237: It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took sixty years to learn to shut up

It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took 60 years to learn to shut up. Most of the time, the more we talk, the farther away we are from each other, and the more contradictions there become. In communication, most people are always in a hurry to express themselves and spit out, but they don't understand the other person at all. Learn to speak in two years, and learn to shut up in one life. Understand or not, don't say much. Be calm and speak slowly. If you really don't have anything to say, don't say it.

I'm scared that before I can embrace the future, you're suddenly gone. Because there will be many, many people around you, and you will forget about me, because you never liked me. Maybe in your heart I'm just someone who likes you. You just feel like someone cares and you're going to go out of your way for you. But I know that one day you have someone by your side who makes you desperate, if you are together, you won't think about it, I'm still waiting.

I wish I had someone by my side at this moment, walking with me, walking with me. However, I knew I had lost so much. Maybe what I lost will never come back, and I'm still standing there stupidly refusing to look back.

Unconsciously falling in love with this feeling, making yourself weaker, more weak, tangled, boring, so you want to enrich yourself, so as to seek more boring things to do, going back and forth to strange people, being alone is more empty, working to make yourself tired, lying on the bed, feeling more tired inside, gradually, there is no so-called happiness, there is no so-called unhappiness, it is very simple, but it has never reached this state, often sad, and even heartache.

Some men love you because they want to live with you for the rest of their lives. Some men love you and just want to spend time with you. A man who lives a lifetime will not love you very hard, because he has to put his strength into life. After a while, the man will love you and die and live, because he only needs to love you, sleep with you, and abandon you. So good men take care of your life, and bad men take care of your feelings.

Departing from you, I will pluck up courage. If I want you to forget me completely, I can only leave you. Leaving the bits and pieces of me and you together, including our memories. The memories are so cruel that I realized that I never forgot you. It turns out that forgetting someone is really hard and difficult.

When you forget your past, are satisfied with your present, and ignore your future, you stand at the top of your life. When success doesn't make you too happy, failure doesn't make you feel good, and blandness doesn't overwhelm you, you're standing at the top of your life. When you think of the past with a smiling heart, look forward with a heart of hope, look down with a generous heart, and look up with a calm heart, you are standing at the highest point of the soul.

You must learn to refuse, if you can't, then others will desperately make demands on you. You'll find that you'll find more and more things to worry about. Why is it that when others fall in love, they are all happy, but you are just a mother to others? Why can everyone around you be a shopkeeper, but you have to carry them all? This is how to be a man, the more you refuse, the more you get. If you don't refuse, you can only be an old mother.

When love came, I didn't cherish it. When love left, I realized that my heart hurt. It's not that I don't love, it's that I don't cherish it. Maybe you only know how to cherish when you lose, but it's too late, and maybe there will be no chance to turn back.

Life is a beautiful landscape, there must be a rainbow when there is wind and rain, and no one has any reason to make it bleak. Some roads are full of mud, but life does not give anyone an excuse for cowardice, even crawling has to be completed, and being strong is the only fulcrum. When the barrier of fog is broken, the years are still sunny and the sunshine is still gentle.

To like a person is to like him all, both pros and cons. Like someone, it's tolerating her temper, and it's cute even if it's a toss. Like someone, I am always angry and want to break up, but I can't break up. Like someone, it is silently changing for her, but not telling her. Like someone, even if you are in a daze with him for a long time, it is also very sweet. If you like someone, you are stupid or stupid, but you are also lucky.

A secluded path, twists and turns, will always arouse the yearning of relaxation; A wave of huge waves, when the tide rises and falls, it can stack more thrilling sounds; A story, regret and sorrow have the desolation of liver and intestines; A kind of life, ups and downs, the Chinese side shows the world's shocking heroism.

Happy times are those that you never presupposed, but they will come to mind from time to time, when the environment and people present a mottled softness, and those memories are truly beautiful. There are not many people who can encounter this kind of beauty in this life, but it is enough to have a few moments. Don't anticipate the future, try not to assume, take possession as all, and look at the present as forever.

The road of life is also a curve, with potholes and twists and turns. On it, there is the joy of the proud, but also the tears of the loser; There is both the joy of those who go well and the distress of those who are frustrated. Because of this, the curves of life make life full and meaningful.

Alone, if you don't push yourself, you don't know how good you are. If you want to be good, you have to accept challenges; As a person, if you want to excel as soon as possible, you have to look for challenges; A person who dares to listen to the truth needs courage; It takes courage for a person to dare to speak the truth; A person's knowledge can be obtained through learning; A person's growth must be tempered!

When the young eagle is still waiting to be fed in the nest and looking at the blue sky and white clouds, it has a dream, that is, to flutter its wings in the sky, fight with the blue sky, and dance with the white clouds; When the horse rests in the fence and neighs with its head held high, it also has a dream, that is, to gallop the world through the wilderness.

The meaning of life is to have a group of friends who take care of each other. When we get together, laugh out loud; When parting, worry; In front of others, there are allusions and jokes that only know each other; When you are bored, you can find someone who is texting, even if one day, you will end up scattering the world. But once, life intersected; Once, the light was shining; Once, I was sad for each other's grievances; In times of sadness, hold back your sadness and smile brightly.

It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's not easy to stick to that promise when it's dull. Love is never about pandering. If you can't quarrel and scold, you can't leave, it can be regarded as true love. In fact, if you really love someone, you will fall into a whirlpool of love and affection. He makes you cry and disappoints you, and despite this, he stands there and you walk over and hold his hand, involuntarily.

Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. You can not forget the past, but you must let it go. You don't have that many viewers, don't be so tired. You're never as important as you think. Speak slowly, but think quickly. There are a lot of unfairness in life, don't complain because it's useless. Don't think that life owes you enough, in fact, I didn't work hard enough. It's not your own, and it's useless to like it.

If life is a beautiful music, then pain is one of the indispensable notes; If life is an endless sea, then setbacks are a sudden rising wave; If life is a clear blue sky, then frustration is a floating white cloud.

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