Chapter 316: Happiness is sometimes late, but it is never absent

As usual, he didn't go to the VIP lounge because it was too quiet. No, it should be said that he is too cold, he is a person who likes to be alone and likes to be quiet, but not an indifferent person. Therefore, he is in the ordinary waiting area, where it is more lively, there are all kinds of people, more like life.

Less than five or six meters away from him, there was a young couple, looking at the movements and demeanors between them, they should have just gotten married, right? But he wasn't sure.

The man asked, "Was there a moment when you thought marriage was a particularly beautiful thing?" ”

She said: Yes, when I woke up, I heard you busy in the kitchen, the sun was hitting the quilt, the cat was stretching, the dog yawned, and received a call from my mother and asked, is the morning sickness still very bad?

She said: You came back from a business trip, I went to the train station to pick you up, stood at the east exit of the train station and watched a large group of people go out, think about one of you inside, I stood there and giggled, and then you waved to me.

She said: Every time I cry because of all kinds of troubles, every time I am afraid that I don't know how to welcome my little life, what if I can't raise it well? You're always grinning and smiling and saying to me, no, it's me.

Han Yi felt that what the happy woman in front of him said was so ordinary, but it was very warm.

In fact, all the beautiful moments are shattered, and every day in life is only a handful. Life, in the final analysis, is cruel, and love is the only survival tool for lovers to fight against cruelty, so every beautiful moment is equivalent to adding blood and energy to love.

The man asked again: So, is there a moment when you think divorce is a particularly beautiful thing?

Han Yi was suddenly a little confused, divorced? These two words should not be said to a loved one on any occasion, right? Is this a straight man? How can such a question be asked?

The woman smiled and said, "Yes, you knocked over the soy sauce and made a mess on the stove." The cat grinds its claws and scratches the cover. The dog was running in circles around the house, the dog hair was flying all over the sky, and I received a call from the property that it was time to pay the heating bill this month.

She said: Every time I quarrel, I see you sitting there and smirking, without saying a word, I will be angry, don't you know that a slap can't be slapped? You're giving me a five!

She said: You don't bathe the dog, you don't change the cat litter, you sleep until the sun is three strokes, you eat grapes and don't spit out grape skins, you scramble tomatoes and eggs and always love to put sugar, in short, if you think about it, you can probably find 100 reasons for divorce.

The man felt a little ashamed, and asked with a smirk, "But, why didn't we get divorced?" ”

She said: "Love is so nasty, but fortunately you are cute." ”

"Then you praise me!" The man was smiling more and more happily.

The woman smiled: "I really envy you for marrying a lovely little daughter-in-law." ”

In fact, all the moments of negative emotions are shattered, and every day in life is also a handful. Living a life, in the final analysis, is the pursuit of happiness, so love can resist all erosion, who has no trivial grievances and unwillingness in life, close the door, firewood, rice, oil and salt, life has to be good.

There is no love between them, you and me, it's all daily life.

This is probably sad news, maybe from the moment they get their marriage license, the love is gone.

Talking about love is only about love, the mountains and seas swear to love you forever, marriage is only about raising a family, each other will become more distressed by each other, as long as one party is still active, probably will not come to this step of marriage.

With such a life, Han Yi inexplicably became yearning.

Han Yi didn't understand very well, and proposed to Bai Xue because he loved her and didn't want to be separated from her again. If you want to ask him if he has ever thought about the trivial life after marriage, the answer may be yes, he doesn't, because they really have too little time together, if it weren't for the conflicts and quarrels in recent days, he wouldn't feel that the life of two people is so difficult, because they have always respected each other, there have been no contradictions, no quarrels, and no other troubles in life.

So they don't know what it will be like when their bad emotions are fully exposed to each other, and that's why it's like this.

Han Yi had seen the story of Miss Pudding and Mr. Brown Sugar on Weibo, and he was still impressed.

Miss Pudding never thought she would meet Mr. Brown Sugar until she met him.

