"Even if a woman gets married and has children, she must have her own job, two or three days a week, two or three hours a day. One is to have an income, the other is to prove your worth, you can make your life more exciting, and then you can have your own living space, you have your own social circle, you have your own friends, you are not the stupid woman who circles around a big family all day long. If a man says to you, "I'll raise you for the rest of your life!" In this case, you can just listen to it, you can take it as a love word, not as a promise. The world is full of uncertainties, a lifetime is so long, no one knows what will happen, only by believing in yourself is the most reliable. ”

"Reaching out to others to ask for money will only wear away your dignity and self-confidence, you are insecure when you spend other people's money, and you are afraid that he will not want you, what should you do? So you try to please him in every way and make yourself no longer yourself. We women spend the money we earn if we want to spend it, spend it justifiably, and spend it with peace of mind. When he asked you how to buy such an expensive thing, you had the confidence to go back [I didn't spend your money. Since you are a woman, then be a woman who is independent in thought and financially, so you have to work hard now! Learn more to invest in yourself, and you will be able to live beautifully no matter when and where you are. Exchange your hard work for a free life. ”

"Women should be good to themselves, because in the end you will find that the only one who can really accompany you forever is yourself, whether you are successful or down, you understand your heart, and you are only yourself, so we must treat our body well, and don't let it get sick is the best reward for it. Don't smoke and drink less alcohol, although you can't let it eat the delicacies of the mountains and seas, but at least you can give it safe and hygienic food. Eat less takeaway, try to make it yourself, don't be lazy, put a little noodles, put an egg, and put some greens It won't take much time for you. Don't stay up late, go to bed early and get up early, and develop good habits. Exercise more to give yourself a strong body, no one wants to get sick and endure pain, and go to the hospital to be slaughtered. You envy those who are in good health and slim in shape, and say sourly that she is because she has the money to go to the gym, and she doesn't have so much time and money, it's just an excuse for you to be lazy, you have time to brush your phone, why can't you get up early to go downstairs, or run a few laps in the park? This shouldn't charge any money! Because you are lazy, lack of perseverance is the key to your immutability. ”

"Women should know how to reward themselves, buy their favorite clothes, and skin care products. I used to be reluctant to dress up, and every penny was spent on my family and son, and I ended up being a yellow-faced woman. Now after I finish a day's work, I will rub hand cream on my hands, I will put on a mask, and I will say to myself in the mirror before I go to bed, "Yang Sumei, you have worked hard today!" 】。 God is inherently unfair to us women, we don't have men's strong physique, we don't have their smart brains, but we have to accept the fact that our bodies are deformed after pregnancy, endure the pain of giving birth, and the hardships of raising children. We have to work, we have to do housework, we have to take care of children, and the workload of women is too great, because of this, we should take good care of ourselves, don't wronged ourselves, be willing to spend money for ourselves, be willing to maintain ourselves, and love ourselves. ”