Today, I saw a very resonant sentence on Weibo, which is: "You have to figure out the script of your life - not a sequel to your parents, not a prequel to your children, and not an external story of your friends." You might as well take a bold risk with life, because you're going to lose it. If there is a miracle in this world, it is just another name for effort. The hardest stage of life is not that no one understands you, but that you don't understand yourself. "Really well said, especially

The sentences "not a sequel to your parents, not a prequel to your children, and not a relel to your friends" are not a sequel to your parents, but to tell us that we have a path that we need to take, and it is impossible to repeat the path that our parents have taken, even if they can help you again, it is limited, because they will eventually leave, and they will have to rely on themselves in the end; It's not a prequel to your children, but it also means that we hope that our children can take a better path and have better choices, and don't let them follow us, or do what we want, because they all have their own ideas and their own things to face, and we can't always help them; Not to mention your friend's side story, it may be that we don't copy other people's lives and do what others have done, because they are them, you are you, and you are in different environments and starting points, so the results will be different.

In three short sentences, I really feel that it contains a lot of philosophy, as long as you experience it carefully, you can really understand a lot.

Yesterday was the day when the annual Cowherd and the Weaver Girl met, the traditional Chinese Valentine's Day - Qixi Festival.

I have forgotten how long it has been since I had such a festival, fortunately I met a person this year, it is not a single dog's Tanabata, think about a funny day, run to send her spicy and cowpeas in the morning, buy a large bouquet of flowers for her in the afternoon, send her the clam glasses she said she liked last time, went to watch a movie after dinner in the evening, and gave her a lit cartoon lighting when she went back, although I know that she doesn't like these things very much, but after all, it is the first Tanabata Festival, no matter how you have to express it, hehe!

Before giving her something, I actually thought about it, because she is different from other girls, like flowers, chocolates and the like, she doesn't have a cold, so I still waste the snacks, and the final result is quite satisfying!

Even if I don't like it anymore, I gave it to me, and it's because she's different that my attitude is so resolute.

I hope that this will go all the way to the end, and stay together until I am old, although there may be many twists and turns in the middle, but I hope we can face it together, never give up, hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.