Chapter 434: Heart-Warming History V
On April 11, 2016, Chiba worked hard to write "Sequel, Heartwarming History Revision" from a very objective point of view on the topic of his own heart-warming history.
Heartwarming History 5
The facts to prove this situation are: she really doesn't seem to be interested in me, she doesn't come to see me much, she doesn't want to be sincere to me, I think the illusion of being together may only be ambiguous for her, or even ambiguous, she dumps me again and again, it can only show that she never cares about the consequences, I am nothing to her at all, I have been single for a few years of work, but I haven't found a suitable one, and I am not waiting for you. (A lot of words are omitted here)
If this is true,
Then it tells us that when both parties feel ambiguous, it is very important to clearly ask whether the other party is willing to live with themselves for the rest of their lives, otherwise you will be dumped inexplicably, like me, who has been dumped again and again, and feels that he is with the other party when he is ambiguous, it is really very worrying and tangled.
Then it also tells us that whether you are willing to love others is your own business, you can't ask others to love you because you are willing to love others, this is not true, you can't because you sincerely want to live with others for a lifetime, you want others to be willing to live with you for a lifetime, these are completely two unrelated things, so even if you are holding your heart to hand over to others, even if you are willing to be the enemy of the whole fate and the truth for her, if others don't like your advantages and can't accept your shortcomings, If you don't have any interest in you, in the words of their girls, if you don't have any feelings for you, you can't force others to accept you, even if you are willing to love, it's just your own business.
(A lot of words are omitted here)
Best case scenario:
We're pretty good friends,
She cared about me, I didn't feel it,
After she realized that I might be out of love,
He came to comfort me,
We hint to each other,
The two sides have been together by default for a while,
Although I didn't directly ask you if you would like to live with me for the rest of your life,
She first suggested that we should be friends for four reasons.
1He may have been with me out of guilt,
2 He gives too much weight to love, and the status of his partner gives him too much burden, which will hinder his future development,
3 He rarely communicates with me, and may not be interested in me or really like me, and he sees the girls in his class every day, which is really unbearable.
4 His view of love is to find similarity, and he thinks in his heart that I am not similar to him, he thinks that he himself is an introvert and I am an extrovert, and the reason why he is with me is because his morals are relatively noble, but I don't want to compromise, I don't speak because I don't want to compromise, I really don't want to compromise,
Back, entangled, entangled,
She thinks this kid still really likes me,
So he agreed,
At that meal, she gave me a very, very important thing.
I didn't realize it at the time,
A few years later, I looked through my diary and realized,
She may have been joking or coquettish or wanting to be confirmed by me for the reasons mentioned above, so she told me a second time that I was just your friend.
She came and went like this, chic and free, and I was heartbroken and heartbroken, so I never took the initiative to contact her again.
A few years later, the kid came back on his own,
We've been together for a while again,
She thinks I'm insecure,
Afraid of this and that all day long,
Doubt this and doubt that,
So that he didn't need to take me to heart all the time, he just wouldn't listen,
Reading his article, his heart is already mine,
He's still studying, staying up late worrying about these things that shouldn't be worried.
Anyway, he can come back after so many years,
If I kick him again, I guess he'll come back,
If you can't come back,
Nothing else,
It only shows that he doesn't love me,
Well
That's it
Block all the ways he contacted me,
I'll contact him after he graduates and works.
See if he's unmarried.