In the same unit, some people are in a hurry, with brilliant achievements and attracting attention; There are also people who work diligently and obscurely, the latter lose their individuality, and the former do not lose themselves.

One day I went to a banquet, and when I entered the venue, I saw all kinds of sweets everywhere. Like the other guests, I was fascinated by the array of sweets in front of me, chocolate, milk candy, cheese and many other delicious things, all over the room and on the balcony outside.

I said to my friend, "It's rare to decorate a venue with candy!" ”

The friend said, "Because he is the master today!" He pointed with his finger as he spoke: "He is the owner of the candy and biscuit factory." ”

It can be seen that people are most interested in things with the most personality characteristics, and if you want the other party to accept you, you should show these characteristics in order to be attractive.

Throughout the ages, as long as you do something different that you don't realize to others, you can really develop yourself. "I didn't expect him to do something like that", making himself eye-catching is a manifestation of personality.

In the office, it is important to integrate the individual's behavior with the work of the office, and it is very difficult for the individual to adopt behaviors that are very different from those around them.

In the office, when the individual's original behavioral tendencies are different from the behavioral tendencies of most colleagues in the office, it is necessary to make one's own behavior conform to the behavior of others.

This kind of "following the local customs" is to hope that other colleagues in the office will accept your behavior and enter a new social circle. If this social circle is positive and vibrant, you can follow the crowd and "get close to Zhu Zhechi"; On the contrary, "near ink is black", which means not following the crowd and having its own firm position.

If your principle of life is not to talk about other people's strengths and weaknesses behind your back, then don't join such a social circle. If you work on the principle of being conscientious and diligent, then you should not be as slack as others in order to compliment you. When you conform to the crowd and let others accept you, you must have your own correct views and ideological principles, protect your own advantages, do not completely follow the crowd and join the stream, and maintain your own personality to show your charm, so as to attract more friends and establish a new ideal social circle.

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