"Life is really hard now!" Han Yi shook his head drunkenly, pointed at Li Jia in a trance, and said, "Maybe, you ······ You've tried so hard, but you're still far from what you want! Perhaps, you are full of longing and expectation, but in the end you get only disappointment. ”

He was about to collapse after another drink, but he expressed it clearly and completely.

"Yes, yes, you're right!"

Li Jia answered him perfunctorily, and after a while, he lay on the dining table, still muttering something softly.

If it were someone else, he would definitely not be able to understand why Han Yi was able to say that life was difficult.

What's so hard about him? Outstanding young man, young and promising, it is not an exaggeration to put the words rich and handsome on him, why did he say such a thing?

But Li Jia knows that in a high position, his pressure and responsibility are greater than the thousands of employees under him.

She couldn't help but think of what Han Yi once said to her: If you encounter any difficulties, remember to say to yourself that it doesn't matter! All problems are temporary, and if you can't change them, put them aside and solve them in one fell swoop when you are fully prepared!

When Yihui was still in its infancy, Li Jia and Feng Zhiyao were just ordinary office workers, and the most common thing in real life was a series of problems caused by economic problems.

Li Jia's family conditions are not bad, but Feng Zhiyao's family background is relatively average, his work is also very average, he has no house, no car, no savings, and Li Jia will always be disgusted when he takes Feng Zhiyao to see his parents. When Li Jia said that she wanted to marry Feng Zhiyao, she was once opposed by her family, and as an only daughter, she insisted on going her own way, and her relationship with her parents was very stiff.

Feng Zhiyao, he is a person who has "no ambitions" and no pursuits, because he has been pointed at by Li Jia's parents countless times, in fact, it hurts his self-esteem a little.

Although he loved Li Jia deeply, he didn't want to see her fall out with her family, and then he had the idea of giving up this relationship. often was angry with Li Jia, deliberately upsetting her, and then quarreled and broke up.

Fortunately, he is too honest and honest, and his acting is not realistic enough, and his ideas have been manipulated by Li Jia.

As a mutual friend of the two of them, Han Yi said the most, "It's okay, everything will pass!" In addition to life and death, everything in the world is trivial, even if you are slammed to the ground by reality, don't forget to stand up and pat the dust on your body and tell yourself: 'It's okay, I can definitely do it'. ”

The facts are indeed as Han Yi said, they have all passed, Feng Zhiyao and Fu Bozhi have become the best partners, and Li Jia has also become an executive with an annual salary of one million.

Feng Zhiyao and Li Jia, Qiu Lang and Huizi, they have all lived happily together, but Han Yi and Bai Xue, who were the most optimistic at the beginning, have become like this······

She can understand Han Yi's current mood, but she can't do anything except accompany him as a confidant and friend like she is now. He can make the current achievements, he must have given up something, the most self-evident is time, time with family, time with friends, time with the people he loves.

"There are gains and losses in life, on the way to fight, we have grown, experience is the best teacher, the failures and ups and downs encountered, but also in polishing yourself, those who can't kill you, will make you stronger. It's okay if you can't let go of the depression in your heart for the time being, do what you need to do well, take the road you should go, and leave the rest to time. It doesn't matter if you can't see those annoying things for the time being, don't forget kindness and sincerity at any time, and live up to your original intention, you won't leave more regrets······"

Li Jia also thought about saying these true, false, and specious words, but she knew better that it didn't matter if he said a few more words to himself, to appease the irritable heart, and to find his true self with him, and to find a calm and peaceful state of mind; It's okay to ask him to say more to himself, and always encourage himself: you have done a great job, stop and rest when you are tired, there is still a long way to go, you can definitely do better.

These should have no effect on Han Yi.

For many people, thinking about what happened before, no matter how happy or sad they are, they are also covered with a mottled filter that only belongs to memories with the passage of time, which is not so gratifying or sad.

Everyone comes to this world empty-handed, and eventually they have to leave this world with their bare hands, good and bad things will become a thing of the past, and everything will pass, without exception.

Surprises will pass, so will suffering, and there is no point in dwelling over a past that is destined to be unchangeable, or for the unpredictability of an uncertain future.

Passers-by come and go, time flies by, the only thing that can be grasped in our hands is only the moment of the moment, since everything will pass, then before the past, leave more good and memories.

While you still have it, do what you want to do, love the people you want to love, take advantage of the sunshine and the breeze to live life the way they want.

All encounters in the world are a kind of repayment, all experiences are the best arrangement, all occurrences have a certain number of cause and effect, gain is lucky, loss is also rare growth.

They hope that they can let go of yesterday, cherish today, look forward to tomorrow, become a better version of themselves, and get the future they want!

These, Han Yi can open his mouth to comfort others, but many times he can't convince himself, especially in his relationship with Bai Xue.

Li Jia asked the employees of Haidilao to make a lot of effort to carry Han Yi to the car, and she didn't forget to scold the drunk Han Yi in her mouth, of course, it was at this time that she could be so unscrupulous.

In Li Jia's opinion, Han Yi is not a very good partner in his love with Bai Xue, but for friends, Han Yi is definitely commendable, he is a very expensive friend, so she is willing to be drunk in the middle of the night.

