Chapter 031: The Weak Are Undefeated
The real journey of discovery, not to look for the world, but to see the world with a new vision, the world is changing rapidly, when we face challenges, we must first change our own ideas, can not be complacent, hold on to the incomplete, not to be immutable, stagnant, but must use new ideas, new concepts, new vision to adapt to the changes in the world. Now, let's take a look at Think and Grow Rich.
The material and spiritual attainments of a person are first constructed by the imagination of the mind, and then rely on faith to operate wholeheartedly. But many people don't know how to use imagination, and if you want to use imagination, there are three ways, logical imagination, critical imagination, and creative imagination, whether they are used alone or in combination, they may provide the right way - the crystallization of imagination.
If you want to make money and wealth, you can only accumulate wealth with a sense of wealth, first of all, start from the "heart", if you want to become a rich man, you can't be satisfied with a small rich, which requires great ambition for wealth. Of course, these are not enough, if you want to successfully create wealth, you also need a flexible brain and a pair of keen eyes.
The shortcut to riches - the pursuit of wealth with positive thinking.
Here is a set of rules for success that we can look at: setting goals, organizing a think tank, cultivating an attractive personality, applying confidence, giving a little more, creating a personal initiative, cultivating a positive mindset, controlling enthusiasm, strengthening self-discipline, thinking correctly, controlling attention, stimulating teamwork, learning from adversity and frustration, cultivating creative energy, staying healthy, budgeting time and wealth, and using the power of natural habits.
As long as we believe we can, then we can.
Okay, let's now turn to another great book, the Book of Wisdom. The first point is the expression of the wise man in love.
The wise understand. To respect each other in love is to respect oneself, if love makes people uneasy. That respect is trustworthy, and when you take the other person's contribution for granted, you suppress the other person's various rights to enjoy their own lives. In fact, to maintain love, both parties must be equal, and since they are equal, then we should respect each other.
Respect is the foundation on which love is built, only by not suspecting each other, not interfering with each other's behavior, and giving each other full freedom of time and space. Only by living in this way can we connect each other's hearts.
If we are improving, don't leave each other behind, let's listen to a sad and touching love tragedy written by the great writer, it is called "Sadness and Death".
Zijun was once the favorite in the eyes of progressive young people Juan Sheng. She was gentle and demure, but in that closed era, she bravely pursued the happiness of free love with Juan Sheng, and even broke with her family because of this, which was not tolerated by society.
However. When they were happily married, Juan Sheng found that she had changed. Juan Sheng is still pursuing a free and independent personality, worrying about the country and the people for the happiness of the public, but Zijun has begun to retreat to the previously closed era. Quarrel with neighbors all day long for little oil chickens, worry about dogs, and quarrel with Juan Sheng over trivial matters in life......
Juan Sheng had to avoid this woman who had become as vulgar as everyone else, and spent all day in the library to avoid his troubles. But. With the poverty of life, the problem is getting more and more serious. The two finally lost the courage to be together. Zijun had to return to his original home, and finally died of depression.
"I thought I would tell the truth to Zijun. She will be able to move forward with determination, without fear, as she has ever been with us. But I'm afraid I was wrong, and her bravery and fearlessness at that time was because of love. I didn't have the courage to bear the burden of hypocrisy, but I threw the real burden on her, and after she loved me, she was going to bear this burden, walking the so-called road of life in the eyes of Yan Wei and cold. ”
The words of painful reflection make us listeners heartbroken. Two young people who love each other who can't be separated by anything break through layers of barriers, and finally get together, but in the end they are sad and separated, and finally, they die, regret and sadness and hold their grief until they grow old.
Is there anything wrong with Juan Sheng?
When the two of them had problems, he obviously saw Zijun's backwardness, but he refused to help her make progress together, but wrote in his diary: "I have seen through her customs." Juan Sheng chose to leave behind his lover who had become backward while making progress, which indirectly caused Zijun's death and his lifelong regrets.
Have we ever thought that if we leave our lover behind while we are progressing, won't that invisibly make our lover get farther and farther away from us? We must remember that in the matter of overcoming many obstacles in life, we should hold our lover's hand and walk together, hold the hand of the son, drag the son away, no, hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son.
