Chapter 303: Expired and Spoiled Love?
Isn't this what it means to get rid of the relationship and break it off from now on? Han Yi had a feeling of gritting his teeth and enduring it, wanting to hold back all the words she wanted, thinking about him, loving her, and waiting for her.
In the relationship, he has never been able to be as strategic and decisive as he is at work.
What happened to us all these years?
Is our relationship so fragile all these years? Han Yi wanted to say something, but he was speechless.
Maybe in their relationship, he has always been too passive, and the person who was broken up was always him, and he could only accept it obediently.
"Does it have to be like this?" Han Yi whispered to test and confirm whether their relationship could really only come here.
But how could Bai Xue tell her the answer, because she was also confused and needed time to give each other an answer.
When she stuffed the card into his hand, Han Yi took the opportunity to hug her.
10 seconds, 20 seconds, 30 seconds, a minute, time drove bit by bit, Han Yi was speechless, Bai Xue was motionless.
To be honest, Bai Xue doesn't like the feeling of being hugged by him.
"I can't give you an answer right now, I hope time can give us the best arrangement!" Bai Xue said: "No matter where you are, no matter what you do, you have to take care of yourself and don't let me worry!" ”
In the past, as long as Han Yi hugged her, she would also hug Han Yi tightly, but now, she didn't. Han Yi felt that when she said such a thing, it should be accompanied by choking, and she didn't either.
Han Yi's mobile phone rang, and Bai Xue slowly pushed Han Yi away. These words, these body words seem to have clearly told Han Yi: This can only be the case.
"Or you can wait here for me for a while, and I'll be done right away." Bai Xue smiled, smiling casually, then turned and walked upstairs.
Is this still the Bai Xue that Han Yi knows? When did it become so callous? It's so chic to say that if you don't love it, you won't love it!
He only felt his sadness welling up in his heart, and after Bai Xue went upstairs, he also left the place.
Walking through familiar neighborhoods and familiar streets like walking corpses again, probably because of the weekend, there were many more couples in pairs, and he and Bai Xue were once one of them.
It is said that it is normal for lovers to divide and reunite, but people's hearts are flesh and blood, don't people who are broken up feel heartache?
I believe that everyone will envy those who refuse to let go of the feelings after holding hands, the most romantic love is not to watch the wind and snow together, but to rely on each other, grow old, and never give up. Many people say that the most affectionate confession is companionship, because no matter how many words are pale in front of real feelings, only the most real thing to accompany you is.
In the adult world, everyone hopes to gain as much as they invest, especially love, when they meet, they hope that it will be a lifetime, and when they meet, they want to spend their lives waiting. Because life is very short, no one wants to live up to too much time on unnecessary people, everyone wants to be able to talk about a vigorous love in their lifetime, with
Spend the rest of your life together sweetly, no matter what happens, you can stick to your feelings and not give up easily.
The encounter between people is a fate, no one knows who they will meet, but there are always some people who are caught off guard and break into their own world, sometimes like flowers in spring, blooming enthusiastically and brilliantly; Sometimes it is like the winter sun, bright and warm sprinkled in the heart. Such a person is undoubtedly a very important person in life, such an encounter is a beautiful fate, the beginning is a warm story, when you meet such a person, you must be very hopeful to be able to spend your life waiting.
Zhang Ailing said: "Among thousands of people, meet the person you want to meet. In the wilderness of endless time for thousands of years, there is no earlier or later step, and when encountered, I can only say softly: Are you also here? ”
Meeting, sometimes it doesn't take a lot of embellishment to become very romantic, because when you meet the right person at the right time, everything is like water coming together, and you don't need too many words or too many things.
I remember when I first met Bai Xue, because of each other's shyness, they looked at each other for no more than a few seconds, and there was no verbal communication. Although Han Yi didn't feel a heartbeat at that time, he left an unforgettable impression in Bai Xue's heart.
In their relationship, Bai Xue fell in love with Han Yi at first sight, and Han Yi fell in love with Bai Xue for a long time.
Love is always romantic at the beginning, with flowers and beautiful lights, gentle music and fragrant air, so that they know that meeting is a kind of romance, and meeting is a kind of beauty.
Han Yi met Bai Xue, Bai Xue met Han Yi, and there were not too many words. They have known each other for a year and separated for three years, but they still came together, and they both believe that this is fate. One year together, three years apart, holding hands again, they also believe that this is fate.
What now? Is fate coming to an end? Was it fate that played a joke?
There will be many encounters in your life, you may pass by happy lovers in ignorance, and you may lose the best person in confusion. Those who will go far are not the ones who really have to wait for a lifetime, and those who will leave are not the ones who really love you.
Han Yi felt that he had been abandoned again, and couldn't help but think in his heart, did Bai Xue really love him so much?
Doesn't it say that the best love is fearless? Is the truest heart inseparable? So, what is easy to lose is not really the best, is their relationship just like that?
If you think about it, he may have a problem, he always likes to save the best things for the end to enjoy, or wait for the end to give to others, he puts all the good things in the future, but what if the two of them don't go on the road to the future together?
