Some people say that the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt, the original me, did not find out how much I loved her, once she left, I felt how lonely I felt, just like people say a long sentence, wait until the loss to feel precious and regretful, maybe such a woman is not worthy of my nostalgia, but she is my first love, and I also have mistakes, I have to bear 70% responsibility, because I am the pillar of the family, I am the head of the family, and marriage is a matter of two people, after all, a slap does not sound, can not only see the thorns on other people's bodies, I can't see the beams in my eyes, the lid and the edge of the pot will meet sooner or later, and the tongue and teeth will bite one day, so who is to blame? Is it the tongue that crosses the line, or the teeth are too anxious?

In fact, there is still a discord between me and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it is indeed a problem of my own ability, I did not adjust the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is cracked, I am responsible, resulting in bad words about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and even mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cold war, I failed to adjust the feelings between each other, always ignore it, and eventually lead to her feeling that she is an outsider, and we are not a family, and my mother thinks that I am biased towards my daughter-in-law, and become an unfilial son who married a daughter-in-law and forgot my mother. So the trouble can't end.

Regarding the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is a common topic in the whole world, it has been a legacy problem since ancient times, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war that has been passed down for thousands of years, which can be understood by me as a small rural person, I myself have no high education, nor do I have any high IQ, and I have no ability to have an accident, so the seeds of the crisis have been planted, and it depends on what happens and sprouts.

Once a woman's heart is cold, it will not be melted again, once a woman's heart is broken, it can no longer be restored, once a woman makes up her mind to leave, the man cannot be saved, the heart has changed, take what to redeem. It is said that a woman is made of water, if you give her zero degrees, she will freeze, if you give her forty or fifty degrees, she will be lukewarm, if you give her 100 degrees, she will boil. In fact, isn't a man's heart like this, amorous is always hurt ruthlessly, what style of person, what kind of temperature is given, and the same is true for men and women. In fact, there is a chicken feather between men and women, whose house has no ash on the ground, whose pot is not black at the bottom, just how much, husband and wife should respect each other, understand and tolerate each other, who can not make mistakes! None of us are saints, we all make mistakes, and we all make mistakes, wise women build families, and foolish people tear them down themselves. Once a woman holds a grudge, she will never forget it in her life, she may not remember the good past, and she may not remember the beautiful concerns and memories, but she will remember the day you hurt her, and she will remember the words when you hurt her the most.

But I still remember the poem I made for her when I was in love with her, and she later embroidered it into a cross-stitch and hung it in her room. When I saw this poem again, my heart was full of sadness. It reads:

Money is an external object, and wealth and glory are too far away. There is affection and righteousness for a lifetime, and Aiqing holds hands and walks together. Zhao Qiansun Li is at the top, and the phoenix peacock is at the top, and they travel hand in hand all their lives, and they are white for the rest of their lives.

Looking at this familiar taste, my heart hurts, my heart hurts! Why can't a good man meet a good woman, and a good woman can't meet a good man, is this the way things happen in this world?