Life is a thing that always seems to be very long, but it is very short to walk. When you lament that the years are not as good as wine, most of them have passed the age of letting you go.

It is just a matter of being free, but it is less and less is unattainable.

People born in 1988, most of them are already old and young. So, if you ask him, how do you feel when the post-80s reach their thirties? I guess it's just that silence is better than sound at this point.

Ren Yao, there is nothing wrong with being free, and the key is one more Ren. Ren, willful, arbitrary, then, put aside the shackles of the world, in which year can you be free and unfettered? Maybe it's from childhood.

Man himself is a carrier of contradictions, longing for freedom and growth, but he is more afraid than sad.

Sometimes, it's a joy to be bound because you're needed, and you're an integral part of your emotionally tied life. However, gains and losses are inevitable, and this kind of judgment needs to be realized by yourself.

My second job after graduating from university was at a very large company. There is a leader Little C, who is 3 years older than me, a typical rich and handsome. He lives a life that most people in the world envy, and this life is also what most people can't get, that is, the material basis that is equal to money.

However, he was not happy.

His dream has always been to be able to travel or hike Tibet with the people he loves, go to the places where he wants to write poems, and do the small things he wants to do that can be happy, but as a result, this is not allowed. Little C's birth contains the mission of inheriting his father's industry, even if he doesn't like this kind of life, doesn't like management, and doesn't like business, but it's useless.

At that time, I was getting paid every month, and I was staring at the text messages on my mobile phone, and I had the feeling of looking forward to the stars and the moon. When Xiao C chatted with me once, he said quietly: "Actually, I especially envy the way you work hard for your salary every month, waiting for the day of your salary, and then take the money to buy something that you think is relatively luxurious, and then drink some Coke, order a takeout and go home to the sofa, hey, Lao Tzu is getting paid today, willful!" When Xiao C said this, he had an envy that was very incommensurate with his identity. You may not imagine that there will be people who envy the ordinary, but it is.

Not only Little C, but there are two people around me who live very well, but no ordinary people live happily. They even need to deliberately do things to make their day look different, such as buying cigarettes without money on purpose, and then borrowing 20 yuan from someone close to them, not to ask for it, but to borrow. When I got the money, I happily took out my phone and set a reminder: I owe twenty to so-and-so. That way, he said, it doesn't look so boring today.

In contrast, as ordinary people, our fetters always seem to be separated by thousands of mountains and rivers compared to them, but in fact, people have a helpless and sad side of drinking alone, but this side is not the same.

I wanted to be a proud eagle,

Skimming over the heads of the earth,

Beyond the dull and restless life,

Zhanpeng Wanli,

Look for everything possible.

And when I know what is in vain,

I have reined in my mind.

I wanted to be a feathered swallow,

Fly in the dense mountain jungle,

Swimming in the warm spring night playing in the rain,

I take up the branches and build a nest,

Nestled in my freely rippling wave heart.

And when I know what is in vain,

I can only look at the blue sky,

One goes two or three miles.

1988 was an embarrassing grade, not so much wanting to give up on their dreams, it seemed a bit decadent, saying that they were pursuing freedom, but they were short of oxygen.

Leisurely is like a leisure, but it is not easy. On the other hand, the huge backlog of assets makes people lose their freedom of mind, and sometimes thinking about it is not necessarily a good thing. Each of us, with different times and backgrounds, pursues different things, but a certain degree of freedom is necessary, because it is a kind of self-judgment to realize self-worth, and there is no need to mind the eyes of others.

After all, life is both short and long, and if you can't abandon the worldly ABCD and entertain yourself, it's not a different kind of happiness.

No matter what is inconvenient to say,

Panic,

Wild Waste,

Raise your eyes and look around,

Heavy snow!