After losing Lin Chujie, Li Shilan, Lu Junya, Ao Chuxue, Zhao Shuidan, Que Xinyue, Yu Xinxiang and Hua Huiying, there is not much left in Chiba's female reserve. But this still does not affect his arrangement and selection of girls. Among the remaining girls, he began to arrange and choose again.

Chiba and Zhao Shuidan still have occasional contact, so he still has hope for her, so his ranking this time Zhao Shuidan advanced to the first place, and Qiong Zimei's ranking is close behind.

Introverts have a coherent memory, and they are accustomed to using past experiences and experiences as the basis for making judgments in the present. In other words, they do not deliberately forget their past, but are accustomed to getting guidance for their present life from their past experiences and feelings. Therefore, it is almost impossible for them to deliberately forget a specific person who has appeared in their lives.

On March 12, 2012, Chiba wrote a work "Three Chances to Choose a Partner" about his own emotional journey, and after writing it, he also sent this to his old confidant Zhao Shuidan. He wanted to tell Zhao Shuidan that he had finally chosen her for the third time. He chose Ao Chuxue for the first time in 2011-03, and Hua Huiying for the second time in 2012-01.

Three Chances to Choose a Partner

First time pick

2011-03

The selection criteria for the first choice or your own emotional positioning:

There are no selection criteria and emotional positioning, and those who are ignorant and completely rely on their feelings

Ranking at that time:

1st place Ao Chuxue

Second place: Lu Junya

3rd place Que Crescent

Fourth place: Pu Yudie

The rest is not arranged

Ao Chuxue

After I texted, I called a few times in the evening, and then her phone was turned off, and I chose her when I went to see her tomorrow morning, and she probably liked me, although I only saw her, and she didn't talk to me much, and then she came back.

Lu Junya

The first girl I liked, and the first girl I chased, the personality is similar, it mainly depends on feelings, after all, it is the first person I identify.

Que Crescent

The personality is very similar, I had some contact with it in the study group, I feel very good, I study hard, I like books, maybe I had a good impression of it at that time

Second choice

2012-01

The selection criteria for the second choice or one's own emotional positioning:

Love, kindness, introversion, quietness, thought, culture, cultivation, serious study, undergraduate, masterpiece, animation, Miao, experienced, ordinary appearance

Condition:

Rational part: suitable

Emotional part: I have a good impression and I like it

Main Items: (In no particular order)

Value: Caring

Nationality: Miao

Person: Cultivated

Personality: Slightly introverted

Location: We are in the same place

Hobbies: Famous books, books, animation, table tennis, badminton, music

Bonus points: (in no particular order)

Study: Serious and career-oriented

Student status: high school or above

Thought: The Concept of Connection

Hometown: Xiangxi, Hunan

Experience: Have been in a relationship

Appearance: Ordinary, not too pretty

Contraindications: Drinking, smoking

Specialized:

Ranking at that time:

1st place Hua Huiying

Second place: Zhao Shuidan

3rd place Qiong Zimei

Hua Huiying

The emotional part

It feels good, good, and likes to be together

The rational part

Personality: Introverted

Hobbies: Anime, famous books,

Study: Seriously

Hometown: Fellow countryman

Experience: Have been in a relationship

High School: Same as High School

University: Same as university

Major: Same major

Zhao Shuidan

The emotional part

It's relatively little together, and I can't talk about it

The rational part

Personality: Introverted

Hobbies: Anime, famous books,

Study: Seriously

Hometown: Lu'an, Anhui

Experience: No love experience

High School: Unknown

University: Same as university

Major: International Political Communication

Qiong Zimei

After chatting, I feel very attractive, and some aspects are very similar, so I won't say much here

Third choice

2012-03

The selection criteria for the third choice, or one's own emotional positioning, are modified or added on the basis of the first and second choices.

1 It turns out that Lu Tao can still love Milai, as long as there are similarities in thought, common interests and hobbies, and the family gap is not too big.

2 It turns out that people who have been in love may not know how to cherish it, and it is possible that they will sink into the shadows of the past and never be able to get out, she promised you that she was just pretending and would not like you at all.

3 It turns out that to really understand a person, it is necessary to experience a lot of things together, and the corresponding views on many things are very important, and this can only be done by multi-faceted communication.

