What is the status of wet nurses, nurses, nurses, nurses, and nurses?
Of course, the family that hires a nurse is a rich family, and the nurse, and the nurse all mean the same thing.
The average life expectancy of the ancients in China is relatively short, the medical technology is not developed, and the infant mortality rate is particularly high, so the folk advocate early marriage and early pregnancy, and the husband and wife have several more children at the age suitable for childbearing, and make up for the loss of the death of the baby by increasing the number of babies.
In many dynasties, girls give birth to their first child between the ages of 14 and 19, and many young mothers who are novices on the road are not yet mature in their own bodies, although they can conceive and have children, but they often face the problem of insufficient milk. Most mothers living at the bottom of the social ladder have to take care of household chores and even work in the fields, and their own malnutrition is worse, and their babies are not enough to eat.
In ancient times, when there was no milk powder, some students would propose to feed their babies with fresh milk. In fact, the ancients in China have not been in the habit of drinking milk, one is because the ancients believed that only barbarians would drink the milk of livestock. Second, because China's ancient social economy was based on farming, in order to protect agriculture, cattle were mainly used as farming tools, and cowhides and horns were strategic materials for making weapons and armor, and the government had many restrictions on the consumption of cattle. Third, because of the limited source of milk, most of the cattle born and raised in China are cattle and buffaloes, and no matter which kind of milk production can not be compared with dairy cows. The introduction of dairy cows from Europe is a matter of the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, that is, in the late Qing Dynasty, after the Opium War, China was reduced to a semi-feudal and semi-colonial country, and a large number of foreigners in order to drink fresh milk, specially transported cows from Europe to breed with China's cattle, which is also the first time that China has dairy cows.
Breast milk is insufficient, ordinary people have no good choice, or feed the baby to eat rice soup that does not have much nutritional value, if there are sheep at home, and it happens to be in the lactation period, you can also express goat milk to the child to drink, of course, this is a last resort for survival, after all, humans and animals are not the same kind. If a good relative, neighbor happens to have a woman with enough milk during lactation, you can let the baby recognize a godmother, of course, the godmother must have her own biological children to feed, so some babies can recognize several godmothers in order to feed.
But it is different for large households, there are material conditions to invite a wet nurse, and it can ensure that the wet nurse eats better than others. Those wealthy businessmen and aristocrats, in order to ensure that the family inheritance is inherited, often have many wives and concubines, and there are wives and concubines who are pregnant at the same time, so that a rich family can raise several wet nurses, and the children of the wife and concubine are fed by their respective wet nurses, which directly separates the feelings of the children and the biological mother, the ancient marriage in our country is a monogamous and polygonal system, in the family, the husband and wife shoulder the responsibility of educating their children at the same time, and the wife who is married by the Ming media exercises maternal authority, whether it is born by themselves or not, The wife is the mother of these children, and the children continue to grow up, and they do not have too deep feelings for their biological mothers, which indirectly consolidates the wife's position in the family. understands a little, and everyone can understand the mother-daughter relationship between Jia Tanchun and Aunt Zhao in "Dream of Red Mansions".
The nurse feeds the baby on behalf of the mother, which greatly liberates the mother, so that their physical and mental state quickly returns to normal from the pregnancy period, which is too important for large families with many wives and concubines, and the wives and concubines can use their bodies and spirits to recover as soon as possible, and go all out to fight for favor.
In addition, lactating women generally do not come to menstruation, breastfeeding inhibits ovulation, in order to conceive the next child as soon as possible, even if the family can only afford to marry one wife, as long as there is money, they will ask others to feed their children, which has also become another driving force to promote the development of the wet nurse's career.
Taking care of a newborn is a very hard job, and you may not be able to sleep a full night a year, so how can those wives and aunts endure this kind of hardship? Poor women, especially those with illegitimate children, sometimes have to temporarily or permanently give up their own biological children, and use their own milk to feed other people's babies, and complete the work of breastfeeding under supervision and guidance. However, they are generally simple-minded and kind-hearted, and some big families with good family style, because the nurse has a lot of affection for the child, and in order to repay the nurse for her hard work, when the child is weaned, she will still leave the nurse to engage in other jobs at home, and the general treatment is relatively generous, and the status is relatively high, and even when the nurse is old, she is allowed to retire and provide for the elderly.
In the court where the struggle for power was fierce, the situation was different. Especially in the Qing Dynasty, the feudal system developed to its peak, in order to prevent the harem from being chaotic and relatives from interfering in politics, it was necessary to alienate the relationship between the prince and the biological mother, and clearly stipulated that the biological mother could not raise her own children. The prince and princess were taken care of by the wet nurse all their lives, and their mother had only one mother, who was the queen of the dynasty. And the wet nurse does not belong to the concubines, she is under the control of the Internal Affairs Office, and she completely listens to the emperor. Honorable princesses, see your children several times a year. In this case, the status and role of the nurse is very important, which nurse feeds the little prince in case he becomes the emperor, the nurse will follow the "chicken dog to heaven".
A monk together [When he arrived at his door, he saw Shiyin holding Yinglian, and the monk cried loudly, and said to Shiyin: "Donor, what are you doing with this fateful thing that affects your father and mother?" ”】
There is a large number of criticisms for this sentence of the leper monk, [Jiazhu Mei Criticism: How many heroes have died in eight words? How many loyal ministers and filial sons have been killed? How many people with lofty ideals have died? How many words are squeezed to death? Now the author has sprinkled this handful of tears in the boudoir, and I see that the skirt hairpin is still suffering from this number, and the men in the world are there? Look at the first woman he wrote and opened the book with these two words to determine her life, then you know the meaning of the words, who is the only one who is interested in the word "love"! The three points of Wuhou, the two emperors of Wumu, the hatred of the two sages, and now they are endless, and the grass is mustard today? There is a difference between the size of the family and the country, and there is no difference in the number of their fortunes. Those who know the luck and know the number will forgive and sigh. 】
The eight words said by the critic said that it means "there is no luck in life, and it affects my father and mother", and the focus is on "life and no luck", and as for "affecting my father and mother", it may be that the leper monk scared Zhen Shiyin.
