Chapter 78: Essay "Seventy-Eight"

If you think about some things, you will understand that in this world, you are you, you are painful, you are tired, even if someone sympathizes with you, so what, in the end, it is still up to you to clean up the mess.

Remember: there are some you can look forward to, but not rely on. Everyone's tears have to be wiped by themselves! No one can replace yourself!

Do it and cherish it! Never overestimate your place in the hearts of others. Oh, yes! As the saying goes, the more hope comes, the greater the disappointment.

Don't have too much hope for anything, otherwise you won't achieve the desired effect, and you will be very upset.

Today, an uncle played in our house for a day, and in the evening my aunt talked about a topic that I didn't want to mention, and said that I was introduced to someone in their unit, and when she asked me if I had talked about it now, really, I hesitated for a few seconds, and said that it was not easy to say, and then walked away, not wanting to talk about this topic, in the room, I heard my dad talking about how good a girl in their unit is, and my dad even said that he would let my aunt introduce me to me, I didn't say anything at the time, I don't know why, These days may also be because of the hot weather, irritability, always want to lose my temper, I finally thought about what Ling'er was doing in City B, I did misunderstand her at first, she also told me on QQ today, I admit that I misunderstood her at the time.

Maybe it's because I'm too stubborn! I feel that the emotions of the past few days really make me tired, she said that she will come back tomorrow, but not necessarily, I don't know why, I don't feel very happy, but very calm, maybe through these days, I really see very open, indicating that I am mature again, but there are fewer words.

Love is a long road, no matter how many people are side by side on the way, how many people leave, they always have to move forward, gradually, began to learn to hide, with jokes to cover up the inner like, with disdain to hide care, with tease to cover up the depth of the heart.

Perhaps, after a long time, love is not the love and love that the mouth says. Perhaps, when we read love, our hearts are old and we dare not love anymore.

When we begin to enjoy a person's life, we begin to know how to fill our lives with reading, working, eating, watching movies, or insisting on some small hobbies, instead of blindly pinning the way of exclusion and loneliness to another person, in order to truly feel the comfort and freedom of life, so that we will not try to impress each other with loneliness and dedication in the face of our loved ones, and bind each other, but should support each other and fulfill each other.

Love is very grinding, and it can also train people. Said to wait for the "right person."

Only when that person appears, you will know that she should be the right person, and she appears in your life to complete you and let you improve yourself. All the wrong people you have loved, although they do not perfect you, they also perfect you; She is your ordeal, but she is also your ordeal.