I had to face the reality after I woke up after the drunkenness before marriage, maybe this woman is really good, I was drunk to the point where I wasn't angry with me, maybe we all took what we needed, although we were forced to make an IOU of 100,000 yuan, maybe it was just an attitude they needed. Although I don't want to look at it more than a few times because of her thick and thin figure and unflattering appearance, she is a woman who is willing to marry me after all. Forget it, who to marry is not a knot, as long as life can be settled down in the future, in the face of cruel reality, people must learn to bow their heads. The philosophy of life of the ancient Chinese is really incomprehensible, while saying "I would rather break the jade than be complete", on the other hand, he taught others that "a good man does not suffer immediate losses" and "a big husband can bend and stretch", forget it, if you can't figure it out, you don't want to, there is no useless experience in life, I only choose to move forward.

In the winter of his daughter's freshman year of high school, her father got married again, and her father got married in a flash just a month after he had just met a woman.

Two nights before I decided to marry this woman, I tearfully wrote a note and pressed it on the desk in my daughter's room.

Dear Daughter,

Hello! Please understand Dad's decision to get married, since the divorce with your mother, do you know? Dad can bear the pain of his wife being separated, but Dad can't bear the human tragedy of the destruction of his family no matter what! Seeing the families around him fall apart, Dad must take action, and getting married may be the best choice for Dad. Dad is saying this to you now, maybe you don't understand it yet, but when you really grow up, you will understand the hardship, sadness and helplessness of Dad's current life.

You are now an older and freshman year of high school, and although your father is no longer able to stay at home with you every day and cook you delicious meals every day because of your father's divorce, you are much happier than many of your classmates. They're almost always living on campus, and they only go home to see their dad once every two weeks, and you're one of the few high school freshmen who choose to live in. Although Dad can't accompany you every day now, but now that your grandmother is with you every day, I will also be at home with you two days a week, we are all your relatives, we are all accompanying you to graduate from high school smoothly, and then successfully enter college.

On the days when Dad is not at home, you should learn to take better care of yourself, get up early in the morning, do your homework seriously at night, listen to your grandmother, listen to your teacher, and tell Dad what you need at any time. Put the daily change of clothes in the bathroom, and I will use the two days at home to help you do the laundry. Your task is to study hard and be sure to be admitted to university, and we can't be ridiculed by others because we are children from single-parent families who can't get into college. Remember: dignity is for yourself, not for begging for reward!

Finally, I wish us peace and happiness!

Father

I believe that through the heart-to-heart conversation I had with my daughter a few days ago and this note left for my daughter, my daughter will definitely understand and support her father's marriage.

On the day of my wedding with Yanzi, my daughter participated in our wedding very sensibly, at the wedding banquet, my daughter drank beer, and my daughter always raised a glass to those elders during the banquet, others don't know the mood of my daughter at this moment, but as a father, I deeply understand and understand my daughter's mood at this time, this mood is the same as her father's mood when he drank a few days ago, no need for others to persuade him, but he can't control the desire to drink, this pain, helplessness and powerless acceptance, Perhaps only alcohol can give us temporary relief and paralysis.

That day, the daughter was drunk, and the mother finally took the daughter home and brought it home to the old house. In the evening, the so-called wedding night, there is no excitement and romance, we just take what we need from each other to live together.

On this wedding night, I actually received a text message from Ye'er, a woman: "How are you doing?" Happy newlyweds! "How could Ye'er, who hadn't heard from her for several years, suddenly send a text message? It's rare for me to pay attention to such a woman, this is one of the dirtiest and despicable women in the world, eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, cheating, cheating, betraying, seeking money and killing people, abandoning her husband and daughter。。。。。。 As long as she could think of bad things, she did almost all the bad things, and finally put all the blame on me, saying bad things about me everywhere, ruining me everywhere, thus trying to make up for her own mistakes, leaving me and my daughter with only a gray life and a huge amount of arrears. I don't have time to pay attention to this woman, let alone take care of this woman, after three years, my life with my daughter has come out of the haze, and began to get on the right track, I just want to live my own life quietly, my daughter has three years to go to college, maybe I and the woman who is married now will have a baby, my marriage is to let my daughter be able to spend three years of high school safely, and be able to be admitted to college smoothly, as for the rest, I don't have time, I don't bother to take care of it.

On the wedding night, I made an agreement with the now married woman Yanzi to take care of my daughter again: every Wednesday night, every Sunday afternoon and evening I would go home to accompany my daughter, and the next day and Monday I would go directly to work. Regarding the money, the woman Swallow asked me to pay it in full, but she promised that she would take it out when my daughter needed to spend it. Turn it in, I don't spend much money anyway, a pair of jeans will be worn for years, as long as she doesn't deduct my daughter's money. Taking a step back, if she really doesn't want to spend money for my daughter in the future, then I just have to wait until next month, and I will go to the bank to change the payroll card password, and then everything will be out of her hands. Alas, maybe this is the so-called remarriage family's ghost, "the old man and the latter are dead", this folk saying is really easy to understand, intriguing, one sentence breaks the remarriage family's difficulty, helplessness and bitterness, who can understand the taste?

Maybe women are a special species with a keen sense of smell, I received a text message from Ye'er on the day I got married, and I received a call from Hanhan the next afternoon, why was she embarrassed to call me, and she almost asked the police to arrest me, which is really a funny call. At that time, I saw that it was a strange number, picked up the mobile phone and answered it without hesitation, fortunately, Yanzi played mahjong with a few girlfriends after eating at noon, by the way, before marriage, he only said that he opened a store all day and occasionally drank a little wine Yanzi turned out to be a gambler, however, her gambling money belongs to entertainment, winning or losing is not too big, with her mother in charge of her, she does not dare to play mahjong with such a big win or loss.

When I turned on my phone, Hanhan's voice came from the other end of the phone: "Do you remember me?" ”

"Hmm" I certainly remember that it was less than a year since we broke up.

"Then why didn't you marry me in the first place, and now you are in such a hurry to get married? Did you get along with this woman when you were dating me? Han Han actually asked me in a questioning tone.

"Can I be blamed for this? At the beginning, I told you that when my daughter goes to high school, we will get married, but you don't agree, you have to marry me during the critical period of my daughter's junior high school studies, right? As for this woman now, you can rest assured, we have only known each other for a month and got married in a flash, and I can't learn the routine of stepping on two boats, and I don't want to learn it! ”

People, why do you have to wait until you lose it to know that you regret it?