Fate is simply fate and luck, from the perspective of numerology, there are two meanings, one is life, life is given by parents, it is innate, once given life can not be changed, there is inevitability. The second is luck, luck is given by the environment in which people live, it is acquired, and the environment will change differently at various stages of life, and there will be accidents. Destiny is not lucky, that is, the innate conditions are very good, but unfortunately there is no luck, and there is no suitable time or space to operate the originally good life!
The three-year-old girl Zhen Yinglian used the words "fate but no luck", in the ancient patriarchal society, there were more men with fate and no luck. There are indeed too many emperors and generals, heroes and heroes, loyal ministers and filial sons, people with lofty ideals, and people with lofty ideals, who have ideals and ambitions, but unfortunately have no luck! Therefore, the critic said that "Dream of Red Mansions" is not simply about the love of children and daughters, and also gave two examples, "three points of Wuhou and two emperors of Wu Mu".
"Wuhou" is Zhuge Liang's title, Liu Bei before his death, in the White Emperor City, said to Zhuge Liang, if Liu Chan can be the monarch, please Zhuge Liang continue to assist, if Liu Chan is incompetent, please Zhuge Liang to replace him. Zhuge Liang was loyal and assisted Liu Chan to succeed to the throne, and he was named the Marquis of Wuxiang, and later generations called "Zhuge Wuhou" or "Wuhou". Zhuge Liang did his best, and went on six northern expeditions before and after, and finally died of exhaustion in Wuzhang Plain. Some people say: "Just because the first lord admonished, the stars fell in the autumn wind and the five zhang plain", Wuhou's hatred was that Liu Bei's group was weak and he proposed to divide the world first, and then seek unification, but unfortunately the years are not forgiving, no matter how capable he is, he has no time to complete the great cause of reunification. This is the result of the "transport" being limited by time.
"Wu Mu" is Yue Fei's nickname, at the end of the Northern Song Dynasty, Song Huizong was in power. His father Song Shenzong died early, Song Huizong was not trained as a successor when he was a child, he was a prodigal prince who was lustful and lustful, eating, drinking and having fun, and his successor was his brother Song Zhezong. Song Zhezong died earlier, and when he died, he didn't even have a son, Song Huizong was originally an artist, and suddenly became an emperor. The army of Jin soldiers was pressed, and he was still intoxicated with calligraphy and painting, ignoring national affairs, and simply passed the throne to his son Song Qinzong. In the first year of Jingkang (1126), the Jin soldiers broke through Kaifeng City, and Emperor Huizong and Emperor Qinzong were arrested and taken to the grassland together.
In the following year, Zhao Gou (Gaozong) was proclaimed emperor in Shangqiu, Henan, and the capital was Lin'an (Hangzhou, Zhejiang), which was known as the Southern Song Dynasty. The Southern Song Dynasty produced a famous anti-gold general, Yue Fei, "angry hair rushed to the crown, leaning on the railing, Xiaoxiao rain rest." Raise your eyes, look up to the sky and roar, strong and fierce. Thirty fame, dust and earth, eight thousand miles of clouds and moons. Don't wait, the young man's head is white, empty and sad! Jing Kang is ashamed, and it is still snowing. When the courtiers hate, when will they be destroyed! Drive a long car and step through the lack of Helan Mountain. Zhuang is hungry for Hulu meat, laughing and thirsty for Xiongnu blood. To start from the beginning, clean up the old mountains and rivers, and face the sky. ”
Yue Fei is good at fighting, joined the army at the age of 20, is brave and strategic, he wants to regain the lost territory in the Northern Expedition, avenge the shame, and welcome back the two emperors of Hui and Qin. However, Zhao Gou, Gaozong of the Southern Song Dynasty, didn't think so, won the battle, and brought my father and my brother back, I, the emperor, are the oldest, and the capable main battle faction like Yue Fei is resolutely not used, and it is better to be the champion and the main faction Qin Hui. Besides, fattening an eagle is in danger of being pecked blind, fattening a pigeon can be roasted and eaten at any time, so Zhao Gou uses doves to suppress hawks.
According to folklore, Yue Fei, Yue Yun and others were killed by Qin Hui and his wife in the Fengbo Pavilion ---of Dali Temple in Hangzhou, the highest judicial organ at that time. On the street of Hangzhou, a vendor selling breakfast was very angry when he heard the news, so he kneaded two noodles, twisted them together and fried them in an oil pot, and called them "fried juniper". People rushed to buy it in order to vent their anger. As the number of customers increased, the shop simplified the production process and directly wound the two noodles and fried them, which became today's fritters. The word "juniper" has two pronunciations, "hui" or "gui", and now, there are still some places where the fritters are called fried juniper or fried ghosts.
Yue Fei failed to complete the ideal of welcoming back the Second Emperor and avenging the shame, and finally died in the hands of his own people, which was the result of the limitation of the space environment by "Yun".
Therefore, the appraiser said, "There is a difference between the size of the family and the country, the monarch and the father, and the number of their fortunes is slightly different." Those who know the luck and know the number will forgive and sigh. "Everyone's position, status, responsibility, mission, ideal is different, but numerology, fate, life is not much different, people who understand these truths, even if they regret because they have goals that cannot be completed, they can also comfort and forgive, at most a few sighs of impermanence, creation and manipulation, time also, luck also!
After the Lantern Festival, it is time for the smoke to be extinguished.
"Habitually pampered and laughing at you, Linghua is empty to the snow. After the Lantern Festival, it is time for the smoke to be extinguished. These four sentences are proverbs, and proverbs refer to words that can be fulfilled after they happen, and can also be understood as a prophecy of the future.