The wise man understands that in love, timely communication is very important, communication is the core of love, is papapapa, romantic atmosphere, friendship, and other qiē incomparable, no matter how much we love each other, but we are still separate individuals, it is inevitable that there will be a gap, which can only be crossed through guò communication, if we can't communicate clearly, then we are undoubtedly giving up the responsibility for this relationship.
Now let's take a look at how the wise man faces the loss of love, the loss of love, everyone doesn't want to, but I have experienced it before, and I understand that feeling, this is not a personal will, when it should come, it will come, and it can't be stopped.
In the process of falling out of love, some people are in pain and have been in a state of despair ever since, while others have turned their grief into strength and worked hard to make them angry, so as to do something earth-shattering. When faced with a broken love, a man's self-esteem may cause a person to accept this fact calmly and turn to a lonely way to vent his bitter feelings. Women are more likely to regard love as the highest pursuit or center of life, and they are more dedicated, so when they encounter a broken love, women's weakness and infatuation often make it difficult for them to forget the pain.
Here, we have also seen many cultivators, who are desperate and desperate, and from a certain point of view, they all lack a kind of courage in their hearts, the courage to face suffering, because no matter if we are gods now, we will progress in the future, but we are all human beings, and if we are human beings, we have feelings, so how can we escape it?
Let's take a look at how wise men face entrepreneurship.
Whether you want to unify the kingdom or conquer the universe, the wise man has a clear goal before doing his business, if there is no goal, it is like a ship at sea without a lighthouse to guide it, not only is it easy to lose its way, but it will even run into a reef and die.
And when you have a clear goal, you need enthusiasm, you need enthusiasm for life, you need enthusiasm for cultivation, and you need enthusiasm to do great things. It is a state of consciousness that can inspire and motivate us to take action on the things in our hands, not only that, but it is also very contagious, and all those who have been in contact with it will be affected, and our demon moon can skyrocket from a few people at the beginning to a million, tens of millions of red demons, in addition to the recognition of my brothers and sisters, a large part of the city is infected by it.
I was fortunate that I didn't have my parents when I was young, they didn't leave me a great fortune, and I didn't get a good education, but my parents gave me a great strength -- passion, a strength that many people have to work very hard to acquire, and I was born with it.
Since it's so important, if we don't have it, how can we get it? Start with what we love to do the most, only then will we be energetic and motivated, not only will it take us several times less time to do things that would otherwise take a long time to complete, but we will also not feel tired.
Enthusiasm can create a miracle and lead us to success, and it is no exaggeration to say that we have enthusiasm and can almost sweep the eighth-level universe!
Enthusiasm is the top priority, if we don't have the ability, we have enthusiasm, then talented people can naturally gather around us, the stronger the enthusiasm, the greater our chance of success.
Enthusiasm is a state of thinking or doing something 24 hours a day, of course, it is not realistic to think clearly without interruption, but this concentration is very important, and as we cultivate more, our consciousness will also become super willpower, which completely moves our subconscious.
After having enthusiasm, it will be much easier to cooperate with the people around you, and only enthusiasm will not be attacked by negative psychology such as cowardice, inferiority, fear, etc., and you must remember one sentence, that is, the weak are undefeated!
Geniuses are not natural competitors, their sense of competition is formed in the day after tomorrow, through learning, everyone can compete, will not dare to compete with others because of weakness, the weak also have their own way of survival. As long as we believe that the weak are undefeated and bravely face difficulties, then we will eventually be invincible.
The expression of the wise man in the relationship, he understands that the sweetest and most important sound in the language, that is, other people's names, people are selfish, this is the nature of human beings, and the indifference of many people in the Sky Continent is not without a trace, some people will think that their names are even more important than your life, this is indeed a sad fact, so the wise people will remember other people's names.
The name belongs entirely to the individual, it can make people indifferent and ruthless, it can also make people stand out, because it is independent and irreplaceable, even if there is a duplicate name, but the meaning it represents is different.
For example, it is possible that many people have difficulty remembering other people's names, so they will use short pronouns to call others, the nun Madrid Paralas Kerry Nomania is actually a very high cultivation person, one day, when someone calls him by his full name, his eyes are hazy, and he smiles slightly bitterly: "For three thousand years, no one has ever remembered my full name except my parents, and it is a pleasure to meet you today, and from now on, you are my friend." ”
That's the magic of remembering someone's name, and it can keep you right and right, even if you're weak. It's small enough to throw away garbage less once, and it's big enough to have a peerless master who is devoted to it. (To be continued......)