The sentence "I raise you" warms you and also ruins you, the world's most dangerous occupation "full-time wife".

Husbands and children are taught to clean, laundry and cook, once there is a problem in the marriage, your contribution is the reason to be blamed.

Economic independence is the minimum dignity of a woman, you don't have to be a strong woman, but you must have a job to support yourself!

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Regarding the question raised by Xiao Mao, Wu Dingfang felt that it was necessary to explain it to him clearly, not to let him be too entangled, otherwise he would become a melancholy child, which would be really crying and laughing.

I don't know who is wrong with the two of them? Putting a child like this, the whole person became stupid, and I was quite curious, what is the problem? Let's wait a minute and ask Xiaomao! Now let him wash up, right?

"It seems to be the same, but it doesn't seem to matter right now, if there's any problem, we'll talk about it later! Because it's time for breakfast! Eating is not active, and there is a problem with the mind.

Let's go and fill our stomachs first, don't you think that's the truth? The world is big, and the foodies are the biggest, even if you are in a hurry, you are not in a hurry, are you not in a hurry?

Will being hungry solve the problem? It can't solve the problem at all, as long as it's a normal person, you will understand this problem, are we abnormal people? We are all smart people, and our IQ is all leveraged. ”

"It seems to be the same!"

After Wu Dingfang's explanation, Xiao Mao said happily that the expression on his face was no longer sad, and he began to smile! It's like being praised by a teacher and rewarded with a little red flower.

Xiao Mao suddenly realized, he finally figured it out, no longer entangled, there are many ways for adults to think about problems, and they can take into account all aspects, unlike children who go straight and can't think of so much.

"That's right, that's the truth, only when you are full will you have the strength to think about the problem, otherwise even if you think of a solution, you will be starved to death, and you will still not be able to solve the problem.

Hungry seems to be the least cost-effective, and it is also the most pig-headed thing, even a pig is not as good, and the pig still knows how to sleep when it is full? Then I'll go wash my face and brush my teeth first! And then I'll go back to you after breakfast? ”

Before leaving, Xiao Mao sighed again and said: "I don't know why this is the case, in front of my father and mother, I really don't want to grow up."

And here with you, I want to grow up quickly, why is it so contradictory? Whether this counts is another question, Aunt Ding, can you help me solve this problem by the way when you finish breakfast? In that case, I would be especially grateful to you. ”

"Yes, that's total, but it's right to think about things that way! Don't think too much about the questions you can't figure out in the future, you can go to others and ask them! I'll go first, you go wash up! ”

In the restaurant, Xiao Mao divided five by two, and ate breakfast quickly in a few bites! Then he sat there obediently, saw others eating breakfast, and waited slowly, waiting for them to finish their breakfast before asking questions.

Wu Dingfang watched his every move in his eyes, and felt that it was very funny, and he almost didn't hold back, and now the child really loves it too much.

They think too much about the problem, and the way is too strange, but this is also good, as long as it is not used in the wrong direction, after all, they can use their brains to think, and in this regard, it is enough.

I'm afraid that the child won't use his brain, and I'm not afraid to ask, and hide everything in my heart, which is the most worrying thing, that is, I don't know what is hidden in my heart when it suddenly explodes, it's terrible.

The active child is good, although it can't be reassuring, and it's a little naughty, but at least he knows his personality and the way he does things.

The most afraid is the passive boy, because I don't know what he thinks in his heart, I can't grasp his thought dynamics, and I don't know the rules of his behavior, and I worry about this kind of child.

"Xiao Mao, don't you have a question for me? Then hurry up! I've finished my breakfast, and now that I'm free, just ask me! I hope the questions aren't too difficult, but they don't be too funny. ”

"I'm ......!"

wanted to open his mouth to answer the question, but suddenly, Xiao Mao didn't know what to say, and just opened his mouth and stopped there, his mind was blank.

I don't know where to run to a thousand words in my heart, I just can't find them at all, it's so annoying, how can this be? Isn't that deliberately embarrassing?

"That's fine, don't worry, I have time, just right, I still have a few bites left to eat, wait until you're straightened out, I'll tell me, I'll settle my breakfast!" You're sorting out your language! I'll tell you what books I want. ”

"Okay then! Just do as you say! Go on with breakfast! When you're all done, I'll ask you again, or I'll make you laugh later.