"Habitual pampering laughs at you stupidly", [Jiaxu side criticism: crying for the world's parents. Zhen Shiyin is more than half a hundred years old and has an only daughter, and he must be pampered by Zhen Yinglian, and the leper monk laughs at him for being stupid, because Zhen Shiyin does not know the future fate of his daughter, and parents all over the world want their children to live well, if Zhen Shiyin knows that Zhen Yinglian will be a concubine in the future, and she will be killed by Xia Jingui, she will definitely be in pain, the more it hurts her children very much, the more deeply it hurts, and I also cry for the parents of the world.
Linghua is empty to the snow. [Jiaxu side batch: When life is not met. It's not a coincidence. On the surface, this sentence is to write flowers, lotus flowers are seen more, lotus, lotus flowers bloom after lotus seeds, lotus roots grow in the water, water rhombies are seen less, rhodoids are annual herbaceous aquatic plants rhombic flowers, the fruit in the water is called water chestnut, rhodic flowers and lotus flowers are the same as summer flowers, but also as written in "Love Lotus Said" "out of the mud but not stained, clear ripples but not demons", but "rhombic flowers empty to the snow", summer flowering rhombic meets winter snow, is empty talk, nonsense, impossible, if there is really this abnormal phenomenon, Linghua will freeze to death!
Through this sentence, the author secretly wrote that Zhen Yinglian was originally a more noble lotus, but after being abducted and sold by traffickers, she changed her name to Xiangling and became Linghua, and her identity changed from a young lady in a rural eunuch's family to a pariah without a hukou. Xiangling met Feng Yuan, who wanted to treat her wholeheartedly, but the kid named Feng Yuanzhen encountered an unjust thing, and his wife was beaten to death before she got married. Magical things happened then, Linghua really encountered snow, or heavy snow, "good snow in a good year, pearls like earth, gold and iron".
Xiangling was bought into the Xue family by Xue Pan, the dumb overlord, and Ling became Xue's concubine, and her fate was not much better, and she was cold to death and frozen to death sooner or later. This is not the end, Xia Jingui's appearance hastened Xiangling's demise. Rhombus is blooming in summer, to autumn, rhombus almost can't hold on, rhombus failure, osmanthus bloom, just autumn blooming golden cinnamon over rhombus. Jin Gui is an evergreen broad-leaved tree, with a well-developed root system, up to 15 meters high, much more vigorous than the water weeds, and she is also surnamed Xia, Xue Pan married Xia Jingui, no matter how big the snow does not dare and can not compete with Xia, Xia Jingui "Hedong Lion Roar" is spicy and fierce, Xiangling "Little Bird Yiren" is gentle and obedient, the Xue family is a husband and a wife, the wife is extremely strong, the husband can not be cured, the concubine is weak, the husband can not be saved, the weak concubine was abused to death by the strong wife, fate, luck, pain!
After the Lantern Festival, [Jiaxu side batch: the same before and after, not straight before and after the clouds, it is a person who knows nothing. This sentence is the same as the previous sentence, ostensibly about Zhen Yinglian's loss during the Lantern Festival, and then the Zhen family suffered a fire and the family business was ruined. The author secretly alluded to Jia Baoyu's family, laying the groundwork for the rapid decline of the Jia family after the Lantern Festival in the 53rd Rongguo Mansion. The criticism is not very easy to understand, there is information that the actual time when Cao Xueqin's house was copied is the eve of the Lantern Festival in the sixth year of Yongzheng, the Lantern Festival is the painful and unforgettable memory of the Cao family, the things before the Lantern Festival, after writing the Lantern Festival, the author is afraid that his relatives will be sad and sad when they read it, and it is also the writing technique of "Zhen Shiyin Jiayu Village".
It is when the smoke is extinguished and the fire is extinguished. [Jiaxu side batch: Fu Hou text. On the surface, it is written that Zhen Shiyin's house was burned by a fire, and it is secretly written that Jiafu was defeated, and his house was raided by the emperor, and all the glory and wealth turned into ashes. This kind of writing metaphor is the "Ming Xiu Plank Road Secret Crossing Chen Cang" we mentioned earlier
Broken Foot Daoist: "After the three tribulations, I will wait for you in Beibi Mountain!" ”
Shi Yin understood and hesitated, intending to ask them where they came from. I only heard the preacher say, "You and I don't have to go together, so we will part up and go to each other." After the three tribulations, I will wait for you in Beibi Mountain, and I will all go to the Illusory Realm together. [Jiaxu Mei Criticism: The Buddha is called "robbery" in the world, and thirty years is a lifetime. The Three Tribulations want to fable the ninety springs. 】
The word "world" in the world can be used to represent time in Chinese, and I can also be used to refer to 30 years, and in the first few episodes we discussed that Nuwa used 36,500 stones to mend the sky, which corresponds to exactly one hundred years. One generation is thirty years, counting one generation, when Jia Baoyu was born, Jiafu flourished a little more than three generations, three generations: water word generation, generation of words, text generation, to the jade generation of Jia Zhu was born for about 90 years. Jia Baoyu is much younger than Jia Zhu, and Baoyu was about a hundred years old when Baoyu was born.
The critic said, "Every thirty years is one," so to speak. However, I don't agree with the "world" that the critic said is the "catastrophe" of Buddhism. Buddhism said that "robbery" is the transliteration of Sanskrit, called "robbery", referred to as "robbery", Buddhism "robbery" is divided into big robbery, medium robbery, small robbery. A small catastrophe is tens of millions of years, which is too different from 30 years in a lifetime. Therefore, I think that when the text says "after the three tribulations", it should also mean after the three calamities.