Speaking of the scene where they met, it was like making a movie.

One day, Miss Pudding had just gotten off work and went downstairs to find it raining heavily. She stood awkwardly at the exit of the office building, looking up at the sky in a daze. A few seconds later, she lifted her briefcase above her head and lunged towards the park gate.

Probably her head was pressed too low, and she didn't even notice a black SUV driving from the left. A crisp and loud whistle was heard, followed by a sudden braking, and Miss Pudding turned her head sharply, staggered, and fell.

A young man from the car got out of the car. White shirt, black suit, very professional. He walked briskly up to Miss Pudding, and earnestly asked if he was hurt and if he wanted to go to the hospital.

Miss Pudding waved her hand and struggled to her feet. Her skirt and shoes were wet, and when the palm of her right hand fell, she hit a small pebble, making a cut, and bleeding incessantly.

Seeing this, the young man insisted on sending Miss Pudding to the hospital to be bandaged. Miss Pudding politely refused, saying that it was none of his business and that she was careless. As a result, the young man didn't say a word, and pulled her into the car.

Later, they knew each other. It turns out that the young man's name is Mr. Brown Sugar, and it turns out that Mr. Brown Sugar and Miss Pudding work in the same park.

Miss Pudding said, "Why haven't I ever seen you before?"

Mr. Brown Sugar smiled and said, "Isn't this going to be seen today?"

Some things are really amazing. Before meeting Mr. Brown Sugar, Miss Pudding never thought she would fall in love. She works from 9 to 5 every day, and her circle is so small that almost all of them are women, except for her best friends. Seeing that the boss is not small, she has never had a boyfriend, and even her neighbors are in a hurry, every time she sees Miss Pudding, her mother will say some bitter words about "whether a woman should marry or stay". The result, of course

I was brainwashed and urged to go home every day.

The third aunt and the sixth wife are not idle, they will come to the door to be a matchmaker every once in a while, as if everyone is in a hurry, as anxious as ants on a hot pot, but Miss Pudding herself is not in a hurry.

Her mother saw that she was always warm and half-, and she didn't put her life events at ease, so she asked her, eh, I said why are you not in a hurry at all, can you have a snack, how old are you this year!

As a result, Miss Pudding nested in the sofa, eating potato chips while pressing the remote control to change the table, muttering, I am 28 this year, and I am still a flower.

As soon as the words fell, she didn't make her mother angry.

Otherwise, how could Miss Pudding be too old and not have a boyfriend, which can be traced back to her previous ups and downs in her relationship.

When she was a sophomore, a beautiful man in the department chased her, and she didn't do anything more, and she liked his impeccable face, so she agreed. Later, it was identified as a scumbag. So for a long time, Miss Pudding was allergic to beautiful men, so much so that when the three roommates were chasing after Xiao Xianrou and going crazy for them, she was expressionless and her eyes were glazed.

As she approached graduation, Miss Pudding found an internship at a law firm.

She finally said goodbye to the campus, to her youth, and to the nightmare left to her by the beautiful man. Life was neither good nor bad, until the appearance of Mr. Dokin broke her peaceful life.

They were in love. Warm and crazy. Mr. Dokin gave Miss Pudding a romance and sweetness that she had never felt before, and she felt like she was living in a fairy tale every day.

Morningcall in the morning, exclusive chauffeur in the evening, and evening peace of mind before bedtime. At one point, she thought that Mr. Dorking was the right person.

But the good times didn't last long, and when Mr. Dorking took her hand and took her to meet her parents, she was strongly opposed by the other parent. The reason is that Miss Pudding's family is ordinary, not from City C, and she has no local hukou.

Mr. Dokin eventually failed to convince his parents, and he told Miss Pudding to quit her job and put down roots in City C. But Miss Pudding misses home and doesn't want to stay in City C. Mr. Dorking and Miss Pudding had a great quarrel over this, and Miss Pudding's heart fell to the bottom of joy. She bought a map and went home, spread it flat on the table, and stared at the distance between City C and City A, which was really far away.

