The weather at the end of summer can be unpredictable, sometimes warm and sometimes cool. The day before, I felt unbearably hot and unbearably hot, and there was a torrential rain at night, but Dongfang Siyi experienced an unusually cool feeling after waking up in the morning, and summer seemed to have gone away overnight.

In the morning, just arrived at work in the hospital, Dongfang Siyi walked into the office before he had time to sit down to prepare and arrange a day's work, the door was pushed open with a "bang", and Ma Huijuan, a party who had just submitted a complaint a few days ago, asked for a divorce from her husband Liu Jiabao, was wearing an autumn coat and broke in with a depressed expression without saying hello.

Xiao Wang, the clerk of the case filing court who came in later, put the files of the newly accepted cases on Dongfang Siyi's desk, looked back at Ma Huijuan strangely, and asked puzzledly: "Are you cold?" You're probably the first person I've ever met to wear an autumn outfit this year. ”

Ma Huijuan shuddered and said, "You little girl, you can't understand the warmth and coldness of the world, I feel like I have fallen into an ice cellar now, cold from head to foot, cold from heart to bones." Where can you understand? You can't understand it! ”

Xiao Wang saw that Ma Huijuan was a little out of order, so he stopped talking, turned around and hurriedly went to other courtrooms to deliver the case file.

"President Dongfang, I'm sorry, I was in a hurry and didn't close my eyes all night, and I broke into your office without your consent. I would like to ask, when will my divorce case go to trial? Ma Huijuan shuddered again, looked at Dongfang Siyi in a daze, and asked.

Dongfang Siyi looked at Ma Huijuan, who looked very impatient, suspiciously: "A copy of the complaint you asked for divorce was just served to the defendant Liu Jiabao a few days ago. In accordance with the provisions of the law, the defendant shall file a reply within 15 days of receiving a copy of the complaint. After receiving the defendant's reply, the court shall serve a copy of the reply to the plaintiff within five days. After these procedures are completed, we will notify you that both the plaintiff and the defendant will come to court to exchange evidence, and then decide on a time to schedule the trial. ”

"I know all of what you're talking about, you told me the other day. I wonder right now when the court will be in session? Ma Huijuan looked very anxious.

Dongfang Siyi further explained: "Until now, the defendant has not filed a reply. We must comply with the time limit stipulated in the litigation procedure, and only after the defendant's plea has expired can we schedule the case according to the relevant circumstances. You've called a few times, and I've made it clear to you that we have to follow the rules. I wonder what you're looking for me right now? If you ask for the date of the trial, I still can't tell you with certainty, I hope you understand. ”

"President Dongfang, I'm indeed a little anxious, you don't know how I've spent the past few days. I have never been so tormented and miserable as I am now, and I can say that my days have been like years. Like an ant in a hot pot all day long, except for despair or despair. Ma Huijuan's eyes were bloodshot, her expression was gloomy and different from the past, and her tone was also desolate.

Dongfang Siyi remembered the situation when she received Ma Huijuan for the first time, and her expression at that time was really similar to that in front of her.

On that day, when Ma Huijuan received the "Property Registration Form" and "Notice of Proof" delivered to her by Dongfang Siyi, she just glanced at it, and put it into the exquisite leather satchel she carried with her without looking. Then he brushed a few strands of hair that hung down to his forehead with his fingers, and the corners of his mouth showed an imperceptible smile.

She looked at Dongfang Siyi and said lightly: "I hope he can repent, divorcing him just wants to promote him, and he can't live lifelessly anymore, he is a man who doesn't seek progress at all." I'm going to have to knock him hard! Dongfang Siyi didn't know why Ma Huijuan would say something like that, he really couldn't understand what divorce had to do with a man's progress.

Only a few days later, Ma Huijuan stood in front of him with unkempt hair, and her cramped and uneasy expression clearly revealed a kind of despair, Dongfang Siyi looked at Ma Huijuan suspiciously and asked, "Why do you say this, did Liu Jiabao commit domestic violence against you?" He seems to be a humble gentleman, what happened? ”

Ma Huijuan's red and swollen eyes revealed some confusion: "He didn't commit domestic violence against me, but became a shameful deserter." Liu Jiabao is gone, and he has run away from home a few days ago. What a ridiculous thing that happened to him, to my home. At first, I didn't want to believe it myself, so I never called you about it. ”

The more she spoke, the more angry she became: "He's just a bastard, an out-and-out irresponsible coward." He must have thought of this trick after receiving a copy of the complaint from you. I misjudged this man, no, he can't be considered a man, I now know that he is very cowardly in his bones, not a little manly, no real man would be a deserter like him. ”

She has endured the pain of insomnia for three days and three nights: "He threw the copy of the complaint you served on the desk at home, and disappeared like a ghost, this is the letter he left behind, and it was sandwiched in the copy of the complaint." ”

Dongfang Siyi looked at Ma Huijuan, who looked haggard, and had a big question mark in his heart, he also felt that this matter was a little unreasonable.

Judging from Ma Huijuan's statement in the complaint, she and Liu Jiabao got married 12 years ago, and the child is 10 years old. Ma Huijuan is a government worker, and Liu Jiabao is a senior manager of a state-owned enterprise. From a general social point of view, the family should belong to the middle class, which is the most stable class in society.

