Don't overload your life
On the road of life, we have to do self-cleaning almost anytime and anywhere. Studying, going abroad, getting employed, getting married, having children, changing jobs, retiring, ...... Every change forces us to "throw away the old self and accept the new self" and "sweep" ourselves all over again.
Life is like a journey, the less you carry, the more you can reach your potential. You can make a list and decide what to pack in your backpack to help you get to your destination. However, remember to clear your pockets every time you moor, what to throw and what to keep, and make it easy to make more slots available.
We must have had the experience of cleaning up a few years ago. When you're packing box after box, you'll be amazed at how much you've accumulated in just one year. Then regret why you didn't take the time to tidy up and eliminate some things that you no longer need, if you do that, you won't be so tired today that you can't even straighten your back.
The frustrating experience of cleaning has made many people understand a truth: people must clean and eliminate unnecessary things at any time, so that they will not become a heavy burden in the future. When she was younger, Natasha was greedy, pursued the best in everything, and desperately tried to seize every opportunity. For a while, she had 13 radio programs at the same time, and she was so busy every day that she described herself as "as tired as a dog!" ”
Things are two-sided, the so-called one has advantages and one disadvantage, the more the career is getting bigger and bigger, and the pressure is getting bigger and bigger. Later, Natasha realizes that having more and bigger is not a pleasure, but a heavy burden. She was always haunted by a strong sense of insecurity.
In 1995, a "disaster" happened, and her wholly-owned communication company was viciously repaid by 40 million US dollars, and her boyfriend who had been dating for 7 years broke up with her...... A series of blows came straight at her, and just when she was extremely depressed, she even considered ending her own life.
In the face of a collapse, she turned to a friend for help: "If I shut down the company, I don't know what else I can do." The friend pondered for a moment and then replied, "You can do anything, don't forget, we all started from 'zero'!" ”
This sentence made her suddenly realize and gave her courage again: "Yes! I have nothing, so what is there to fear? In this way, she thought about it, but she did not expect that in just half a month, she received two major transactions in a row, and the company on the verge of bankruptcy came back to life and got back on the normal track.
After experiencing these setbacks, Natasha realized the "fickle" side of life: she tried her best to force it, although she barely got it, but in the end she couldn't keep it; On the contrary, once it is "zeroed", it will be followed by greater energy.
She learned to "give up". In order to simplify her life, she refused to socialize and moved out of the 150-square-meter house. simply take the company as their home, squeeze into a space of less than 10 square meters, eliminate unnecessary belongings, and leave only a bed, a small coffee table, and two dogs as companions. In fact, what a person needs is very limited, and many additional things are just unnecessary burdens. Simpler, life is more down-to-earth.
On the road of life, isn't each of us constantly accumulating things? These things include your reputation, status, treasures, family relationships, relationships, health, etc., and of course, troubles, frustrations, frustrations, stress, etc. Some of these things should have been discarded but not discarded, and some should have been stored but not stored.
Yes, sometimes we don't sort it out in time due to some factors. For example, if you're too busy, too tired, or worried about having to face an unknown start after sweeping, and you're not sure what you want. What if I lose it now and can't pick it up in the future?
Indeed, the cleansing of the mind is a process of struggle and struggle. However, you can tell yourself that every sweep does not mean that it will be the last. Also, there's no rule that you have to sweep it all at once. You can sweep a little at a time, but you should at least discard the things that will drag you down.
We can even do a reset for life, clear everything, and start from zero. Sometimes it's so hard to zero because every number that is to be cleared means something; Sometimes it's so easy to reset to zero, just press the delete key on the keyboard.