It's funny, but it's fine, I'm afraid that after laughing and hurting my stomach, I won't be able to eat breakfast anymore, and I may be hungry, so if I ......, I don't know, what should I say?

I mean, it's possible, because I feel like my dad and mom asked me this question, and it seems to have this function, it's really weird, it's definitely problematic, and so far, I still think so? ”

After Xiao Mao explained, he sat there quietly again, maybe he was really thinking about it seriously, how to open his mouth later, and tell the reason given to him by his father and mother for their reference, what does it mean?

"Okay, don't be in a daze, we've all finished breakfast, and it's not a matter to sit in the dining room and want to solve a problem or ask a solution to a problem!

Let's go to the living room! It's still relatively comfortable to sit on the sofa, and it feels weird here, after all, the dining room is not a living room, but it is used for serving.

Don't you say? Clever little hair, brave little man, you shouldn't object to this, right? Isn't it going to be another question that you can't figure out? That's mine anymore, it wasn't meant to be.

Children, don't have a hundred thousand whys, this is very annoying, just like your current appearance, you are already haggard, you children, should be like the rising sun in the morning, radiant and shining. ”

"I know, what you did was not wrong, when I was in kindergarten, the teacher sometimes said this, I understand these truths, but it seems that it is not easy to do, but I will still try to ask myself."

"He's a smart kid, it's really easy to say with his mouth as you say, but it's really hard to do it.

It's all like this, but if you are not afraid of difficulties, you can succeed, and those who are afraid of difficulties, those who are frightened by difficulties, and those who refuse to endure hardships will always be just an ordinary person.

I won't say much about other reasons, but I want to tell you one thing, whether it is adults or children, we must persevere to the end, and we must not give up halfway in everything we do.

Because as long as you give up halfway and make a bad start, you may become addicted, and it will always be like this in the future, don't believe it, it will definitely be like this.

Many people will think so, promise just this time, next time I will definitely not, but next time there are many next times, as long as people don't die, there will always be a next time, and the next time will be without me. ”

"I understand, I will definitely remember it, what you said is very reasonable, what you said is like what you said to the teacher, you definitely dare not forget it, it is much more reliable than what my parents said.

Now I don't believe what they say, they are all talking nonsense, and they can't remember what they have said, so how can they ask me? What they can't do, how can I do it as a little kid? I'm only seven years old! ”

"Go, go, go, don't be emotional, you're just a child, I know you're in the kindergarten class, so stop pretending to be a little adult, where is there so much sentimentality?

You're not a girl, it's too wordy, no girl will like this kind of boy, if it's a boy, it should be clean and neat, and the voice should be sonorous and powerful, full of energy.

Instead of soft, smack, where will anyone like you? If that's the case, then you can only be a single person for the rest of your life and be a sad single dog. ”

"No, it won't! Where can there be so much to be terrible? It shouldn't be! Am I going to be like that? Probably not, I'm destined to be a man.

In the future, there will definitely be my legend in the rivers and lakes, how can I allow this kind of thing to exist, this kind of thing is absolutely impossible, besides, this kind of person I hate the most. ”

Wu Dingfang turned around and left after finishing speaking, children can't be too used to it, they should be more strict, and Xiao Mao was startled, goosebumps all over his body, almost broke out in a cold sweat, and ran out of the restaurant.

walked very fast, and in a blink of an eye, Xiao Mao couldn't see Wu Dingfang and disappeared from his line of sight, so he quickened his pace, not to walk, but to run out.

After running to the living room, the whole person was stunned, because there were many people in the living room, not only Wu Dingfang, but all the people in the house, except for his own father and mother.

This must be inevitable, because Dad and Mom, the two of them, maybe at this moment, are still lazy in bed under the covers? Don't know what they're doing?

Whatever? This is not something to worry about, but their affairs are no longer cared about, they have returned to normal, is there any point in taking care of it? Isn't that?

It has always been adults who take care of children, where are children who take care of adults, and it is unreasonable? Still want to ignore the rules? Don't you talk about humility? How can this be reasonable, how can anyone do this?