(xxviii) The First Family War
Li Xiaocan remembered that the baby's examination report showed "moderate anemia", and the baby was guilty enough, and he had to draw blood. I remembered that someone once said that jaundice will come down slowly by itself, so I don't have to worry too much, so I hesitated: "Let's observe for a while." The doctor didn't say much.
Li Xiaocan vaguely didn't fully believe the doctor in his heart. This distrust comes from the fact that she inadvertently forgot to remind her to take off the jade pendant and retake the X-ray; From the 3,000 yuan fetal heart rate monitor sold during the prenatal examination; From the emergency department, three CT CTs with radiation hazards were taken in three consecutive days for babies who were more than a month old; Imported zinc, calcium, probiotics, and DHA supplements from the baby diarrhea opened 4,000 yuan.
Li Xiaocan was not sure if the doctor on duty was for income, so he asked the baby to take blood for examination. asked the nurse to help call the attending doctor, but the nurse refused.
Li Xiaocan and her mother-in-law returned to the ward, and the nurse brought two tan potions.
"What kind of medicine is this?" , Li Xiaocan asked.
The nurse said: "It helps with sleep, isn't your baby noisy at night, the doctor prescribed the medicine." ”
"Is there a sleeping ingredient?"
"Bring a little, and the children who come out of the intensive care unit will drink it."
Li Xiaocan turned on his phone and searched for the name of the drug. It belongs to Chinese patent medicine. One is close to hundreds, two a day.
In Li Xiaocan's concept, Chinese medicine can only be effective if you take a lot of it for a few months.
"You can still drink this medicine without drinking it, after all, it is a three-part poison." Li Xiaocan said.
Zhang Gang called to ask about the baby's situation, how much blood is still in the baby's head? How long does it take to absorb? Why do you keep crying? Do I need to transfer to another hospital? Li Xiaocan and her mother-in-law couldn't answer a series of questions. Li Xiaocan asked the doctor to write them down one by one, but it was difficult to open his mouth if the last one needed to be transferred to the hospital. I'm afraid that the doctor will be embarrassed.
Zhang Gang heard that the baby had been crying for a few days and nights, so he asked for leave and came to the hospital.
When the baby cried again and couldn't coax her, her mother-in-law blamed Li Xiaocan: "I should listen to the doctor today and do a blood test." Li Xiaocan couldn't make up his mind for a while, although he didn't trust the doctor on duty, but he didn't understand what the baby's situation was, maybe he was more relieved: "Then let's find a doctor to do a blood draw now." ”
Mother-in-law's face sank: "Just because of your words, how many miles do you have to run!" ”
Li Xiaocan explained: "I'm afraid that blood drawing is not good for the baby, I draw blood myself and get dizzy, and the baby is already moderately anemic." ”
The mother-in-law raised her voice and asked, "Since you have come to the hospital, you have to trust the doctor!" You can't take this medicine, you can't do that test, you don't understand it yourself, you doubt it, why do you come to the hospital? ”
"Some doctors are not responsible, some doctors are not so careful, I am afraid that the baby will suffer."
"You can take it yourself and check it, I don't care, it's you who wants to check, and it's you who doesn't check." Mother-in-law said.
Zhang Gang could already smell the thick smell of gunpowder between the two.
Li Xiaocan picked up the child and said in a tough tone: "I'll go, I'll go!" ”
Zhang Gang looked at Li Xiaocan and shouted at her: "Why did you talk to my mother?" Why are you going to defy my mother? ”
Li Xiaocan didn't hear it, raised his feet to leave, but was pulled by Zhang Gang: "If I talk to your mother like this, are you willing?" ”
Li Xiaocan raised his chin, looked at the ground with his eyes, and was unconvinced: "I didn't talk much, just do what I should do"
Zhang Gang saw Li Xiaocan's angry expression, shook Li Xiaocan's body back, faced his mother, and said word by word: "You apologize to my mother!" ”
Li Xiaocan's arm was pinched by Zhang Gang, and he screamed "oops", and felt that their mother and son were a family, and her husband couldn't understand her hard work at all, if she wasn't worried about her son, why should she be cautious about the doctor, now he doesn't help him speak, and he forced me to apologize, and I was angry and aggrieved.
Li Xiaocan bit his lip tightly, tears rolling in his eyes.
"Wow, wow, wow......" The baby cried even more, Li Xiaocan lowered his head and looked at the baby crying breathlessly, so he had to soften his voice: "I'll go to the doctor." ”
Reopened the blood draw sheet and signed it, Li Xiaocan limped to the third floor with the child in his arms to draw blood. took the number and walked towards the chair in the hall, Zhang Gang followed beside him, and continued to be unrelenting: "Li Xiaocan, you will go back and apologize to my mother later." ”
Li Xiaocan ignored him.
"Do you hear that? What a strong! Zhang Gang was in front of Li Xiaocan, blocking Li Xiaocan's way.
"Why do I endure it every time? Have you considered my feelings? Li Xiaocan glared at Zhang Gang.
"She is an elder, it's not right for you to contradict her, my mother worked hard to help us take care of the children, not only do you not thank you, but also contradict her, is there such a thing as you? If my mom really doesn't care about anything, you can handle it alone? ”
"I didn't mean to contradict her, she said I'm going to do this and that for a while, what do you mean? Am I ado about nothing? ”
"Don't you want to think that she is holding the child alone and not tired from running up and down?"