In the face of love and distance, she flinched for the first time.

After returning from City C, Miss Pudding is arranged to meet Mr. Blind Date. The two made an appointment to meet at a café. Mr. Blind Date spoke directly and got straight to the point. He asked Miss Pudding about her height, occupation, income, and family background, and asked one after another, but he didn't ask her preferences or talk about each other's three views. Miss Pudding was bored.

Under pressure from her family, Miss Pudding is forced to date Mr. Blind Date for a week, and finally ends this awkward and funny relationship one day after sending a message that has been sent out in the sea.

When Miss Pudding and Mr. Brown Sugar talked about their relationship experiences, they had a playful tone.

That day, they made an appointment to climb the mountain together, and when they reached the top of the mountain, they were both exhausted and out of breath. Mr. Brown Sugar pinched the stopwatch and said, You lost, me

Reach the top of the mountain 0.3 seconds before you.

Miss Pudding breathlessly said, "Can we still have fun?"

Mr. Brown Sugar laughed, and he said that it seemed that it was impossible, and that the person who was good at losing had to answer the question of the person who won.

They found a place to sit. Brown sugar asks Pudding, why hasn't he had a boyfriend all the time?

Miss Pudding looked up at the sky and said, "I didn't believe in love at all." Maybe it's because I've seen too many parts and combinations, and I've seen too much noise and noise, I think love is too tiring and tormenting.

When I was twenty years old, I met a scumbag, who was ignorant but heartbreaking. When I was twenty-two years old, I fell in love and died, and for the first time I understood that distance could not produce beauty at all. From the age of 24 to 26, I kept going on blind dates, becoming more and more realistic, and gradually forgot how to love others. Until you get used to eating, traveling, reading, and writing alone, and get used to adapting to a person's life, the dry land in your heart will be neglected to water. Time flies, and it's twenty-eight in a flash.

Mr. Brown Sugar looked at Miss Pudding's side face and was silent. It turns out that Miss Pudding is not a female classmate without a story.

I can't say why, after that day, Mr. Brown Sugar became very active, he would often drive the black SUV at the door of her office building during commuting time, often care about her daily life intentionally or unintentionally, often make her laugh, and often pull her out for a full meal.

Miss Pudding knew he had a crush on her, but she was still unsure. The heart that had been imprisoned for many years suddenly began to throb, which made her panic. She was afraid of getting hurt, so she wrapped herself in layers, passively and cautiously.

Perhaps, she was really moved, otherwise why would she be inexplicably nervous when she saw his car parked downstairs, and then laughed inexplicably? Even she didn't know that Mr. Brown Sugar had come into her life little by little.

If the initial uncertainty is to test whether the other party is sincere, then time is obviously the best proof.

He didn't mind her occasional coldness, her playing tricks on him, the points she thought he would. He never did anything that would make her hate it. When she needed comfort the most, he was always there at the right time to give her a shoulder to lean on. She took a step back, and he took a step forward.

At the end of the year, Miss Pudding and Mr. Brown Sugar are together. The process is not as pretentious as in it, nor is it as dreamy as in Korean dramas, it is just a simple and ordinary hand-holding, but she feels extremely romantic.

The fact that a man can stuff his cold little hands into his coat pocket on a winter night is a heart-warming thing in itself. What's more, he is the person she loves deeply.

Because of his presence, she is no longer self-exiled, no longer discouraged, no longer duplicitous. Because of his warmth, the ice in her heart melted little by little, moisturized and dried up, and made her a girl who loves to laugh.

At the singles party before marriage, Miss Pudding ordered a song "Finally Waiting for You" by Zhang Liangying in KTV, and she cried while singing

Once, she was also chased by loneliness. Every lonely night, she dances with insomnia. She didn't want to find someone to stay with until she was old, but the person she liked didn't appear, the person who appeared didn't like it, she didn't want to start casually, and she didn't want to become abusive, so she let the pendulum of time beat the pride in her heart. said that it was good to be single, but in my heart I really wanted to meet someone who could really be good to me.

