"Born from thoughts, the heart is unhindered, and there is no obstacle."

These twelve words are the words in the Heart Sutra, which is a kind of Zen enlightenment, which roughly means: all encounters arise from karma, born from thoughts, you should not be attached to anything, do not take it to heart, and it will naturally pass.

For Ammy, the past relationship was over like that, and she started a new life, a new goal, a new relationship.

She believes that as long as she waits, there will be someone who loves her like life. And now the person she thinks is obviously none other than Han Yi.

Huo Jianhua announced his relationship with Ruby Lin on May 20, which caused an uproar for a while.

Some people lamented that 11 years ago, he met her in "Subway", and today, he is sure that she is his "Princess of the World". Encountering is the best beginning.

Jingjing, played by Ruby Lin, is a blind radio DJ, and Yunxiang, played by Huo Jianhua, is an office worker whose work is in a bottleneck. Until one day, Yun Xiang witnessed Jingjing's purse being ripped off and helped her who was about to fall.

The urban romance drama "Subway", adapted from Jimmy's comic of the same name, tells the story of fate. Huo Jianhua and Lin Xinru became acquainted because of the play, and there were also scandals, but the two parties did not admit it at the time, but they maintained a good friendship until today. After a thousand sails, there is someone who is always waiting, and I will always be moved by such love.

Everyone has a subway in their heart that leads to an exit called Hope. However, for the sake of love, we get lost in the crowded carriage, constantly get on the wrong train, repeatedly get off the wrong station, and often get lost, lost, and injured.

Whether we are naturally beautiful or ordinary, we always strive to find hope, afraid that luck is around us and be carelessly missed, we always hope that in the crowd of people who come and go at the station, there will always be someone waiting at the exit.

Jimmy said that we are so lucky that we don't know for sure what kind of world we live in.

As a friend of Su Youpeng, who has known Ruby Lin for more than 20 years, Weibo was attacked by the CP party of the two at the first time, and they all said: "When I saw Xinru announcing her relationship, I suddenly thought of you", "I always thought that you could be together in the end, Du Fei Ruping".

Su Youpeng continued to put on his beard, and he had more of a man's composure and toughness, but he didn't see the grace and beauty of the fifth elder brother; Zhou Jie was reduced to an emoji, and "Mars Intelligence Agency" recorded a few episodes, but he still couldn't clear his name as an old cadre who had become angry; Huang Ama "sat on the bed" and became a living Buddha, and everyone thought that he was more confused than when he chased and killed Xiaoyanzi.

Since ancient times, beauties sighed in the twilight, and heroes were not allowed to see white heads.

"Huanzhu Gege" was once popular all over the country, and later everyone always liked to compare the development of the three golden flowers in the play, their life experience, combined with the roles of the year, always had a sense of fate.

Zhao Wei has high emotional intelligence, good popularity, positive appearance, and those big eyes seem to have the source of all happiness. was a smash hit at the beginning, although he was also knocked off the altar, he was promoted by Xingye, and he pulled down his son to play an ugly girl and won applause. finally married into a wealthy husband and godson, and returned to the basics after coming out, and the lead was washed away. Whether it is in front of or behind the scenes, or in her career and family, she is very successful.

Fan Bingbing has a bold style, saying that he is a wealthy family, but his bold words are also extremely poignant. We can see in her the epitome of a successful Chinese person, from a humble background, who clearly understands her strengths and weaknesses, and seizes every opportunity to climb up. She leads the trend of fashion aesthetics, and she is also a businessman walking the rivers and lakes.

Only Ruby Lin, who has no sense of presence and lethality, has a small appearance of jasper, and is only suitable for playing the role of a silly and sweet heroine. But she is the only one who has always been gentle and at ease. She has been authentic for 15 years, going from the front of the stage to behind the scenes, doing what she wants to do and loving the people she loves.

But in those memories of youth, Lin Xin is also the most distressing, she seems to age faster than everyone else, but she never has a home of her own.

In "Deep Love and Rain", at Ruping's birthday party, everyone mentioned the 2000 date, and when I watched it, I also followed the longing, how far away the future should be, and now 16 years have passed in a flash, and we have lost count of how many times we have been scattered in the feast of life.

Ruping fell in love with Shuhuan deeply, and finally married Du Fei. can afford to take it in the relationship and put it down, but it is still cold after all. Since you have been awakened by the blow of the collapse of the world, it can only prove that you can be sober, and the original intoxication has become unreasonable.

In the matter of consistency, everyone should only admire Jin Yuelin.

Wang Xiaoshuai, Tang Jili, Lin Zhiying, Huang Xiaoming, Tan Yaowen, Ren Quan, among these rumored boyfriends, the people who eat melons can't know who Ruby Lin loves, and finally she chooses Huo Jianhua, love always has to be trial and error before you meet the right him.

When it comes to Huo Jianhua, everyone will naturally think of Hu Ge.

At the beginning of the year, in an interview with "A Date with Luyu", Hu Ge was slightly drunk, and his opinion on feelings was that fate gave everyone a script, and he was still waiting for his own fate.

Chen Luyu asked him when he would get married, and he said that it was difficult to find a suitable person. Hu Ge, who once thought that he could plan anything, had planned to get married at 26 and have a child at the age of 27, and he is still 33 years old, and his love life is still unsettled.