The author once again "repaired the plank road and secretly crossed Chen Cang", clearly wrote Zhen Shiyin's three tribulations, and secretly wrote Jia Baoyu's three tribulations. Zhen Shiyin's family, the loss of Yinglian is a catastrophe, the burning of the house is a second catastrophe, and the thieves have to take refuge in the snobbish father-in-law is the third catastrophe, and Zhen Shiyin became a monk after three catastrophes.
Because the text of "Dream of Red Mansions" was lost after 80 episodes, Jia Baoyu's three tribulations only appeared in the first 80 episodes, that is, the twenty-fifth episode of "Nightmare Magic Sisters Meet the Five Ghosts of Dream of Red Mansions". Ma Daopo's hateful, contemptible, and shameful lies in the fact that she, as Baoyu's named godmother, had just deceived Jia's mother of "five catties a day" of sesame oil money, and immediately helped Aunt Zhao use witchcraft to harm Baoyu, which was Jia Baoyu's first calamity.
Nuwa mends the heavenly stone into a psychic jade, the front is inscribed: Don't forget, Xianshou Hengchang, and there are words on the back: one to eliminate evil, two to cure wrongs, and three to know the blessings and misfortunes. After Jia Baoyu's first catastrophe, he fell into evil, and a monk used Tongling Baoyu to save him, which is to eliminate evil. Therefore, we can expand our imagination to speculate on Jia Baoyu's second and third tribulations.
The second function of Tongling Baoyu is called "curing unjust diseases", then, I think, here the unjust diseases should refer to the diseases caused by the debts of the wrongdoers, and the debts of the wrongdoers are the debts of love. Just as Jia's mother said that Baoyu and Daiyu "are not enemies and do not get together", we see that Zijuan because of a joke that Daiyu wants to return to Yangzhou, Baoyu stays, but it can be seen that Baoyu is more and more inseparable from Daiyu, Daiyu dried up her tears and wanted Baoyu to die first, obviously, Baoyu's second calamity refers to Daiyu's illness after death.
The third role of Tongling Baoyu is called "Knowing Misfortune and Blessing", Baoyu's third calamity should be when Jiafu was copied, and when the family was scattered and rushing, Tongling Baoyu "knew the blessing of misfortune" when Jiafu encountered difficulties, and also involved clues such as "Zhen Baoyu sent jade", which will be discussed in the future.
- The surname Jia is transformed into the word Shi Fei, and the fake language of "poor sour scholar" exists
[Suddenly, I saw a poor Confucian living in the gourd temple next door, whose surname was Jia Minghua and Shi Fei, and the alias Yucun walked out. 】
The ancients in our country have names and words, and we discussed them in the first episode of [I Read "Dream of Red Mansions"], so I will not be verbose here. Some people, in addition to their names and characters, have other titles, called "aliases", or "number" for short. I usually give myself an "alias", and some friends help me to do it. In addition to being used for people, aliases are very practical, and are mostly used for the signature of literary and artistic works such as poems, articles, books, calligraphy and paintings, or artistic processing products, similar to the current pen names, network names, and brands. Therefore, people with aliases are generally people with a higher level of education and profound cultural heritage.
In the first two episodes, we discussed the surname Zhen Fei Zi Shiyin, and the author did not explain his alias, or the author did not help him design the alias at all. But Jia Yucun has, because the author has set a relatively high cultural level for Jia Yucun, opening his mouth to write poems and songs, and writing splendid articles, so that he can better play the role of a clue character. In this way, Jia Yucun was able to successfully pass the imperial examination and become an official in the first round. Such a Jia Yucun can be arrogant and arrogant, with no one in his eyes, and quickly lose his position.
In the second episode of "Dream of Red Mansions", the author arranged for Jia Yucun, who had lost his official position, to hurry up and become Lin Daiyu's teacher, Jia Yucun and Leng Zixing's discussion about the turbidity of the air, and the statement of good and evil, are all continued to show Jia Yucun's profound cultural heritage, not to let readers praise Jia Yucun's erudition and foresight, but to pave the way for the plot behind, to let readers know that there is a reason why Lin Daiyu's poetry is powerful. Jia Yucun is the author's tool for writing novels, or a special guest actor.
The surname Jia is named, and the criticism says that it is a "lie" and a lie. It is normal for officials to tell lies, and sometimes we have to say that we must believe that the eyes of the masses are clear, and we must understand that the masses do not know the truth.
When the words fly, the criticism says that it is "real non", the actual "real", very "non", but the actual is not so. Is it all a lie? No, the truth is hidden, it is a lie on the surface, and there is truth in the falsehood.
Alias Yucun, the criticism says "village dialect coarse", using the vulgar language in the countryside to lead the story, these criticisms are the author's "fake village dialect" writing techniques, on the basis of the three criticisms I agree, I still have something to say.
In the text, the surname Jia is named, this "Hua" is the "change" of change, there is the meaning of change, alluding to the fact that the false can be changed to the true, the ancient names and words have a strong correlation, in the text he flies when the word flies, the "time" of the timing, the "fly" of flying, there are two kinds of changes, change in the direction of the good or in the direction of the bad, to see the timing, when the time comes, the flying Huang Tengda.
In the first episode, we talked about the fact that parents and elders named their children, all in the hope that the children would have a good life in the future. alias Yucun, which indicates that the development time he chooses is not good and stupid!
In the first two episodes, let's discuss Zhen Fei and Zhen Shiyin, and said "The way of a gentleman is to hide and hide", there is no gentleman in the world who lives in seclusion and leisure, and there is a gentleman in the world who comes out to be an official to govern the country, Zhen Shiyin is not used to the darkness of officialdom before he resigned and returned to his hometown, but Jia Yucun chose such an opportunity to squeeze his scalp to take the exam to become an official, and after losing his office, he tried every means to cling to the powerful, and in the end there was no good result.
