Many people are arguing about whether the heroine should force herself to cater to Xu Si in sexual affairs, and many people say that in order to survive, it's just sex and no love, what's unbearable? Modern marriages that are not based on love abound, and people still fulfill their conjugal obligations, which is indeed good, but it is important to emphasize that the other party only has one sexual partner, and not when the shift with several women is carried out like Xu. The article mentions that Eleven had no experience in this area in his previous life, he was in his twenties, and he had a period of work experience, and he had no **** It can be seen that Eleven is a conservative woman who is clean and self-conscious, so her discomfort is very understandable. To be honest, I admire her forbearance, this matter is going to be put on me, I guess I can be so disgusted that I vomit in front of the man on the chuang, and she just repels it slightly, and it is already very powerful!

There are also many people who refute, why can I endure it the first two times, but I can't do it the third time, so hypocritical? In fact, if you want me to say, it is better to see this as a kind of "willfulness" than hypocrisy. When he was newly married, he didn't know Xu Si's personality and didn't know where his bottom line was, so he was naturally cautious and had to endure his life; Then after getting along for a while, knowing that my occasional refusal would not cause any serious consequences, I relaxed my mind a little, and it is understandable to be a little willful. Instead of making yourself uncomfortable and embarrassed, wouldn't it be nice to avoid it if you can?

There are also many people who say that in order to survive, you should not worry about such small problems, but whether this problem is small or not depends on everyone's opinion. It's just that I wonder if I can give up the principles and style I have always adhered to in order to survive? Not everyone can, right? It is normal for women who have grown up in the new century to demand loyalty, both physically and mentally, and no one wants to share a man's with another woman, and even if there is no love, a woman who is clean and self-loving must not like her sexual partner to spend the night with someone other than her.

So if Eleven wants to love, it will definitely require loyalty, but Xu Si is a responsible one, and it is obviously impossible for him to leave his concubine irresponsibly, then, the rational Eleven will naturally not fall into the trap of love stupidly, as some people say, this is a dead end!

I don't want Eleven to fall in love with Xu Si, her current situation is already difficult, be cautious, don't dare to take a wrong step, if she has such a desperate love again, I don't believe that she won't suffer and hurt herself when she watches Xu Si and her concubines turn over the clouds and rain, making her difficulties even more difficult! Women, it's better to love yourself more.

It's hard for me to have love for Xu Si, a man who is obsessed with Eleven's young and beautiful body, don't tell me it has nothing to do with a man's lustful nature; Regardless of his wife's face, he wantonly vented his desires on the concubine...... Of course, it is normal for men to have normal physical desires, and I don't want him to be a monk without desires, but such an image that obviously does not know restraint is far from the image of an excellent man who is calm and self-controlled, confident, and far-sighted that the author wants to describe. I only saw a pedantic, egoistic, superficial machismo who thinks that the more sons, the better, although all this is caused by the limitations of the times, there is its rationality, such an image, and eleven respect for a lifetime is okay, but to fall in love, it is really difficult.

It was mentioned many times in the article that Xu Si was generous and polite to Eleven, and he felt "satisfied" with his advance and retreat, but the word "satisfied" made me feel a sense of superiority that looked down condescendingly, which made people very uncomfortable. Like the male protagonist Xiao, who has a lot of good things, he didn't put himself high in the first place, Xiao has always had a kind of pure honesty, although he was a little childish and awkward at the beginning, but it didn't prevent me from liking him, so, will Xu Si have a day to lower his profile? I'm skeptical...... Different environments create different outlooks on life and values, Xu Si's concept, there should still be some "everything should be in my control" desire to control, although it is not strong, it can be seen from his face when he is slightly dissatisfied, alas, most of the common problems of superiors!

As for the children, Eleven is even more embarrassed, and she is both an aunt and a stepmother, which can foresee the embarrassment of her status as a child born in the future: she can't be too good, otherwise it will make everyone feel that Brother Chun's position as the son is threatened; There can't be too many sons, otherwise Brother Chun, who is alone, will be under pressure; Let's wait and see, even if Xu Si has her principles, after the birth of Eleven's sister-in-law, it is strange that the eldest lady who likes to worry about self-torture will not run out and toss blindly! It's not Eleven and her children who are unlucky! In addition, Brother Chun is not in good health, what kind of disaster is there, what kind of illness, others still suspect that it is Eleven who wants his sister-in-law to take the throne! Well, besides, if she can't help but feel emotional, wouldn't it be awkward to see those children that other women have for their lovers? A normal woman wouldn't have such a belly. So in terms of children, you really can't let Xu Si do whatever he wants...... It's really tangled.

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