As a Virgo, Hu Ge felt that it was difficult for him to do it, on the one hand, he needed to have his own space, but after a while, he felt that "he needed to communicate, he needed friends, and he needed to go to the crowd." ”

Hu Ge felt that his emotional management was a failure, which led to his unsuccessful love life, and if there was a person who could adapt to his rhythm, "then this person is really great".

Prior to this, Hu Ge's mother had high requirements for her daughter-in-law, and he also attached great importance to his mother's opinion, and if his mother didn't like it, he would definitely not consider marriage easily. But as she got older, her attitude changed.

"As long as she treats you well and likes you, life is lived by the two of you after all."

"If you don't have time to take the child, send the child to our house, and we'll bring it to you."

A paragraph in Wang Zijian's "Tonight's Post-80s Talk Show"——

You are looking for a girlfriend, if you want to find a kind future mother-in-law, don't look for those young girls in their prime, those are luxuries, you look for those single young women who are older and unmarried.

Go on a blind date with a leftover girl who can't get married, and the mother-in-law will be very kind.

Mother-in-law: "Do you have a house?" ”

You: "No, I'm leaving, Auntie." ”

Mother-in-law: "Oh, oh, let's talk again, in this way, I will pay you a down payment, whether you can provide it yourself, and the name of the real estate certificate will be written on my daughter." ”

You: "Then I'm leaving." ”

Mother-in-law: "Don't, it's okay to write about the two of you, bring one, little brother." ”

Of course, when you reach a certain age, everyone doesn't like the words "leftover men" and "leftover women", with the progress of society, marriage has become no longer necessary in life, and there will always be some people left for various reasons.

The more excellent the person, the more difficult it is to find a partner, and society simply and rudely requires us to find the same grade, excellent people at the top of the pyramid, so it is difficult to find.

In addition, excellent people are more able to tolerate loneliness, work silently when they are lonely, and make themselves better through hard work. As a result, excellent people will always fall into the closed loop of "excellent - working hard in loneliness - being better - being more able to adapt to loneliness".

The Harvard Happiness Open Class, a wonderful statement about the ideal marriage, is like this:

I unconsciously denied the importance of finding a partner, finding the right partner, we need just a kiss like a frog meets a prince. But to make love enduring, more importantly, business.

I mean, we know a lot of people who think we've found our true destiny. Maybe they did find their true destiny, and then for various reasons, whether it was a good excuse or a bad excuse, they broke up and found another love. There are 6 billion people in the world, and of course there is not only one true son, so what makes marriage unique? It's not about looking for the right person, it's about managing this relationship, which is the crystallization of working together, resting together, getting along for a long time, and dedicating to each other.

This is how a unique and deep relationship is cultivated, it is a process, not about having a happy marriage, but about how to make a marriage happy, not simply putting on a ring or making a promise, but doing things together.

We used to want to marry a wife like crape myrtle, and in the end our wife was like Mama Rong, but this did not prevent us from loving her, maybe life would be a mess, but when we planted strawberries and children for her, we were also very excited.

As we grow older, we will better understand the difference between dreams and reality, and in the long years of growing old with her, we don't need to look at the stars and the moon every day, from poetry and poetry to life philosophy, besides, where is there really a woman like crape myrtle in the world?

Many people who have loved, hated and forgiven always taught you that love is bland is true, you have questioned, hesitated, and your love destination is not the kind you have always believed.

Later, if you are willing to wait slowly, love becomes like warm water, it is no longer a heart-to-heart and liver to pay, desperate to pursue, there will be someone who will prove to you with actions that love is a kind of peace of mind and stability.

"I will find my only soul mate in the middle of nowhere. I'm lucky; No, my life. That's it". This is a footnote written by the poet Xu Zhimo for his short life, but it also comforts many lonely souls.

Although life is ordinary and trivial, how can love be settled?

When I was young, I didn't know love, and I always thought that loving someone was to talk to her until late at night, and I never dared to tell her because I was very sleepy and tired. Later, I found out that the person who can really accompany him to the end can tolerate him and fall asleep with his mobile phone while chatting with her, because he will never have to worry that there will be no tomorrow after tonight.

Good feelings don't have to be coaxed every day, but accept each other and rely on each other, you have your career, I have my hobbies, we love each other but love is not all, we quarrel but can communicate.

A good relationship is not a tired drag, but a kind of snuggling of the heart, this kind of love connection, based on the premise of each other's firm choice in the heart, you can open up your own world, and freely open up, I am here to wait, you always have someone to love.

There is a kind of love in this world, faintly buried in the heart, you can't tell how much love you have, but that person is not around, you will be worried. The longest-lasting companionship, like daily necessities, will not be overvalued, but there is no no.

As long as you are willing to wait, even in the years that go round and round, you deserve a better him, who likes your sensitivity and pretentiousness, and also tolerates your occasional willfulness and arrogance.

If it's destined to be you, let's meet again later, when our love will not have bitterness and tears, just patience and good temper.

Ammy thinks so in what she thinks of as love, and so does Han Yi, who is also waiting, waiting for him and Bai Xue to re-embark on the happy road of love.