Zhen Shiyin, who was in the officialdom, took the initiative to quit, lived outside the gourd temple, and finally left home. Jia Yucun, who lives in the Hulu Temple, went out of the Hulu Temple to enter the officialdom and experience the darkness that Zhen Shiyin has experienced, and he is more able to change than Zhen Shiyin, so it seems that he has soared, and it is not as good as Zhen Shiyin if he changes again. Just as Mr. Qian Zhongshu wrote "The Siege of the City", people in the city want to escape, and people outside the city want to rush in.
Love at first sight
[Text: Here it rains and rummags through books to relieve boredom. Suddenly, I heard a woman's cough outside the window, so Yucun got up and looked out the window, it turned out to be a maid, picking flowers there, picking flowers is picking flowers, "Red beans are born in the south, and a few branches are sent in spring." May you pick more, this thing is the most lovely. [Text: Born with good appearance, clear eyebrows,] [Jiaxu side batch: Eight characters are enough. [Text: Although it is not very beautiful, it is also moving. 【Jiazhu Mei Criticism: Better. This is the true truth. The ridiculous novel is full of words such as "shy flowers and closed moons". This is in the eyes of Yucun, and it is not similar to the people who came after. The critic said that it is reasonable for the author to write like this, and the maid who just came out is shy of the moon, so how to describe the appearance of the young lady in the future? And this is Jiao Xing in Jia Yucun's eyes, Xi Shi is in the eyes of lovers, is in the eyes of others, and Jiao Xing is not necessarily good-looking when others look at Jiao Xing.
[Text: Yucun was stunned unconsciously. [Jiazhu side batch: The ancient poor sour color heart is the heaviest. This criticism involves the living conditions and personal dignity of children in poor families in ancient China, and from the perspective of the world, if the scholar can't be an official, then he will be poor to the end. "Useless is a scholar", has no strength to work, has no capital to do business, does not know other survival skills except reading and writing, it is difficult to support the family, and the word "poor" cannot win the respect of the society.
But the pride of the scholars and the dream of possibly becoming officials made them prefer to starve rather than retain their pitiful self-esteem. In this way, another "sour" hat is put on the head of the "poor". Poor scholars need the initiative of others, not only materially, but also spiritually.
Spiritual help means that others should look up to him, think that he has hope, support him, and encourage him. Having a girl as a spiritual pillar is the best for a poor scholar. "Self-cultivation, Qi family, governing the country, and leveling the world" is the lofty realm that ancient Confucian intellectuals diligently pursued, and the girl's intervention provided the necessary conditions for the "Qi family". When she was down, the girl consciously or unconsciously said that for the poor scholars, it was like a spring rain in a long drought, and a light in the darkness was more useful to them than material support.
At this time, the maid Jiaoxing, "although she is not very beautiful", but Jia Yucun has seen few big girls, not as open as now, the white flowers on the street in summer are dizzy, and there are various film and television programs. At that time, even in the countryside, older girls were married, not immediate relatives, and relatives could not see their female dependents, and it was not easy to go out if they did not marry. Now that Jia Yucun has entered Zhen Shiyin's study, can he not be stunned? Rare things are expensive, the more he has not experienced, the more he wants to experience, the more he has not owned, the more he wants to get, and the less he sees, he has to stay and watch for a while.
However, when the criticism says "color heart", I think it is not a simple desire for a female body like Ximenqing, but it contains an emotion like a bosom friend and confidant. Later, when Yucun saw Jiao Xing turn around, he thought that this woman must be a "giant-eyed hero, a confidant in the dust". The giant-eyed hero, if you see it accurately, you can see that Jia Yucun is a potential stock. Aspiring men in distress especially need the recognition of others, especially from women. Jiao Xing's casual glance will naturally make Jia Yucun think about it and lead him to his confidant.
Jia Yucun's brief encounter with Jiaoxing has a good ending, and there are too few successful examples of this. Because in a real society, there are very few women who can have a vision, especially beautiful women, and they tend to value the present even more. And even if there is such a beauty, she is willing to follow and support a potential stock, and until the potential stock is successful, the beauty is also old, and she wants to go into the kitchen and hall when she is young, and now she wants to fight the little three to persuade the pervert, how tired! So the author named the maid "fluke", the one with the best ending in "Dream of Red Mansions", which is really a fluke.
The uncertain three lives wish to add a period of sorrow. Toad Guangru intends to go up to the Jade Tower first
The uncertain three life wishes add a period of sorrow.
When you are bored, you will collect your forehead and go back a few times.
Looking at the shadow of the wind, who is worthy of the moon?
If Toad Guang is interested, he will go up to the Jade Tower first.
[Jiaxu double-line sandwich criticism: This is the first poem. Later, the love of the lady is not in vain. Yu said that Xueqin wrote this book, which also has the meaning of passing on poetry. The critic said that this was the first poem left by the author in "Dream of Red Mansions", and the previous reading was "full of absurd words, a handful of bitter tears." Duyun is an idiot, who understands the taste. is the first title poem. The poem left by the author through Jia Yucun's mouth belongs to the "boudoir" poem, which is a poem that writes about the emotions of women in the boudoir, such as "Tears and cheeks are not dry, and lovesickness is sick and timid." This lust was told to the pipa, and the pipa was tired of playing."
"Boudoir love" is an important theme chosen by literati and writers in the past dynasties, and there are many literati who write about "boudoir love" and leave many works. "The love of the future is not in vain." Xiang Xi on the boudoir women in the fragrance powder, combs, mirrors, jewelry and other items of the dressing box, used to refer to the boudoir, China's poetry genre also has "Xiang Xi body", that is, the theme of the trivial matters around women as the theme of the poem, mostly for the poems. This sentence is to say that there are still many fragrant love poems in the later text, and the critic believes that Xueqin wrote "The Stone Record" also has the purpose of leaving her own poems.
Look at how this poem is written, the first couplet "Uncertain Three Life Wishes, Frequently Add a Period of Sorrow", "Three Lives" We have said in the previous episodes, the previous life, this life, the next life, the word "three lives" is often used to express loyal love, "Three Life Wishes" is the fate of the previous life and the previous life, this life and this life have become a husband and wife, and the next life and the next life will continue the desire to continue the marriage.
