Yang Sumei: "Money! Money buys freedom. I don't like money, but I like freedom, so I'm going to work hard to make money and live my life freely. After some aftermath, I finally understood that a woman's sense of security does not come from a man, but from her own bulging wallet and lack of confidence. With money, you will find that there are a lot less worries, and there are a lot of stresses and quarrels in life that are related to money. ”

"Because you don't have any money, you're afraid to party with your friends and go shopping. Because you don't have money, you can't buy a valuable gift for your lover. You can't send your children to good schools because you don't have money. Because you don't have money, you are afraid that you will receive a call from your parents in the middle of the night, that they will get sick, and you have no capital to save them. I've been thinking that if I had money, I would have been divorced a long time ago, how could I swallow my anger and be wronged in my in-law's house. ”

"But we can't do everything for money, we also have to have our own bottom line. We can't make money that violates conscience, violates ethics and morals, and violates the law. We have to rely on our own ability to get our own share of the salary. ”

Hostess: "Everyone wants to be rich, but not everyone can do it. ”

Yang Sumei: "That's right! Just a few years ago, I didn't think I could do it too. Some people are born with a golden key, some people are talented, and some people are lucky, so you complain about the injustice of fate as if you are the most unlucky one in the world. I also complained, I felt that God was too cruel to me and left me with nothing. But then I found out that my misfortune had a lot to do with myself, and I pinned my hopes on others, and I felt that if I was good to my ex-husband's family, they would be able to reward me with a bite to eat. I am cowardly and timid, have no opinions, have no life plan, and the attitude of getting by every day is the root of my tragedy. ”

"If God gives everyone something that is fair, I think it should be time, whether you are rich or poor, you only have 24 hours in a day, not a second, not a second. When you're complaining, think about it, are you really making the most of those 24 hours? How much time did you sleep? How much time do you spend playing games on your phone? How much time do you spend having fun and chatting? And how much time do you have left to really spend on your studies and work? I regret wasting a lot of precious time, in those days as a housewife, whenever I had time, I would watch TV or gossip with other housewives, even though I was just acting as a listener, and now I realize how boring I am, and there is nothing more stupid than doing something boring because I am bored. I've always wondered if if my life would have been different if I had read some books or learned something every day. ”

"When you are envious and jealous of those successful people, do you find the reason in yourself? Have you ever worked towards a goal? Have you persevered? Have you mustered up the courage to brave yourself? Not only do you not work hard to make yourself excellent, but you will only sigh and complain every day, then you are the only one. If you are willing to be a lazy person, then please be a kind lazy worm and don't be a keyboard warrior who slanders and denigrates other people's efforts. When you see that others are more successful than you, you think that others have gone through the back door and have been subjected to unspoken rules, which is not cute at all. You can do what others can do, depending on whether you are willing to change your mind. It's not difficult to admit that others are better than you, you may not reach the heights of others in your life, but you can at least be a little better than you were yesterday. ”