She remembered that two years ago, Han Yi invited her to the office for tea together. At that time, he was perfecting a series of plans to strengthen management, and he asked Li Jia to go just to ask her to help him look at some data.

And he is also entrusting another friend to do market research and user feedback.

Coincidentally, that day, another friend finished the research report and data and brought it to Han Yi.

Han Yi didn't say a word, so he got up and called the secretary in, saying that he could let the finance be responsible for making the payment.

That friend seems to have just started a small team, and probably hasn't experienced much. In the face of Han Yi's refreshment, he was a little at a loss, and he was a little panicked, and said again and again: Don't worry, we are friends, even if it is free, I am happy.

Han Yi smiled, "It's true that we have been friends for many years, but take the money that should be collected." Money and friends are separated, the most pleasant. ”

He spoke very plainly, and then chatted with Li Jia.

"Why aren't you so cheerful when you ask me to do things?" Li Jia pretended to be very jealous, but it was just a joke.

Han Yi doesn't like to make a friend very much, and desperately hopes that he will create value for himself for free. He likes to take the initiative to talk about money, and he also likes to be friends with people who take the initiative to talk about money. In his opinion, taking the initiative to talk about money is not generous, but it is precisely each other's sense of proportion, and the clearer the separation of money and friendship, the longer it can last.

Qiu Lang also made this evaluation of him - not taking advantage of friends, it is a person's top cultivation to treat friendship.

The easiest relationship between people is to "talk about each other and take the initiative to talk about money". Because good friendships are expensive, it is not awkward to talk about love, and it will last a long time to talk about money.

As the party who obtains it, it is your cultivation to take the initiative to talk about money, and it is his right to accept it or not.

As the paying party, it is your choice to take the initiative to talk about money, and it is his cultivation whether to accept it.

Why does talking about money make friendships stronger?

Talking about money makes our relationship more organized and more constrained.

Talking about money makes us more assured and more secure about each other's results.

Talking about money gives us the confidence that in the future cooperation, we can consider each other more and have more motivation to cooperate.

Talking about money will also make you live with more dignity.

Li Jia has witnessed the face-turning of a pair of good girlfriends.

It's very simple, a friend opened a shop and was very close to his girlfriend's house. Every time, she will ask her best friend to help look at the store, because her best friend is a full-time wife, and in her eyes, she may be a woman who does not work.

Call your girlfriends when you go out to play, call your girlfriends when you go to dinner, and call your girlfriends when you watch a movie.

"It's nothing more than that, you can help me look at the store for a while."

That's it, until a certain time, my best friend finally couldn't help it and said, you have affected my normal life a little bit, and I have a lot of my own things to do.

The friend said, isn't it just to see a store by the way, and it's not every day, and good friends should help each other.

My girlfriend finally got angry: Actually, my time is also precious. Please come and see the store next time and pay me my salary.

That girlfriend ended up tearing up her face with that friend. She also had doubts, and asked Li Jia if she shouldn't tear her face apart.

Li Jia said: "Good friendships are very expensive." ”

If you don't have friends who can make cakes, you can eat and drink for free every day;

It's not that a friend can draw drawings, and you can take it for granted that the decoration is guaranteed;

It's not that your friend is abroad, so he should run all over the city for you and only collect the OEM price of your items;

It's not your friend who owns a coffee shop, and you can sit in it for 12 hours a day without ordering a cup of coffee;

It's not that your friend doesn't have a job, so you can tell her to do this and that.

Friendship is not a matter of taking for granted, but cherishing all the givings of true love. Paying for everything the other person deserves is the best sign of friendship.

Over the years, Han Yi has been constantly learning, practicing one thing, and taking the initiative to talk about money as much as possible in a clear world. It's not because I have money, but I don't want to be angry and cautious with my friends because of money.

This is about four years ago, that is, the year Han Yi and Qiu Lang met, he wrote and published, and Qiu Lang bought a lot of books in private and recommended them to other friends. If he likes a book, he will take the initiative to buy it, not to mention that the author is Han Yi.

It doesn't cost much to buy a thousand 800 copies, so it's a support.

One day, Han Yi went to Qiu Lang's house as a guest and brought him a copy of himself, because he promised him a copy when he had dinner with Bai Xue and Bai Xue for the first time with Qiu Lang in the house where Keiko lived.

When he arrived at Chu Lang's house, he found that his book was already stored on his shelf. Han Yi was actually quite moved in his heart, and said, "Didn't you say that it was good to send you?" ”

Qiu Lang just smiled and said: "I want to read your book, recognize your contribution, and naturally I will pay, and your contribution is worthy of money, I don't accept free!" ”

Many people say that friends should not help each other, how can they talk about money!

If you are the giver, it is your right to choose to negotiate money or not. If you're on the getter, don't take the trouble for granted.

The more sincere you are, the more you cherish everything you have - cherish your appearance, cherish your talent, cherish your labor, cherish your value; And those general friends, they always keep a wait-and-see state with you, ambiguous about everything you have - they are willing to share happiness with you, and they are not willing to share hardships with you, so they are ready to leave, and they also have a warm mentality at all times.

As a friend, you know how to cherish everything in each other, know how to exchange courtesies, know how to take the initiative to talk about money, and know how to exchange considerations.

Money is the litmus test of friendship and the escort ship of friendship.

Good friendships are expensive.