"Unpredictable Three Life Wishes", it is impossible to predict who can be married to someone, and then "frequently add a period of sorrow", and the word "sorrow" is used well, showing the contradictions and depression in Jia Yucun's heart. He looked forward to combining with Jiao Xing and wanted to pursue it, but he suspected that he was self-inflicted, and he was afraid that Jiao Xing would refuse, after all, he was too poor and the conditions were too poor now.
There are three situations in which men chase women: First, they have to spend money if they chase after each other. Emotionally and materially invested, it is easiest to succeed. Second, chasing recklessly, unwilling to spend money. If you are not willing to spend money, you have to spend a little, and you can succeed if you invest more emotionally and less materially. Third, poor, just this one word, there is no need to "chase". Jia Yucun is a snob, very realistic, can he not worry?
But, despite this, feelings are not something that can be swayed by reason. Jia Yucun felt unusually bored, like all people who fell in love, he lowered his forehead helplessly, but the scene of Jiao Xing's two turns back when he left in a hurry came to his mind. The first couplet writes that he "frequently adds a period of sorrow", and the jaw couplet writes about the person who adds sorrow to him.
Neck couplet "self-care in front of the wind, who can be under the moon", "俦" is the meaning of the partner, explain his situation, Jia Yucun only settled in the gourd temple at this time, homeless and unemployed, in tattered clothes, extremely shabby, ashamed of himself, Gu Ying self-pity! Before the wind and under the moon, the beauties should meet, and I and I fly with wings. Jia Yucun thought to himself that if I can't support myself under such conditions, who will take a fancy to me? Who would want to be my partner for life? Emotions are at a low point.
The tail couplet "If Toad Guang is intentional, go to the Jade Tower first", it is really "the silver bottle bursts through the water slurry, and the iron rider highlights the sound of swords and guns", with high-pitched emotions, full of hope and strength. In myths and legends, there are not only Chang'e, Jade Rabbit, Wu Gang, and Guishu in the Moon Palace, but also a three-legged toad, which is a toad, so the ancients said that the Moon Palace is the Toad Palace, so the toad light refers to the moonlight.
After the Tang Dynasty, he used "Toad Palace Zhegui" as a metaphor for the Jinshi in the imperial examination. The imperial examination is the best way out for scholars in feudal society, as long as they pass the examination and become an official, they will have everything, soaring, prosperous and rich, and crowned their wives and sons. Jia Yucun thought that he had the hope of becoming an official through hard study, and everything was simple, "there is Yan Ruyu in the book", so he swept away the haze in his chest, and "Toad Guangru intentionally" let him go to the imperial examination high school, so he "went to the Jade Building first", opened his mouth to confess, a maid had no reason to refuse him, and was also full of self-confidence and desire for a better future.
Judging from the text of "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Yucun is still a person who values love, I mean love, he is absolutely okay with Jiao Xing. However, in order to seek officials, protect officials, and be promoted, he did not hesitate to betray his benefactor's daughter Zhen Yinglian, as well as the seizure of Jiafu, "The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit", except for Jiaoxing's first love, Jia Yucun's emotional world has no light. Writes a person who has no feelings as a heavy feeling
The jade seeks a good price in the scarcity, and the hairpin waits for the time to fly
[Text: Yucun Yin, because he thought about his life's ambitions, he didn't have the right time, but scratched his head and sighed to the sky, and re-chanted a couplet: Jade seeks a good price in Kuì, and the hairpin flies when he waits in the lián. 【Jiaxu side batch: Daiyu is followed by Baochai. Jiaxu clip batch: the former with two jade together, now with two treasures together, since the book is the right eye. 】
"Jade seeks a good price in the scarcity, and the hairpin flies when it waits in the coffin", and some versions are "The jade seeks a good price in the coffin, and the hairpin flies when it waits in the coffin", whether it is "scarce" or "椟" are cabinets or small boxes and small boxes used to hold valuables. This is the author's writing technique of "Ming Xiu Plank Road Secretly Crossing Chen Cang", which is literally understood as the exquisite jade is placed in the box and waits for people who know the goods to make a good price, and the delicate hairpin is also placed in the box and flies out of the box to show its beauty when the time comes.
Some students should ask, how can a hairpin fly if it is not a drone? Of course, most of the hairpins are made of gold and silver, jade, tortoiseshell, and pearls, and the gold hairpin, silver hairpin, and jade hairpin are common, and there are also poor people who use wattle to make the hairpin, the ancients were humble, and called their wives "clumsy jing", that is, the wife was born poor, and the hair was tied with wattle strips, so there was no culture, short-sightedness, and clumsiness. It can be seen that the lightest material of the hairpin is wood, and I admit that even if there were plastic products in ancient times, the hairpin itself could not fly! However, most of the hairpins are beautiful and flying animals such as phoenixes, peacocks, swallows, or dragonflies and butterflies. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with "the hairpin flies when it waits in the coffin".
This couplet hides an allusion that was known to all ancient readers, because this allusion is from the Analects and is a compulsory course. "Zigong said: 'There is a beautiful jade in Si, and Yun Zhen hides it? Seeking goodness and selling it? Zi said: "Sell! Sell! I'll treat Jia too. ’”
When Confucius traveled around the world and wanted to realize his political ideals, it was not that he had no opportunities at all, but that he wasted many opportunities. The apprentices didn't understand it, but Zigong respected the teacher, so he asked euphemistically: "A piece of beautiful jade, should it be hidden in the cabinet?" Or should I find a knowledgeable merchant and sell it? "The ancient gentleman wore jade, and the character of the gentleman was as firm and gentle as jade, so the gentleman was described as beautiful jade. Zigong compared Confucius to a piece of jade, and Confucius understood what he meant, so he told him: "Sell it, of course you have to sell it!" I'm waiting for someone to recognize the goods. Confucius clearly told his apprentices that he wanted to make a difference in his career, but on the one hand, he did not meet a wise monarch, on the other hand, the time was not right, good things could not be sold at a bad price, and he had to wait for the right price before selling, and if he was talented, he had to wait for the right opportunity to show it.
