readx;? If it weren't for the fact that he really didn't have that habit, Yan Shengguo would also want to roll his eyes like her at this moment. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info

"Obeying the father at home, marrying from the husband, and obeying the son when the husband dies, this is the virtue of all women in our Daqing. Although there are women who deviate from the norm or have to work on their own for some reason of necessity, do you think that this is what they will?

If it weren't for the fact that the poor at home couldn't open the pot, which parent who really loved their children would let their daughter go out to work and make money? **** hard work, and what kind of labor is the most glorious, this is standing and talking alive without back pain.

It is only natural for a man to work in order to gain sufficient wealth and status, to provide for his wife and children, and to give them honor.

I know that you usually don't care about a lot of things, but you have always been very assertive when it comes to what you consider to be issues of principle or major issues of right and wrong.

There is nothing wrong with this, after all, as the future housewife of the Dingguo Mansion, if you are a person without a backbone, you will definitely not be able to learn to deal with what may happen in the mansion in the future. You are tougher, more thoughtful, and even occasionally unscrupulous, but Dad has no opinion at all, and raises his hands and feet to express his approval.

However, there is only one thing that Dad needs to remind you to stress again and again, don't think that you can fight against men, especially your husband, as a woman.

Daddy doesn't mean that you have to look after your husband at all times and in all places, but most of the time, even if you disagree with the man's views and practices, be sure to remain silent or tactfully present your thoughts in private.

You must know that men usually have very strong self-esteem, even if they are broad-minded, they have no way to tolerate their pillow people refute themselves in front of outsiders, which is not simply a matter of face, but also reflects whether the woman's attitude towards her husband is deferential, truly respectful and loving.

Since ancient times, women have been obedient and flexible, and those girls whose personalities are too prominent are often too thoughtful and too strong, even if they get married successfully, they will make the people around them feel tired and noisy day by day.

If they are unable to realize and change early, they will easily drift away from their husbands and children, and eventually end up in a situation where they are detached or even truly abandoned and become their next cousins. ”

Yan Shunhua held his forehead, feeling helpless at his expression of excitement the more he spoke.

"Dad, be calm, be calm, don't look at me like an alien. I understand what you mean, in this world, everyone agrees that women should be as quiet as a rabbit, dignified and gentle, take their husbands as the sky, always care about the family, and be ready to give everything for their husbands and children, including the most precious lives, anytime and anywhere, otherwise it does not conform to the mainstream view.

However, I don't disagree with that. I don't agree with many of the ideas in the larger framework, but that doesn't necessarily mean that I reject the positive utility of the mainstream view altogether.

The different points of view that I have put forward, or the mainstream view, are actually the same as yours, and they are all just about being happy.

It's just that I think that as a human being, women should also have the right and the need to support themselves, give full play to their subjective initiative, use their own wisdom, pay labor, create wealth, and enjoy the practical benefits brought by wisdom and sweat, as well as psychological satisfaction.

Although human beings are gregarious, and if they are separated from society, they can easily ******** and even degenerate into wild animals like wild animals, but they also need their own space, only in this way can they grow better, develop better, better make their own judgments about the world, and give the most rapid and correct response.

Dad, only through hands-on practice can people know what they can and can't do, what they can do well, and what they like even if they like it, it is difficult to have great development. However, even if you know that you have little future or even no achievements in your life, as long as you understand that you really like to do that kind of thing, it is not impossible to persevere.

Just like a friend of Shen Jingyuan, he has a great talent for appreciating delicious food, as long as the dishes that he has tasted and identified, they are usually very delicious and in line with the taste of the public. Because he traveled from south to north, while enjoying the food, he also thought about making those foods with his own hands.

No matter how hard he works, he asks the master to teach and supervise, and he practices hard, but in the past ten or twenty years, he has made little progress in cooking.

To put it to the extreme, in terms of tasting food, he has an incomparably good judgment, whether it is talent, or intuition, in short, what he has identified, it must be food, maybe not everyone will like it, after all, it is difficult to reconcile, but no one will think that it is unpalatable.

And when it comes to cooking, he's a real loser. Even if you find a housewife at random, I'm afraid that the food you cook will be more delicious than his.

Really, don't think I'm talking to you, I've had the pleasure of eating what he cooked, it's really hard to swallow, and if you say something bad, a pig will hate the craft.

But Dad, so what? He likes to do it, and he's willing to toss, because he sticks to his liking, so he's happy, and he doesn't feel like he's doing nothing, even if all these years his cooking skills have stayed where he is, like a ridiculous fool.

His background is higher than Shen Jingyuan, and there is naturally no shortage of money, but in the mansion, he can't do what he wants to do - see the beautiful scenery of the world, taste the world's delicacies, and the ultimate goal is to practice the best cooking skills in the world.

I don't think I need to say it, you can imagine how difficult it is for his deviant to really come true. He is not a concubine, as a child of a family who also has the right to inherit, if he wants to escape from the established path that the family has designed for him early on and even paved early, he must pay much more than ordinary people, and it is much more difficult.

But Dad, he succeeded. He left home penniless, with his wisdom and hands, he obtained abundant money, and while working hard to make money, he also enlarged his vacation from time to time, running here and there, except for the ultimate goal has not been able to achieve and is still working hard, other life dreams, he can say that he has been completed, after all, the life he is living now is what he dreamed of when he was young.

Dad, he is alone, he has no money, no power, no fame and status, but he has himself, no matter what happens, it will not be difficult for him, he knows that he has the ability to survive on his own, and live a good and happy life. ”

Yan Shengguo still frowned, "But he is a man, and his status is respected, and he may be more restrained than ordinary, but there are many ways to break free from the worldly point of view." This is not convincing. ”

Yan Shunhua smiled slightly.

"Maybe.

But father, as a parent, don't you most want your children to grow up as they should be, and live a peaceful and happy life?"

Yan Shengguo glared at her, "This is not nonsense?"

Yan Shunhua finally showed a look of victory.

"So Dad, you see, if I want to live like that, even if I am a bit maverick and stupid compared to most girls' families, I should be blessed and even expected by you. ”

(To be continued.) )