Love is all about fate, fate comes and comes, fate goes and disperses, it is not necessarily necessary to investigate who is right and who is wrong, and who can say clearly whether you love or not? When we love, we just love to the fullest, and when love goes, wave our hands chicly! Life is short for decades, fate is in your own hands, there is no need to care about gains and losses, love and separation, marriage and divorce, all the same.

We should realize that love is changing, no matter how strong the love is, it will not be as still as water, love is not a frozen point in life, but a flowing river.

In love, it is a very normal thing to gather and disperse, and to clutch and clutch, just like the alternation of the four seasons, cloudy, sunny and rainy. A love may not be a complete story, and the story may not be a perfect ending. For love, let's not regard it as an unchanging agreement, who can guarantee that it will not become the scenery of the past? Xing Yanyan and Wu Haiyang are highly talented students from a prestigious university in South China. The two of them are both classmates and fellow villagers, so it is natural that they become an inseparable pair of lovers.

One day, Wu Haiyang said to Xing Yanyan: "You are like the moon on a midsummer night, shining on my dreamy poetry, making me feel like I am in heaven." Xing Yanyan also said affectionately: "You are like the sunshine in spring, giving birth to my dormant passion." I felt like I had a new lease on life. In this way, the two young people who fell in love were immersed in the ocean of love, and soon they became a happy family.

Half a year later, Xing Yanyan went abroad for further study. How many nights in a foreign land, she missed her lover who was far away. She reads hard and reads religiously, and her ambition is always motivated by the expectation of love. A few years later, Xing Yanyan finally obtained a doctorate degree with excellent grades, she was in a state of excitement and did not feel that Wu Haiyang in the letter had changed slightly, after the completion of her studies, she longed to have wings and feet, and immediately flew to Wu Haiyang's side, but how did she know that her husband had already taken a flight of love with others. Xing Yanyan found Wu Haiyang and questioned him, but Wu Haiyang said sincerely: "I have no past feelings for you, do I have to continue this hopeless relationship?" If we have to continue, you and I can only suffer more. Xing Yanyan had no choice but to retreat to the back of other people's love, silently licking her wounds without knife marks. Maybe we will stand on a moral standpoint and express our regret for Xing Yanyan, who is loyal to love, but what can we do? It can only be blamed on love, which itself has a certain variability.

In fact, fate is destined in the dark, don't be obsessed with it, and then hurt yourself. But at any time, we should not despair and give up our love pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty.

There is such a story: It is said that there was a scholar who agreed with his fiancée to get married on a certain day, month, and year. However, on that day, the fiancée married someone else. The scholar was devastated, and he never fell ill again. The family tried all means to do nothing, and it was imminent that they would die. At this time, a wandering monk passed by here, and when he learned of the situation, he decided to enlighten him. In fact, this monk is the Buddha, and the Buddha came to the scholar's bed and took out a mirror from his bosom for the scholar to see.

In the mirror, there is a scene of a murdered woman lying naked on the beach by the vast sea. One of the people passed by, just glanced at it, shook his head, and left...... Another person passed by, took off his coat, put it over the woman's body, and walked away...... When a third person passed by, he stepped forward, dug a pit, and carefully buried the body...... In confusion, the picture switched, and the scholar saw his fiancée, the candle night in the cave room, and she was being lifted by her husband...... The scholar is unknown.

The Buddha explained, "The corpse of the woman on the beach is your fiancée's past life. You're the second person to pass by and once gave her a piece of clothing. She fell in love with you in this life, just to repay you. But in the end, she has to repay the person for the rest of her life, and it is the last person who buried her, and that person is her current husband. ”

The scholar realized, sat up from the bed in an instant, and recovered! What is yours is yours, don't force it if it's not yours, excessive attachment hurts others and hurts yourself.

The reason why smart people are different is that they have the courage to open their minds to accept the good side, and they dare to keep their eyes open and not afraid of pain to stare at the bad side. They know that the benefits of the good side are known to everyone, and the benefits of the bad side are not known to everyone.

Don't hate the person you once loved, maybe he is not ready to hold hands with you for the rest of his life, or maybe he has a reason you don't know. Whatever it is, don't worry too much about it, don't hurt yourself. You should realize that you are so good that you can live well without anyone. You should even thank the other person, thank him for giving you a better understanding of love, thank him for making you more mature in the face of love, thank him for giving you a chance to choose again, his betrayal may be a sign that you will meet a more beautiful future, because we are still very young!

Yes, as long as you have truly loved, betrayal is painful for everyone. The difference is that smart people will see the essence through pain, break free from pain, and laugh at the new life; Stupid people have been indulging in pain, living with memories and never smiling again......