Jia Yucun recited "Jade seeks a good price in the scarcity, and the hairpin flies when he waits for the time" to express his ambition to enter the official career, Zhen Shiyin heard and understood, so in the later text, he praised Jia Yucun for having ideals and ambitions.
According to the comment, "Daiyu is followed by Baochai." Let's take a look at this couplet, the critic thinks that the author is clever, "jade" refers to Lin Daiyu, "hairpin" refers to Xue Baochai, the upper couplet "jade seeks a good price in the scarcity", and then the next couplet "hairpin waits for the time to fly". The "price" of the price we write now is a simplified Chinese character, Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan use traditional Chinese characters, and the "Jia" character of Jia Yucun is added next to the single person, which is the "price" of the price, and the "Jia" of Jia Yucun in Chinese is a fake word with the "price" of the price, and the "price" of "jade seeks good price in the scarcity" can refer to Jia Yucun. "Hairpin Yu Yu waits for time to fly" is more transparent, the surname Jia is transformed into the word Shi Fei, alias Yucun. From this point of view, this couplet is hidden, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are waiting for Jia Yucun's meaning. Isn't that right?
I think yes, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are two very important characters in "A Dream of Red Mansions", and they need to use the clue character Jia Yucun to get on the big stage of "A Dream of Red Mansions", so they will "ask for a good price" and "wait for the time to fly". Needless to say, Lin Daiyu was her teacher, and personally escorted her into Rongguo Mansion, and Jia Yucun directly helped Lin Daiyu to the stage. Although Xue Baochai was not personally sent to Rongguo Mansion by Jia Yucun, Xue Pan killed Feng Yuan because of buying Xiangling, Jia Yucun curryed favor with the powerful and arbitrarily judged the case, so that the Xue family was able to live in Rongguo Mansion in peace. If Jia Yucun enforces the law impartially and issues a sea fishing document to arrest Xue Pan, Xue Baochai's mother and daughter must have worked hard to calm the turmoil, so Jia Yucun indirectly sent Xue Baochai to power.
Another comment said: "In the past, two jade were used together, and now two treasures are used together, which is the right eye in the book." "Because "Dream of Red Mansions" was copied and circulated by hand, and then printed and published, there are too many editions, and the criticism is not left by the same author in the same period, so there are also inconsistencies in the criticism.
According to this criticism, "jade seeks a good price in the scarcity, and the hairpin flies when it waits in the house", "jade" refers to Jia Baoyu, "hairpin" or Xue Baochai, Jia Baoyu waits for the price and sells, and does not meet Bole, who knows the goods, Jia Baoyu is not recognized by the society at that time. Xue Baochai just conforms to the world and is the standard lady of a big family in feudal society. "The former two jade joint biography" means the "wood and stone front alliance" we read earlier, the pearl fairy grass wants to repay the Shenying waiter with tears, that is, Zhen Shiyin heard a monk say in a dream "The myth of returning tears", and the two jade joint biography, that is, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu's emotional entanglement, in front of Zhen Shiyin's dream has laid the foreshadowing. "Today's Erbao Combined Biography" means that Jia Yucun's couplet appears here, and "Erbao Hebiography", through Jia Yucun's mouth, also laid the groundwork for the emotional entanglement of Baoyu and Baochai.
"Jade seeks a good price in the scarcity", "scarcity" and "boudoir" of the "boudoir" homonym, Jia Baoyu "grabbed Zhou" when he was one year old, the things in the world in front of him, Jia Baoyu only grabbed the "fat powder hairpin ring", and secretly wrote that Jia Baoyu will only love the boudoir in the future, Jia Baoyu grew up a little "favorite to be mixed up in the inner curtains", and openly said that "the daughter is flesh and bone made of water, and the man is flesh and bone made of mud." When I saw my daughter, I was refreshed. When I saw the man, I felt that the turbidity was pressing. ”
If Jiafu is the epitome of filthy feudal society, Daguanyuan is undoubtedly a pure place and a paradise. The Grand View Garden is the reflection of the illusory realm in the world, and it is also a paradise for girls, and Jia Baoyu is even more in the boudoir. In the fifth episode, the police Phantom Fairy Gu gave Jia Baoyu two words--- "obscenity", saying that these two words are by no means "skin lewdness", "but the heart can not be passed on orally, but it can be supernatural but not spoken." You have only these two words, and in the boudoir, you can be a good friend." This kind of treasure jade is a piece of jade hidden in the boudoir in the feudal era, a fighter with advanced thoughts, waiting for the price and selling, it is indeed "jade in the scarcity to seek a good price".
If Daiyu's life goal is to live romantically and purely for love, Lin Daiyu uses tears to repay debts and is a spiritual pursuit, then Baochai is to follow the world, pay attention to realistic utilitarianism, she knows how to be flexible, and "when to fly" is also appropriate for her.
Xue Baochai was originally going to enter the palace for the draft, of course, according to the strict draft system after Shunzhi in the Qing Dynasty, it is unlikely that she will not participate in the draft, even if she doesn't want to participate, she must participate. Xue Baochai's father died early, and his brother Xue Pan was unstable, and if he wanted to ensure that the Xue family continued to be rich and prosperous, he had to do everything possible to hug the emperor's thigh, which was a shortcut for her to contribute to the family. Therefore, Xue Baochai's cultivation is very good, she can suppress her emotions, and there is a heat in her mother's womb, so she takes "cold incense pills", defeats impulses with reason, is sleek and forbearing, understands righteousness, is steady and peaceful, obedient and considerate, diligent and simple, and a little indifferent. Xue Baochai's character is her own reaction to paying attention to reality and utilitarianism. The draft was unsuccessful, and she turned to "Golden Jade Relationship", isn't it just the camera that moves, waiting for the time to fly?
