Chapter 32 Women should strive to make themselves good
Hostess: "I've heard that some people want to tip you when they spend money in your store, why do you refuse to do so when money is so important?" ”
Yang Sumei: "A group of us are using our own ability to make money, if you think the food we cook is delicious, thank you very much for coming, if you want to give love, please donate to the Hope Project." We don't need any mercy, I just want to tell you that we're doing well. We don't sell badly, thank you! ”
Interviewer: "Can you tell us what you regret the most?" ”
Yang Sumei: "After I was abandoned by my ex-husband, I chose to commit suicide is the stupidest thing I think, but fortunately, God didn't accept me and let me survive, which is what I am today." I want to tell those who are struggling in the trough, in pain, not to give up on their lives, because it is the only capital you can turn around in the end. I just went through too little, so I couldn't withstand the blow. If you are going through suffering, then you should be given a chance to hone in the Heavens. I've seen a particularly nice quote "When you go through a storm, you're not the same person anymore." ”
Interviewer: "So how do you think you can comfort women who have lost hope in life?" ”
Yang Sumei: "If it were me, I wouldn't comfort her, unless I had the same experience as her and knew how she felt." I don't like to comfort others when they say things like cheers, some people have obviously worked hard, she has done her best, and you still let her cheer, doesn't that force her to die? You can eat a good meal, or get yourself drunk, go to a place where no one knows you and start over, you look at the flowers blooming on the roadside, the clear sky, the newborn sun by the sea, the innocent smile of children, you will find that the world is not so bad, there are many beautiful things waiting for us to discover. ”
Host: "Then what do you think about women, how can you not meet scumbags?" ”
Yang Sumei: "Flies don't bite seamless eggs, and some women complain about their bad luck, do they think that they also have a reason. For example, if you see a very good man, you think that you are not worthy of him, so you will have low self-esteem in front of him, so you choose not to go near him. In the same way, if you are good enough, how can those scumbags who think they are not worthy of you provoke you? A man's self-esteem is stronger than a woman's, and when he thinks you are stronger than himself, and knows that you will not fall in love with him, he will not go to the self-detriment to eat the closed door. ”
"Whether it's love or marriage, men and women must pay attention to equal strength. "Door-to-door" is definitely a wise saying. If you want to meet a good man, first you have to be good too. Excellent men are generally more educated, so if you don't work hard to get into the same university as him, how can you meet him? Cinderella also went to the palace to meet the prince she liked, if you don't stand tall, how can others see you? Two people have the same knowledge, they have a common language, you have their own high-paying jobs, there is no such thing as who supports whom between you, and you don't quarrel over money. You'll either live your life for a long time, or you'll find that love is no longer there and break up peacefully. You are all literate people, you will not tear each other's faces, you will not worry about finding a better person, and you will not worry about your livelihood. Because you are good enough, your life is wonderful and fearless, and this is why women should work hard. ”