It may not be just him, but many people who tend to ignore the crucial point that it is best to have a shelf life. It can be said that the starting point of happiness and the organic body that people can have will slowly deteriorate with the arrival of this expiration date.
So why do people choose to live a life of deterioration? They don't know that this will make their quality of life change
Is it low?
It's not necessarily that they don't know, but they never think that a different choice will make life better.
It's like a small garden next to you with beautiful flowers, and instead of looking, you're thinking about what to do if you break the bowl tomorrow? Then all the time today is spent worrying about tomorrow's broken bowl, and by the time you want to see the flowers, the flowers have already withered. You're not stupid what?
The lover around you is good to you, and you don't live a good life with others, but you are thinking that one day in the future he will beat you viciously. Then get angry with the other person and want to break up, feeling that the other party does not deserve to have the best you in the future. By the time your so-called best comes, people will already be cold. You're not stupid what?
Always keep every one of his best things and hold back, naively thinking that he can finally make a big move. But he spoiled the best things in each of his time periods. You're not stupid what?
Take a bag of apples as an example, if this bag of apples is only allowed to eat one a day, then: there is a person who chooses the reddest and best apples in it every day, then he will end up eating most of the good apples;
The other kind of person finds a part of the rotten apple every day to eat, because he wants to save the good apples for last, but he ignores the fact that the apples will be bad, which means that he will never eat the whole apple. One rotten one today eats this rotten one, and tomorrow another rotten one eats that rotten one again, and that rotten one again, and so on, and so on, until in the end, he can't enjoy the best one.
Life happens to be like this, a bag full of apples. But people never wonder why they can only eat rotten apples when they open their pockets, but complain every day that their future life will be bad and unhappy.
That's because you can choose to study hard, but you are lazy to play every day.
That's because you can choose to reconcile after a quarrel, but no one pays attention to anyone.
That's because you can improve your quality of life, but you have to live hard.
There are also people who say that they have suffered inhuman treatment in the past, so there will definitely be no good life in the future, so now they just want to be unhappy.
There are also people who say that they are used to living alone, and they are no longer happy, and it is useless to change now.
But you can try, you try first, you take the initiative, you don't do more to do what you like, how do you know?
Maybe it's not that they don't know, they're just waiting for someone else to help them change themselves.
There is such a little story about a young man who works in a factory and has never been able to find a girlfriend. So the worker helped introduce one.
When the girl went to the place where the young man lived, there were smelly socks and piles of clothes everywhere. The girl quickly made an excuse and left, and never came back again.
The young man thinks that he can become clean when he has a partner, get rid of his laziness, and then leave the best of himself to the other party.
But why wait until you have an object, or something, to correct it?
Wouldn't it be nice to let yourself have a good way of living now?
Wouldn't it be good to eat good apples now?
Why
Do you have to leave your so-called good behind?
It's the same with things, and it's the same with relationships. Don't you know that after the deadline, things will go bad?!
Don't you know that most people can't afford to spend their time waiting for something uncertain?
Time is so precious, I don't think about how to live every day in the present, but I think about disasters that have not happened in the future all day long.
You don't even know if you're in the mood to look forward to your own so-called good, and whether others are willing to accept it.
When he was in elementary school, Han Yi loved to watch cartoons, but the discipline at home was strict, so he rarely touched the TV, so he missed a lot of cartoons, and at that time he secretly vowed that he would watch these cartoons all over again when he grew up.
When he was a child, he didn't have any toys, and he said that he must buy all the toys that he couldn't afford when he was a child.
However, when he really grew up, he was excited to find out the cartoons he hadn't finished watching when he was a child, but he couldn't watch any of them, and he wouldn't be happy to see them anymore.
With great interest, he found the toys he wanted to buy online and found that he no longer needed them.
Only now did he suddenly understand that every time period has something that he wants to have in each time period, and if he doesn't get it or use it in this time period, it will have no meaning to himself after this time period.
Because your state of mind and feelings have changed. And what we thought was good at the beginning is no longer as good as we imagined, so why don't we enjoy it early?
Just like the so-called frugal life of many old people, although we can understand it, we don't agree with it.
For example, many elderly people who are accustomed to living a hard life always hide the fruits and meat bought by their families, are reluctant to eat them, and put them in the refrigerator again, but they still have to eat three meals a day every day.
For example, if the family buys fresh food for a week, they can eat fresh food every day and eat it comfortably until the end, but they don't want to. They would rather eat leftovers every day, and when they are finished, the original fresh ingredients become leftovers again, and continue to eat until the end, all the fresh ones become leftovers alive.
Why bother yourself? I could have had a better life. I can make every day better, and I can eat fresh meals every day. Why do you have to wait until it expires to change its flavor before you are willing to eat it?
Isn't it a pity that the best of them just become the worst and worst?
Although I know that most of their stress comes from every uncertain and frightening future.
But this kind of future and uncertainty is not happening to you today.
Can you not find out until the end.
The best youth is not left for last.
The best feelings don't last long.
The best life is not left for last.
Although knowing that they often form such a concept in their minds.
What if you don't have a good tomorrow? What should I do if I don't have a good day the day after tomorrow? What if you don't have a good time sometime in the future?
(End of chapter)