Of course, this does not mean that the middle class does not have any crises, nor does it mean that the middle class does not have problems with marriage and family. But as a middle-aged man with a successful career, Mr. Liu had no reason to give up a highly-paid executive position in a state-owned enterprise.

It is indeed unconscionable to run away from home just because the wife filed a divorce lawsuit. However, many things do not necessarily happen because they are unreasonable in the eyes of others. Perhaps, in the eyes of the person concerned, everything he did was justified and reasonable.

The letter kept by the Liu family was written on a piece of 4K printed paper.

Huijuan:

I'm leaving.

Considering that after all, I am a leading member of the unit, and I must also give an account of the work I am in charge of, and I cannot affect the work order of the unit because of my resignation, so after thinking about it again and again, I submitted my resignation report to the unit yesterday. I have made up my mind, and I will not wait for the approval of my superiors. The company will not change anything because of the absence of someone like me, perhaps, because my departure will bring more hope to others.

You filed for divorce, and the court served it on me yesterday. I agree to the divorce and agree to everything you ask. However, I would like to leave my opinion here: I voluntarily renounce all joint property after marriage, and the children are also handed over to you.

You will have to work a little harder in the future, you don't have to worry about the child's homework, his foundation is very good, and what reassures me is that he has developed the habit of being diligent and studious, and there will not be much change in the future. As his father, I can only accompany him here, so I would like to say sorry to my child. Whether I am a competent father or not, his future path still needs to be chosen and walked on his own.

I'm not worried about you, because you are an extremely conscientious and responsible woman who lives and works, and is also an excellent woman. Whether it's at work or at home, it's hard for you to find fault with a woman. You have your own ideas in everything, you have a way to do everything, and you always think about the family.

I did not doubt this, precisely because I did not doubt this, for a long time I have become a man who has nothing to do, a man who has nothing to do, a man who lives under the protection of his wife. It's a shame to think about it, and I can't find my presence anymore.

I don't know when I started, but little by little I have lost myself.

In the unit, although I am also a leader, as a member of the leadership group, I must learn to compromise and coordinate, otherwise I will be frustrated everywhere and it will be difficult to move an inch. No matter how correct your opinion is, it depends on whether the top leader agrees. No matter how low-key your posture is, it depends on whether your colleagues will be in tune with you. The enthusiasm of his youth has been consumed, and he has watched himself become a puppet without his mind and soul.

In the family, I became the character you designed. According to your design, I want to be a good man, a good man with a successful career and unlimited scenery outside; I want to be a good husband, a good husband who is gentle and considerate to his wife; I also want to be a good father, a good father who can set an example for his children everywhere.

I'm tired, really tired. You're right about one thing, I'm a nerd as you say. Nerd-like personality, like to be more rigid, and he doesn't know how to turn when he hits a wall, and he doesn't know how to compromise; The same idea as a nerd, only pursuing one's own value, not caring about one's own gains and losses, honor and status are a heavy burden on me.

In your eyes, nerds have no social value, are unproductive, and cannot be qualified husbands and fathers. I can't figure it out, why are nerds like useless waste in your eyes? Why can't you just leave a quiet desk for nerds?

I don't want to talk about right and wrong, I don't want to talk about right and wrong. The question of who is right and who is wrong no longer makes any sense to me. For more than ten years of marriage, we have been together all the way, and you have also counted my faults all the way, and now it can all be over.

Please don't blame me, of course you probably can't do that because you're a person who doesn't like to control your emotions. I mean, now that I'm gone, no matter how much you scold me and accuse me, I can't listen to it with my own ears in front of you.

Please don't hold a grudge against me, I chose to leave, just because I feel that I have been too tired physically and mentally over the years, my heart is very fragile now, and I am afraid that the anxiety that has accumulated before will make me fall into a state of collapse anytime and anywhere, so I must leave as soon as possible before all this gets out of control.

Please don't come to me or contact me in any way, because when I pack my bags and go out, I don't really have a destination and I don't know where I'm going. Where is my final destination?

In my bag, apart from a few pieces of clothing, it was a book that I carried with me. You may not know that book because the author of this book is an unknown monk. I got this book by chance, and the title of the book is somewhat peculiar, "Forget, Including Yourself".

Please forget me, when I packed my bags and walked out of this house, I had chosen to forget all the past, all the past grievances and grievances, all the past gains and losses, all the past loves and hates.

I have consulted that the court may hear the case in absentia if I leave and do not participate in the proceedings. After the judgment is rendered, it can be served by public notice, and as long as all the legal procedures are completed, you can get the judgment.

Let the law put an end to our marriage and family life for more than ten years. I know it's not the outcome you wanted, and it's not the outcome I'm willing to wait for, but at this point, it seems like there's no other choice.

Life is impermanent, hope is business as usual.

Don't

I wish you all the best

Liu Jiabao on the same day

Ma Huijuan lowered her head and said helplessly: "In my heart, I originally hoped for a better result, hoping that he could change his stubborn character, change his unrealistic ideas, and change his attitude of pursuing nothing." I didn't expect him to make such a choice, a choice that I didn't expect at all, a choice that I couldn't accept. ”

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