Leave one
Xiaoxia, her mother has been crying a lot, countless uncomfortable nights, and a lot of quarrels with her grandfather, and slowly moved to the final stage. The days of departure should be counted on two hands.
As it turned out, it was counted on one hand. Mom said to Dad on the front foot that the move was about to end, and Dad on the back foot said don't come back, I'll clean it up for you later, you can take it.
That's it, with a whoop, the article has not been finished yet, and it has been moved.
Speaking of which, my mother felt that my father cheated first, and then did not become a win-win winner for her own people and money, and the annoyance and anger she showed had reached a level that my mother could not understand. And this kind of loser's face has also caused him to maintain a passionate attitude of righteous indignation in the past few days.
Probably there is a difference between men and women, and probably from a certain social point of view, my mother later found a boyfriend, which can be regarded as revenge on him, no matter what, my mother has calmed down. Dad's many advantages are slowly emerging from the mirrors between him and other women.
Always see the good and convince yourself that the choices you have made are not all wrong, otherwise everything is wrong, wouldn't it be even more difficult to realize the joy of life. However, Dad is still hanging in the sky like a bulging balloon, and Mom has to say that this situation is really surprising.
In fact, my grandfather had already moved out a few days ago, and only my mother had been delaying the day of leaving completely. I can't tell if it's because I don't want to leave, or if I really feel that moving at once will be too heavy and cumbersome.
In either case, mothers show their usual style of evasion and procrastination when faced with psychological and physical cuts.
It was not easy to leave this apartment called home. The memories here, the memories associated with this house alone, are clear and profound.
Mom remembers that when she first chose to settle here, Mom almost quarreled with your dad until they broke up. The reason for this may be a little funny now. Because at that time, my mother really couldn't stand you Aunt Qin, my father's best girlfriend in Tianjin, she always asked your father to do this and that with an intimate attitude, and it had reached the point where she asked to feed yogurt in front of everyone at the dinner table. Mom felt very inappropriate, these two people had no sense of boundaries, which made Mom uncomfortable. So when I found out later, one of the reasons why my father chose this place was that when I wanted to live closer to her, my mother was very resistant to the location of this apartment.
At that time, the decoration of our home, the problem with Aunt Qin's car, and other big and small matters, so that my father and her had endless contact. The way two people with a weak sense of boundaries get along makes my mother always feel a little annoying. So my persona has always played the role of a witch in the simple friendship between the two of them.
The quarrel was very fierce. If it was more intense, and the mother became pregnant later, it is likely that there would be no more follow-up stories.
Dad was very tough on Mom's negative attitude towards their friendship. His point of view is that there is friendship between men and women, not only that, but also healthy, and everything is a mother's narrow-minded and evil.
The two of us had our own opinions, and we were arguing with each other at the time.
In Dad's words, between men and women, the layer of affection that Mom can't understand is something he can't give up. And until the end, he went from crying bitterly to his mother to suddenly changing his face and saying that he couldn't say that there was no friendship between men and women, and maybe his mood also had a moment of change, the details are unknown.
In fact, my mother's feeling now is quite different from that time. If you let your mother choose again now, will she have a dispute with your father because of Aunt Qin's ambiguous attitude, and your mother can't pack the ticket, but at least it shouldn't be a dispute over this kind of thing after getting married.
In the end, we were able to live here, and it turned out that it was my mother who made the compromise. This also laid the groundwork for everything that happened next.
For this house, Mom and Dad also had a brief dispute before the divorce, but the last part was compromised on the father's candid videotape. The next time I have a chance, my mother will also talk to you about the so-called leaving evidence, just like this time when I was secretly photographed, the pros and cons faced by both father and mother. The other part of the compromise is due to the hard work that Dad put into this apartment.
When I first moved in, my mother was pregnant with you, and I was very idle at work, staring at things like decoration, and my mother would come over to do it between work.
But then the mother didn't show up, and at that time the mother had already packed back to her hometown and lived with her grandmother, because you were about to be born, and her mother's belly was so big, and her feet were getting bigger, and when she walked, she was already a little struggling.
So the tidying and decoration of this home are all handled by my father. Dad was very dissatisfied with his mother in this matter, thinking that his mother did not contribute money or effort. There is no contribution to this point, my mother admits it, after all, even my mother's shoes were moved by my father one by one, and put them in the new shoe cabinet one by one. But all of your mother's income during her marriage is from your father, and she doesn't pay for it, so it's naturally biased.
Dad put a lot of thought into everything he sees in this home now, and this home is very simple and comfortable. In a way, there's even a bit of style.
In the past, my father said that he wanted to exercise his mother, although he could do any housework and was very proficient, but he didn't do it, let his mother do it, so that his mother could be more familiar with the family.
It may not sound a little politically correct, right, but at that time, my mother enjoyed this feeling, this is the married life that my mother once longed for, she can be good to her husband, and let him feel that she is the right person to marry me.
The psychological background of this matter can be studied to an extreme extent, but the mother's flattery is self-satisfying, and the father's acceptance is also natural. Mom once thought that this was the most suitable combination.
Thinking about it, my mother also happily cut the watermelon prepared for my father into pieces, and all the watermelon seeds were pushed out with chopsticks, and then gave him to eat, because I knew that he didn't like to spit watermelon seeds. When Mom is also pregnant with you, she will happily hold up her big belly and bring Dad foot wash water, so that he can relax while playing games.
In short, we used to be a one-to-one combination, Mom liked to treat others like this, and Dad liked to be treated like this.
Therefore, my mother is very familiar with the corners of this room, and the things in each corner are regularly wiped and cleaned by my mother.
Before leaving, say goodbye to this apartment, the one that carries original sin. Mom will tell you more farewell stories next time, love you.