Xiao Xia, my mother is a working woman. The workplace is the main stage of a mother's life. In other short articles, my mother will occasionally introduce you to the content of my mother's work. Today's topic, on the other hand, is a bit more serious.

Mom has revealed to you before that Mom is a beautiful woman. In fact, not only that, but my mother is also very friendly, funny and gentle. Separation from dad is not necessarily because mom or dad is not good enough, sometimes it may be fate or the opportunity to cooperate is wrong. Anyway, in the eyes of many people, my mother is a sparkling existence.

And the topic that mom is going to mention today, at the very beginning, will make you feel that its occurrence is directly related to how mom is. But after going through these things, my mother believes that some people's bad behavior has nothing to do with how we are, and there is no need to blame ourselves for their behavior. The performance of dazzling people also needs a well-behaved audience, and the rules of the theater themselves are non-discriminatory.

Okay, so let's get straight to the point. Mom was harassed by her immediate boss, a short, bald man from Turkey, for more than three years. Such a sun and moon ran through almost the entire marriage of mom and dad.

Mom's nervousness and non-stop complaining about this matter, and complaining all the time, also gave Dad a headache. When he left his mother, he also said that his mother's almost daily hot topic was about how this direct leader harassed him, making him unbearable and tired of his mother.

Xiao Xia, her mother's own feeling of being harassed by this person is almost to the point of breaking down. When I think about it now, I still feel creepy. I also felt very painful about the pressure I felt at that time.

In fact, being entangled by someone he doesn't like, that nightmarish feeling, his mother had experienced before him.

My mother used to live in another city, and there was a guy there who pursued her in a very cheesy way. Being pursued by such a person makes even my mother, who has experienced so many things, as long as she arrives in that city, she has a worry that she may run into that person again, the feeling of being entangled, the feeling of disobeying her heart, and her mother is extremely resistant.

As for this little boss, at that time, my mother had to meet him every day, and I felt very disgusted to listen to him every day to dissuade my mother from accepting his words.

Dad and Mom said some ideas to comfort themselves in disguise, such as that they may have misinterpreted him, or that he is not as bad as Mom thinks, or that Mom has set too high boundaries for communication between men and women, etc., but as long as they face this person, Mom will lose all the skills she has learned from Dad, and she will only be disgusted.

But at that time, my mother didn't do anything. Dad, as an ally of Mom, also did nothing. I, we, let this dirty rain drop overhead, and didn't rise up to resist.

Mom even has a kind of fear, and that fear has continued until now, just now, like a cobra that has been hiding behind Mom. Mom always felt its treacherous little tail sticking out and hiding, appearing from time to time.

Mom is always afraid of people who harass her.

Later, under the repeated persuasion of this person, his mother kept rejecting him until he left his job and returned to the headquarters.

But this person still wrote an email to my mother, telling her that he would keep harassing her and would not let me go.

The cobra showed its head again, staring at its mother, and made a slight noise. The pair of almost insensitive snake eyes squinted, aiming at my mother, as if my mother would never escape.

Even when mom and dad were separated, when mom's body and heart fell to the bottom, when that fragility and pain alternated, mom endured it, by herself, as always, to complete the work, to complete herself, and not let this person succeed. And now, he reappeared, still feeling hopeful.

That feeling of disgust returned. But not only that, every time the disgust comes, there will be a feeling of fear at the same time, I can't tell what I am afraid of, a sense of fear of extreme cold.

So scared, my mother always felt like falling into quicksand, hoping to catch and rely on it immediately, and every time she fell into the terror that she felt that she might be violated at any time.

At this time, I think about two things in my mind, one is that I am in the world, when the wind is calm, I will feel that my life is the most important thing to be independent, but once something happens, I will immediately feel that the connection between people and people will bring security. Xiao Xia, support you and love you with your heart, the more people you love with your heart, the more security you will have. Chic and cool are not in conflict with friends, dear, love. Another thing that the second mother thinks about a lot at this time is that she wants to have a dependence.

When I was with my father, there was a harassment incident, and my mother didn't get the security she wanted, the shelter she wanted, and now, when she was in danger again, her mother immediately looked left and right, hoping to grasp the last straw, hoping that someone could be the knight who rescued the sheep herding girl.

But Xiao Xia, under the packaging of marriage and love, her mother is still fighting alone, what difference can she make now.

Yesterday, my mother was physically and mentally exhausted and thought, don't be afraid of all this anymore, if no one comes forward, why can't she do it. If there were some boring scruples before, then now, Mom is completely alone, what is there to be afraid of.

After plucking up the courage in this way, my mother felt that her whole person felt different.

Mom wrote an email to this person, telling him that what Mom had not accepted before would never accept in the future. Not at the most fragile time of a mother's life, and even less at other times. If he still tries in any way, Mom will resist at all costs. Let him know that his mother has nothing to lose.

And the mother's thoughts are:

If my life ends up in this matter, then I will also fight completely, instead of being wronged and ending up depressed. Then even if I am wronged, then I will take complete revenge, never afraid of all the problems that may arise, complete revenge, regardless of the consequences.

Xiao Xia, mom is not scared now, she may have looked forward and backward before. But now, mom is not afraid. In life, some things can be influenced, and some things cannot. Mom has to do what she can, protect herself, and what she can say, to the extreme, so if her mother will be violated even so, then her mother will fight up until the end of her life. Do what you can.

Xiao Xia, if your mother can't be by your side to protect you, your mother hopes that you won't be like your mother to endure for so long before you rise up and resist, please feel free to start protecting yourself, just like your mother is going to do for herself now. We're all in this together.