and when I get off work after dark and take the bus back to the city, Swallow should prepare delicious meals at home and wait for me to eat together。。。。。。 Life is so simple and hopeful, in a few years we will have the money to pay a down mortgage in the city to buy a house, Yanzi and I will also have another baby, the family is thriving and hopeful and busy with their own things, my daughter goes to school, Yanzi opens a shop, I go to work, everything seems so busy and orderly, life is so simple! However, all good things always backfire.
Before marriage, I inspected Yanzi's clothing store, if a woman can diligently take care of a small shop by herself, this woman should at least belong to a self-reliant person who knows how to live a hard life, and she will definitely take care of her family life after marriage more diligently. However, I was wrong, everything is a façade. Before marriage, Yanzi, who still went to the clothing store every day to commute to work on time, didn't go after marriage, and closed every day, so that those clothes worth tens of thousands of dollars hung there alone and covered with dust, for this reason, I told Yanzi about it, and Yanzi actually said that he couldn't sell a few clothes a day anyway. Dizzy, even selling a piece of clothing is better than doing nothing at home, but Yanzi didn't pay attention to me at all, and then I learned her thoughts, and her idea was that since she married me, I should raise her, and she should be pampered at home and have nothing to do.
This is a very lazy woman, not generally lazy, but really super lazy, I just blindly wanted to find a woman to marry, but I didn't expect God to arrange a best in the world for me. My daughter goes to school, I go to work, my daughter and I are busy with our own things step by step, every day when the sky is still bright, I go out of the house to take the bus to work in the suburbs dozens of kilometers away from home, my daughter also comes to school early to study early, and Yanzi can sleep at home alone until 12 o'clock at noon, and then go to the street to eat something, find someone to play mahjong in the afternoon, and come home at night to watch TV and play with mobile phones. In addition to this, Swallow did nothing, and even the clothing store in which she had invested a lot of money was closed every day and stood there quietly, very discordantly and dazzlingly, because the whole street of shops was open, and only her small shop was closed every day.
When I get home from work in the evening, it is often dark, I work in the suburbs, and when I get home from work in the evening, I have to transfer to two buses, and then walk for ten minutes, and it takes at least two hours to return to my new home in the city. But when I got home, everything was cold.
When I come home after a busy day, the woman Yanzi often lies in bed playing with her mobile phone and watching TV, and when she sees me coming home, she sometimes says, "You can solve your own food problems, I have already eaten on the street." Or just coquettishly say, "I'm dying of hunger, hurry up and cook for me." ”
What can I do in the face of such a lazy and inhumane woman? My kindness and forbearance prevented me from falling out with her over this matter, so I said to her, "When I get home from work, I am already very tired and hungry, and besides, I go to buy vegetables and cook, so I may have to wait until midnight for a dinner." Otherwise, when you end the mahjong in the afternoon, you will pass by the vegetable market and buy the vegetables back, go home and wash them, and when I get home from work and cook again, I will be able to save a lot of time. ”
"I don't care, you have to cook for me anyway! I don't know how to cook or buy vegetables, I'm just waiting for you to cook at home, and I'll wait until it's too late. "In the face of a scoundrel and shameless woman, my character is only compromise. In fact, she can do everything, and later heard her aunt tell me that she can do everything, although she may not do everything well, but she can, but she is too lazy, and she is not used to being looked down upon by her original mother-in-law's family, and she has not given birth to a child, so she was disgusted by her mother-in-law and divorced.
What to do? I only choose to compromise, after every day after work, I take two buses back home, passing by the vegetable market or supermarket, buy vegetables first, and then go home to cook vegetables, and when the meal is ready, the swallow will lazily get up to eat, after eating, she always pushes the bowl, throws the chopsticks, and then goes to wash and go to bed, I have to continue to complete my own unfinished business, brush the dishes and chopsticks, cleaning.
Every day when I get off work, I have to communicate with her in advance about what she wants to eat in the evening, and then when I pass by the vegetable market, I will buy vegetables according to the menu she listed and cook at home. One day, she said that she didn't have to buy vegetables and cook for her at night, she and a few girlfriends were planning to go home after eating on the street, and she asked me to solve my own dinner problem and leave her alone. Since she is already planning to eat out, I also want to save trouble, there is still a little leftover rice in the refrigerator, enough for one person, and I will scramble eggs and fried rice to deal with when I go home in the evening.
When I got home, she had come home after eating with a few girlfriends, still lying on the bed watching TV, and I was cooking my egg fried rice in the kitchen, but when my egg fried rice, which was only enough for one person, was ready to be plated, she seemed to smell the aroma of egg fried rice coming from the kitchen while watching TV on the bed in the bedroom, and actually said to me: "What do you do delicious by yourself?" ”
"I didn't have anything to eat, so I made an egg fried rice to deal with it." I said coldly.
"Secretly make egg fried rice to eat by yourself, and don't tell me? I want to eat too, I haven't eaten enough at the restaurant tonight, so hurry up and bring a bowl over. ”
Listening to her delicious and greedy answer, I really want to fill a bowl of egg fried rice and slam it at her! There are hateful women in the world, but I really have never met such a hateful woman, she and Ye'er have a fight, and they don't belong to the category of good women.
However, I held back, and I plated and spooned the egg fried rice, which was barely enough for one person for me, while I went back to the kitchen and lit a cigarette, and that night, I didn't eat, and I didn't eat。。。。。。
After a while, she shouted from the bedroom: "Is there egg fried rice?" ”
"Nope!"
"Well, you ate all the delicious food yourself, and you didn't know to leave some for me. Forget it, hurry up and get the plate away! ”
But she didn't know that my meal was eaten by her tonight, and she didn't want to know at all!