Reading the text so far, Luo Yuanniang has hung up. The coffin is concluded, no matter how Xu Si and Luo Yuanniang are evaluated, their marriage is obviously a naked cup. The wife is dying, and she is not at ease entrusting her husband with their common son, and wants to set up a bureau to force her husband to agree to the son's marriage; The husband has another opinion on his son's marriage, but he hides it from his wife who is about to run out of oil and lamp, and he can talk to his mother about his thoughts and let his mother help with the planning, but he doesn't tell his wife. I didn't sleep at night, and I never thought about going to my real wife's rest. All kinds of circumstances show that the marriage between Xu Si and Luo Yuanniang is really only a skin, a common son, and it has reached the point where it is impossible to communicate and is at odds with each other.

Thinking back to the beginning, Xu Luo's two families have been friends for generations, Xu Si and Yuan Niang are the same age, and they are good friends with Qin and Jin. Yuan Niang is the daughter of a family, she has been carefully taught by her mother since she was a child, she has outstanding appearance, talent, and is a delicate lady; Xu Siyong's son-in-law, young and vigorous, serving in the Praetorian Guard, fresh clothes and angry horses, and graceful demeanor. The two have the same family background and status, and the standard door-to-door marriage should have a certain marriage foundation. But after ten years of husband and wife, the two have lived like this, and their marriage exists in name only. Is it because the two have incompatible personalities? Or is there someone who sows discord? Or is it the trend of the times, gathering armpits into fur?

Xu Si and Yuan Niang's personalities can be said to belong to people who are scheming and strategic, and they both like to calculate others. It's just that because of the relationship between gender experience, Yuan Niang calculates in the inner courtyard, fights in the nest, plays small conspiracies and small means, and counts it as a family. Xu Si calculated in the court, thinking about national affairs, playing big conspiracy and big means, and counting the country. If Yuan Niang is a man and has Xu Si's experience and family background, maybe she can become a momentary Yuliang with Xu Si, for a long time. It's a pity that she is a woman, and she is still a woman who grew up under the teaching of feudal etiquette, and her mind and strategy can naturally only be limited to house fighting, and she can only see the sky at the four corners above the courtyard. I want to say that Xu Si and Yuan Niang actually have certain similarities in personality, they are both strong, they both like to use their brains, they both play sharp, their personalities are like awls, sharp and sharp, the two awls are put together, they are pierced, can they not be pricked and bleeding? ! Tied marriage into a bloody cup!

Thinking back then, Xu Lingyi could agree to Yuan Niang's request to go out of the house, no matter whether it was perfunctory or not, how he repeated it in the end, how he didn't fulfill his promise, a man from a feudal family with a calm and wooden personality, can agree to his wife's request, presumably he really cares about his wife and can't bear to be disappointed. In Mrs. Tai's memories, Yuan Niang was also a little girl with clear and bright eyes, and once looked at her husband with the same cheerful eyes as the fifth lady looked at the fifth master of the Xu family, even if there was no love when they were newly married, they got along at least harmoniously, and the intimacy of the newlywed Yan'er was also there, and they did not have the feelings between husband and wife. But after a long time, the girl's cheerful gaze as she watched her sweetheart gradually dissipate from Yuan Niang's eyes and never returned. Xu Lingyi didn't even bother to talk to his wife. The two of them were finally strangers and relatively speechless.

The marriage of the two of them has come to this point, which is inseparable from their own personality experience. Yuan Niang grew up in her mother's pampering and the welcome of her subordinates, and developed her dust-free personality under her own eyes. And the way her parents have been getting along has also deeply affected her view of marriage, making her think that marriage should be like this, the wife's respect and love for her husband are all superficial skills, and secretly want to make tricks to lead her husband's nose, and the important thing between husband and wife is not love, but control. In this way, Miss Luo let her parents lead her astray path to marriage. As for Xu Lingyi, in his family, the people who really value respect are introverted women with wisdom and vision. His mother, Mrs. Tai, is a woman with political vision, a woman who does not let her eyebrows be shaved, and at the same time is a loving mother-in-law, who is very tolerant of the love of her son and daughter-in-law, which is rare in feudal society, and belongs to a woman with a certain mind and insight. And his second sister-in-law, who is also a famous lady by the standards of feudal society, now seems to have a certain brain, does things just right, and is quite loved by her in-laws. And Luo Yuanniang is flamboyant and sharp, which obviously does not meet the Xu family's requirements for women in the family. Luo Yuanniang should find a man who is easy to be controlled by her, like her father, and Xu Lingyi should find a wise woman who is not so heavy on fame and fortune and not so strong in control. Neither of them found what they wanted, and neither of them was their own dish. It's easy for the two of them to stay in modern times, they really can't get along, just divorce, and find a suitable one, but in that ancient environment, only by boiling one of them to death can they get rid of this cup.

Let's look at the pattern of how they get along with each other. The cornerstone of marriage is understanding and trust, plus a little bit of love. With these three things, the marriage will run well. What about Yuan Niang and Xu Lingyi, needless to say, love may never have been, even if there was a little bud of love when they were newly married, they have long been stifled by themselves. And the limitations of her own vision made Yuan Niang unable to read Xu Lingyi at all, and the Hou Ye, who was strategizing and above the court, became a soft-eared, cowardly, and indecisive man in Yuan Niang's eyes, and looked down on her husband. If a woman can't respect her husband from the bottom of her heart, how can she put her heart and soul into managing her marriage? Luo Yuanniang couldn't understand Xu Lingyi's eloquence at all, so she naturally couldn't trust him even more, and even his baby didn't worry about letting him take care of it. Xu Lingyi knows a little bit about Luo Yuanniang, and knows that Yuanniang wants the best in everything, and she only has herself and no one else in her heart. But this understanding made Xu Lingyi despise Luo Yuanniang even more and couldn't trust her even more. The longer such two people get along, the more they will hate each other and go farther and farther apart. Sometimes husbands and wives have a bad life, and they are even worse than enemies.

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