Some people also explained that "jade seeks a good price in the scarcity, and the hairpin waits for the time to fly in the palace" to mean that Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai hope to marry smoothly in the boudoir.
There are also people who interpret "jade seeks a good price in the scarcity, and the hairpin flies when he waits in the palace" to explain that after the destruction of Jiafu, Jia Baoyu suffered in the prison temple, and it was Jia Yucun who saved him, and Xue Baochai begged Jia Yucun to save Baoyu and became a concubine in Jia Yucun. Due to the fact that there are too many homophonic words in Chinese, and there are multiple meanings of the word, all kinds of explanations have their own merits, and it is inevitable that they will be far-fetched and conjecture out of thin air.
It took a round in the sky to come out, and all the surnames in the world looked up
Jia Yucun's poems and couplets opened his mouth and came to quatrains, and the author wrote Yucun's literary collection "thousands of dyes".
When the time comes, we will be reunited,
A handful of sunny jade guards.
It took a round in the sky to come out,
All the people in the world look up.
When it comes to reunion, [Jiaxu side batch: It is the opportunity to send it. ] Multiplication formula, 3515, the fifteenth day of each month is the night of the full moon, now it coincides with the Mid-Autumn Festival, it should be a happy reunion, Jia Yucun is currently depressed, but when he saw the moon, he thought of "Toad Palace Laurel", thought of the future Feihuang Tengda, so it is said that "it is the opportunity to send a hair".
A handful of sunny jade guards. [Jiaxu side criticism: treacherous ambition, unconsciously revealed. A full moon sprinkles all the brilliance to the world, which is an expression of Confucianism to work hard, but does Jia Yucun really want to benefit the people? No, he stepped into the official career, one is not for the country, the other is not for the people, he is for himself to reorganize the family business, glory and wealth. Therefore, he sees that forgetting righteousness, clinging to the powerful, and bending the law for personal gain is the essence, and he uses what he has learned in his life to repay the society, love his name like a son, and benefit one party is a deceitful nonsense, a traitor!
It took a round in the sky to come out,
All the people in the world look up. [Jiazhu Mei criticism: This poem is not the original purpose, but if you want to get out of the rain village, you have to have it. Start with Mid-Autumn Festival poems, collect with Mid-Autumn Festival poems, and use the poetry club in autumn. The sigh is also three springs, but the three autumns are used as the key. These two sentences reveal Jia Yucun's ambitions and ambitions. He imagined that once he entered the imperial examination high school, entered the official career, and made a name for himself in the officialdom, the people would respect him and look up to him like the fifteenth moon.
But the tone is too loud and will remind people of the poems written by Huang Chao. Huang Chao was born in a family of salt merchants, good at riding and shooting, he was able to compose poems at the age of five, and when he became an adult, he participated in the imperial examination and failed repeatedly, so he wrote: "If I am the Green Emperor in his year, I will bloom with the peach blossoms." He then became the leader of the peasant uprising, and the fall of the Tang Dynasty began. In "Water Margin", Song Jiang is also a scholar, originally a small official in Yuncheng, Shandong, who committed a crime and was assigned to Jiangnan, and wrote a poem in "Xunyang Building", and there is also a sentence: "If he is Lingyunzhi in the future, he dares to laugh at Huang Chao and not his husband." "Huang Chao and Song Jiang, two readers, rebelled when they mentioned the poems, and these two sentences of Jia Yucun inevitably caused unnecessary trouble in the era when the literary prison was prevalent, so the critic said, "This poem is not the original purpose", but to highlight Jia Yucun's extraordinary literary talent and the image of a reader with great ambitions, I had to write it like this, and I had no other meaning.
The criticism said: "Start with Mid-Autumn Festival poems, collect with Mid-Autumn poems, and use the poetry club in autumn." The sigh is also three springs, but the three autumns are used as the key. In the first chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions", the Mid-Autumn Festival poems were written through Jia Yucun, and in the seventy-sixth chapter, the author depicted the couplets of Daiyu, Xiangyun, and Miaoyu under the moon. A frightened white crane in the shadows made Shi Xiangyun say "Crane Shadow in the Cold Pond" with divine help. Daiyu was not to be outdone, and followed by the sentence "The cold moon buries the soul of flowers", Miaoyu stepped on the moon and completed the "Mid-Autumn Festival Night Grand View Garden Scene Couplet Thirty-five Rhymes".
In addition to the first time, there is also a description of the Mid-Autumn Festival, or because of Qin Keqing's illness and a brush, or because of the imminent disaster in Jiafu and the thick ink, the seventy-sixth time, Jiafu Mid-Autumn Festival, lively in the middle of the night, Mrs. Wang and others said: "The night is deep, the wind and dew are also big, please rest the old lady, tomorrow is good to enjoy the sixteenth moonlight." Jia Mu said: "When?" Mrs. Wang smiled: "I have paid four watches." The sisters couldn't survive it, so they all went to sleep. ”
Jia Mu heard that it was one or two o'clock in the morning, and after a closer look, they were all scattered, and only Tanchun was here. Jia Mu smiled: "That's fine." You can't get used to it, and besides, the weak are weak, and the sick are sick, and you don't have to worry about it. It's just that the three girls are pitiful, and they are still waiting. Go and go, and we'll be gone. Jia's mother's last sentence "We are scattered" is the conclusion of this Mid-Autumn Festival, the weak and the sick of the weak, the girls are leaving, "After the three springs, all the flowers are exhausted, each must find their own door", Jiafu should also be dispersed, we will read it later, and I will not go into detail here.