4 Rationality is not as important as imagined, it does not need to account for 80%, 60% is enough, rationality and sensibility must learn to balance, (the reason why I didn't choose the second one last time was because I and the first one were fellow villagers, and I was worried that I couldn't work in the same city, but I could meet when I went back, after all, my hometown was relatively close, and this reason played a leading role in me, and I knew it at that time, and they were not much different in other places, or some places were better)

5. Delete the item of having love experience, you can have no love experience

6. Add a new work location

7. The vague general description has increased, and the proportion of the perceptual part has increased

8. The importance of some projects has been reversed

Selection Criteria and Emotional Orientation for the Third Choice:

The ideal partner is still Melanie (relevant information omitted)

People who are similar to me, people of the same type, people who can understand each other better, self-introduction is another form of marriage notice

【Summary】Love, kindness, introversion, quietness, thought, culture, cultivation, serious study, undergraduate, masterpiece, animation, Miao, experienced, ordinary appearance

Condition:

Emotional part: I have a good impression and I like it

Rational part: suitable

Main Items: (In no particular order)

Value: Caring

Ethnicity: Hmong

Person: Cultivated

Personality: Slightly introverted

Location: We are in the same place

Hobbies: Famous books, books, animation, table tennis, badminton, music

Bonus points: (in no particular order)

Study: Serious and career-oriented

Student status: high school or above

Thought: The Concept of Connection

Hometown: Same province

Appearance: Ordinary, not too pretty

Contraindications: Drinking, smoking

Specialized:

Final Standings

1st place: Zhao Shuidan (the most powerful BOSS)

2nd place Qiong Zimei

3rd place Hua Huiying

Zhao Shuidan is my old friend.,The relationship is relatively good.,I should like me.,I've been very familiar with it before.,Thoughts are similar to mine.,Personality is relatively similar.,Same views on many things.,I like famous books.、Books.,And like anime - Naruto、Pirates、Grim Reaper、Conan and the like.,QQ online rate is medium to low.,I've gotten along with some in actual life.,It's relatively few.,It's rare to have the opportunity to meet and talk.,Major is international politics.,I'm going to do things in trade.。

Qiong Zimei is also a Capricorn, she may like me, she is more attractive to me, her thoughts are similar to mine, her personality is not much different, and she also likes to read famous books and books. We are studying in the same high school, she is from the Tujia family, and has also been in contact with the Miao people, the cultural difference is not big, the QQ online rate is very low, and she hasn't spoken much in real life, she knew me in high school but I didn't know her, she studied Chinese language and literature, and one of the three paths in the future is to be a teacher in graduate school.

Hua Huiying's personality is quite similar, and she also likes anime, she is a high school classmate, she is the same township as me, she gets along more, she feels okay, she can be regarded as having a good impression or liking, she is in the same school and major in college, and she has a high QQ online rate, she likes to read novels on her mobile phone, and she has played all night. I have been in love twice, and there is a loved one, although the person does not love her, and repeatedly said that he didn't like me several times, and he was unwilling, and deceived me with similar ambiguous things several times, and finally admitted it himself. As a partner, we were only together for about a week or two, and then we separated, and she was still so stubborn, and after the separation, she often quarreled with her, expressing contempt and deep sympathy. said on the Internet that whether it is the date of birth, the time of birth, or the name and constellation, you are extremely inappropriate, and she has never regarded you as a marriage partner.

Fourth to tenth places and several idols to worship

I like it, but I can't do it by feeling, because if I feel it alone, I will like the kind of petite and quiet and beautiful appearance, such as Que Xinyue and Yang Feiyan, I know it's not right, this kind of liking appearance accounts for a big factor, although their ability and learning are very good, and they also like to read, I have communicated with Que Xinyue before, we don't think the same, sometimes it's completely the opposite, she can't understand the loneliness I said, she likes to walk the road of the masses, and she doesn't like cartoons. Yang Feiyan's words, she doesn't know me, but I just know her.

Speaking of feelings, there are feelings in our support group, the appearance is similar to the kind I imagined, and the important thing is that I feel good with them, such people as Fu Lijun and Nong Yin Zhou.

It's hard to say what Xin Xiang said.,She also likes anime.,The thoughts are generally quite understandable.,It's just that she hasn't read famous books.,It's urban.,She shouldn't like me.。

High school classmates have similar personalities to friends such as Fu Jingxiang and Bai Shanrui, etc., who feel similar to my personality, but I didn't list them as the object of choice, first, they are not as special as Qiong Zimei, and second, my fellow villagers have talked to them before, and it is not easy to contact me if I live alone.

The newly produced people are Xiang Xiaofan and Qing Piaokong, Xiang Xiaofan also likes famous books, and her personalities are similar.

If you worship, Li Lifei, Hong Xiaolan, Yan Lianhan, Yang Feiyan, Ge Hongmu, Huang Hua, etc., they are very good at learning and serious, and they have strong ability. Among them, Yan Lianhan is a lonely and different person, and his temperament is almost the same as Qiong Zimei, basically the same.

In addition, Fu Lijun and Nongyin Zhou are also worshipped, both of whom are members of the Dudan Support Order. Among them, Fu Lijun is an officer of the organization department, with a very beautiful face and figure. Nongyin Zhou is a teacher like Chiba, and she speaks in a very nice voice. Chiba has communicated with them a few times, and I feel that they are okay people.

Chiba's definition of "worship" is very simple, and Nongyin Zhou's voice is very good, so he worships Nongyin Zhou. In fact, he does not worship a certain person, but only one or several aspects of a certain person.