When I was in love in college, I had thoughts on two issues. The original sentence is

"Freshman year, is he considerate enough, can he answer your phone when the whole dormitory team up to get a copy; Sophomore, what gift he gives you on Valentine's Day, don't care; In my junior year, will he accompany you during the summer vacation, and will he forget the good night text messages every day".

All kinds of festivals, birthdays, what gifts to give, how to have a sense of freshness and so on, I don't know what everyone thinks, I don't have any feelings about the festival at all, my friend said happy birthday, is it not a birthday I am painful?

I think the biggest benefit and significance of the festival is that it allows people to take time out of their busy schedules to exchange two sentences of ideas or casual condolences to show concern, such as the Spring Festival can allow relatives, friends and fellow villagers to get together to chat or something, otherwise you are worried the whole time, this time to send this, well, it's okay.

Damn, which one will I send next time? How can you make him/her feel that you are more attentive than ever? How can you make the holiday more fun than before?

In fact, if it is two people who love each other, this worry is meaningless. As a qualified Capricorn person (although it is just in time), it is indeed a person who can devote himself to study or work once it rises, for all kinds of festivals, I think it is similar to the Spring Festival, non-festival daily life needs proper communication, and important festivals should be communicated, can accompany the companion, the chat that can not be accompanied by the other place, and moreover, as a child from the countryside, I admit that I am a little inferior in this regard, However, if everyone has had similar experiences or experienced first-hand, it should be easy to understand each other.

Compared with the previous friction and contradictions between the two people, the problems mentioned in the latter paragraph are relatively minor problems.

Like what

"In the blink of an eye, the problem has changed qualitatively, how much is his salary, how much does it cost, where do we start our future life, when will we get married, can we afford to buy a house, what do his parents think of me, do I want children, how many ...... do I want", many children in the countryside are allowed to do it by themselves, and happiness is good!

And the previous problems should be solved through consultation, I haven't encountered it and I don't know how to say it, the hurdle in front of me can't be overcome, and there is no chance to study it later.

This kind of thing is really endlessly discussed, and it will only become more and more tangled the more you think about it, everyone has to look forward, just work hard, I often comfort myself like this recently, the future that I have seen cannot be rewritten, I am afraid that it is meaningless, and I have learned from the Dream of Red Mansions, Tianxing Nine Songs, Lips of Glass and migrant workers.

In this paragraph,

"That's why it's sung in the song

"I don't want to, I don't want to grow up", not bluffing. The older you get, the harder it is to fall in love, because it's no longer a situation where you like me and I like you and you can be together, he has his parents behind him, you have your demands behind you, two people stand together, holding a pen to draw the future, and as a result, accidentally draw two parallel lines that do not intersect.

"Regarding parents and relatives, for those children whose parents have a particularly high degree of wisdom, I don't know if parents have all kinds of special requirements and regulations for them, and write all the life paths for them, but for many children born in rural areas, the parents' approach is generally like this, basically let the children come according to their own personal wishes, they feel that as long as their children are satisfied and happy, they will be content, and in terms of the relationship between parents and partners, I think so, If you don't think it's fair, how much I give to my parents, you can also give the same amount to your parents and family, so that both parties will be fair, and no one will be wronged. I don't know if the real life situation will be like the one staged in the TV series, damn, it's either a quarrel or a fight all day long, you stare at me, I despise you, between each other, the more I look at it, the more unpleasant it becomes!