From twenty to twenty-four, from twenty-four to twenty-eight, Miss Pudding was almost giving up, she had already consumed all her passions in waiting. Fortunately, at the end of her youth, she met him, a man who was willing to treat her sincerely.

Everything was like a dream, it came so quickly, but it seemed to be arranged in the dark.

If she hadn't worked overtime that day, she wouldn't have missed the last bus; If it weren't for missing the last bus, she wouldn't have been in such a hurry to get home; If it weren't for the rush home, she wouldn't have braved the heavy rain and lowered her head to run towards the gate; If it weren't for the fact that she lowered her head and ran towards the door, she wouldn't have accidentally bumped into him; If there were no ifs, she wouldn't have started with him.

Miss Pudding finally understands that it will always come, but it may be late. It's like an airplane delay, like a bus delay. But after that period of time, the plane still has to take off, and the bus still has to depart. So, it's useless for you to be anxious, it's useless to be discouraged, it's useless to do anything. It's not anyone's fault that the right person doesn't show up, it's just because the timing is not right. When you settle your heart, when you are ready to pack up your heart before you go, when you simply choose to stay where you are and wait patiently, the heavens will inadvertently bring him to you.

That's fate.

Some people say that love is out of reach. Some people say that if you are alone, you are really afraid that happiness will never knock on the door again. I think love is not divided between morning and evening, only when you meet, and love is only good or bad. Love the right people, and your world will be clear. Loving the wrong person, there are thundershowers every day.

In the vast sea of people, it is really not easy to meet. Some people meet early, others come late. Coming early doesn't mean you'll be able to make it to the end, and coming late doesn't mean you're doomed.

Most of the love when you are young is immature, so it is easy to die. When you are tired of tossing and entangled, your heart will be closed.

Maybe you have had a few vigorous relationships when you were young and ignorant, and you have experienced all kinds of separations and combinations, and you feel that you have loved enough in your life, and you never want to get involved in a relationship for half a step. But fate will still come when it should come, just like the encounter between Miss Pudding and Mr. Brown Sugar, without the slightest precaution, without the slightest concern, they appear in each other's worlds like this.

In the past, when I was single, I always listened to the elders around me, and they said that fate would naturally come when it should come, and they couldn't stop it. I was half-convinced, and I often wondered when the other half would appear, but the more I thought about it, the more confused my mood became. Later, on a sunny day, I met Mr. Z. It wasn't a deliberate arrangement, it was just a coincidence, just an accident. He just walked silently from the sky

And the fall, not sooner or later, just right.

For the protagonist in the story, she is lucky, and she also deserves it.

For Han Yi, maybe he doesn't have to worry too much, since the person he identified, Bai Xue, has already appeared and entered his own world, he must not give up easily.

As long as the door of his heart is not closed, as long as you have enough patience to solve and wait, as long as he still believes in love, there will still be a happy ending after all.

He has seen many people around him who used to mutter, "I don't believe in love anymore", and now they are in love and married. A few years ago, after he broke up with Zhong Yinger, he also threatened in his heart that he would no longer believe in love, but in fact, he fell in love with Bai Xue.

Many people have threatened that they will not marry, and they will not marry, but after separation, many years have passed, when time dilutes the bad memories and dilutes the days when the grass grows and the warbler flies, you will still choose to accept the reality, choose to meet new people, start a new relationship, and have a new way of life again.

No one knows what will happen in the future, what kind of people you will meet, what will happen, who will fall in love with you, and who you will marry.

At the age of 28, he is a little confused at the moment, but he always believes that happiness is sometimes late, but it is never absent.

In fact, there is no need to worry too much, because there is already such a person, as long as the door of his heart is not closed, as long as he has enough patience to wait, as long as he still believes in love, this is enough.

(End of chapter)