Li Xiaocan still wanted to say, but he heard a voice calling from the hall: "No. 106, please go to the No. 2 window to draw blood." ”
The atmosphere between mother-in-law, Zhang Gang, and Li Xiaocan was extremely awkward.
"Wow, wow, wow......" The baby cried, Zhang Gang took the baby from Xiaocan's hand and hugged it to his mother: "Baby, go to grandma." He picked up the bottle again to soak the milk, and after soaking, he poked Li Xiaocan's shoulder and whispered: "You apologize to my mother, explain, my mother will not embarrass you, and expect my mother to help us take care of the child, you see that the baby didn't cry when it came to my mother's hands." ”
Li Xiaocan's anger has disappeared, and when she thinks about it, her mother-in-law is really sincere to the baby. walked over and handed the bottle to her mother-in-law: "Mom, I'm not looking for trouble, I'm deliberately looking for trouble." I was afraid that blood drawing would not be good for the baby, because I was dizzy when I drew blood, I was afraid that the baby would be dizzy when drawing blood, and such a small baby would suffer too much. ”
The mother-in-law also took the opportunity to go down the steps: "It's enough to suffer, what is the way, you can only listen to the doctor, whether the baby can be cured depends on the doctor." ”
A storm has finally passed, and the blood draw results are normal.
After crying for four days and four nights, the baby finally stopped crying.
Baby, everyone's good.
As soon as you are in a good mood, you don't care about your previous suspicions.
Li Xiaocan and her mother-in-law have become the best partners comparable to mother and daughter - you fetch water, I will wash it; You rub your clothes, I hold the baby; If you change diapers, I'll take out the garbage; You hold the baby and I soak the milk, and the two cooperate seamlessly.
The baby doesn't cry anymore and goes to sleep when he's full. Li Xiaocan and her mother-in-law were able to relax and chat with patients when they had nothing to do.
Bed 1 was occupied by a little girl who fell from the second floor, her spleen ruptured, and she was transferred to the general ward for observation after being sent to the intensive care unit, and it was her aunt who took care of her. The aunt lies on the side and plays the glory of the king. The little girl wanted to go to the toilet, but the aunt didn't raise her head, just shouted "Be careful" and continued to play the game. When the girl wanted to eat, she stuffed her mouth spoonful by spoonful with her bandaged hands. The girl was bored playing alone, and wanted to play with her aunt's mobile phone, but was stopped by her aunt fiercely: "Tell you not to play, can't you hear it, play again and I'll beat you!" The girl cowered and didn't dare to speak.
Two days later, my grandmother came to change shifts, in her 70s, with white hair, and a smile on her wrinkled face when she saw her granddaughter. Grandma is completely different to granddaughter and aunt. The little girl went to the toilet, and her grandmother accompanied her. Eating, grandma fed one bite at a time, the girl played while eating, and it took more than an hour to finish eating, and grandma began to pick up two mouthfuls of leftovers that had been cold. She took out the old man's machine to play with her granddaughter, called her son and daughter-in-law, and the girl happily called "Dad, Mom!" Grandma smiled as she watched her granddaughter smile, and she smiled herself, her eyes full of love.
On the weekend, a young lady came over for a shift change, and it was Mom. As soon as the girl saw her mother, she looked at her with joy and stretched out her hands, "Mom!" Mom! The mother hugged the little girl, took out the toy from her bag, and played with the girl. Hold a girl and tell a story. Stay by and guide the girls in their homework. Feed the food mouthful and sing to the girls. The two giggled. It's really a beautiful and moving picture of mother and son.
Li Xiaocan looked at the girl's three relatives and sighed secretly in his heart, like a person drinking water, he knows his own warmth and coldness.
3 beds, is a little boy over a year old. Cut hernia. Mom and the child slept in the hospital bed, and Dad rented a bed to sleep on the side. After the operation, just after the anesthesia, the child cried in pain. The mother had to put the baby in a small cart and walk back and forth in the hallway. Dad is lying in bed playing Glory of Kings.
After pushing for more than 2 hours, the child fell asleep. Mom picked it up and put it on the bed, and then went to do the laundry and clean up the bedside table. After a while, the child cried, and the mother wiped her hands, took out the milk powder, poured boiling water, soaked the milk, and fed the milk. The baby's clothes are wet, change clothes. The baby climbed from one end to the other, and the mother stared at it tightly, and then went around and around. No matter how much the baby cries, Dad is still playing Honor of Kings.
The child was naughty and threw the paper towels, toothbrushes, and cup lids on the table to the ground, and the mother bent down to pick them up while holding the child, and out of reach of her hands, she lay on the ground to pick them up. Just tidyed up, the baby cried again, and the mother picked up the pacifier and asked the father to take a look at the child. Dad really just "watched" the child, still lying there, stuffing a pillow into his neck, looking at the child, still holding the phone in his hand.
The mother came out of the bathroom and gave the pacifier to the child, the child stretched out his hands to hug, Li Xiaocan heard the young mother sigh, and struggled to pick up the child of more than 20 pounds and coax him to play. Dad is still playing Honor of Kings.
Looking at the exhausted mother with 3 beds and the father who is planted in the game, Li Xiaocan feels that once she gets married, a woman has three major tasks: to take care of housework as a wife; as a mother to give birth to children; As a daughter-in-law and filial in-laws, every task requires time and energy to learn, while a man has only one task: to make money.