2023/11/13 What to look at when the mind becomes immature
What is mental maturity and what is mental maturity?
People with immature minds are difficult to do in this life, and in the process of immaturity, people often show one thing, that is, they can eat material suffering, but they can't eat spiritual suffering.
What is material suffering? No matter how miserable, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how simple it is, no matter how simple it is, no matter how simple it is, no matter how simple the living is, you can endure this hardship. And once you suffer mentally, you won't be able to eat at all.
Do you say that there are many such people around you, who even think that they are spiritually clean, even think that they are very noble, and even think that they are the purest people in the world, and even think that they are the purest people in the world.
Let me tell you, there are actually a lot of such people in society.
Such a person, he struggled and held back, because he could not endure spiritual suffering.
There is a kind of person who is gifted and talented, but if he is immature, he will definitely not be able to succeed in this life.
However, going back to the above topic and thinking about it carefully, what is mental maturity? Mental maturity is to stand in this world and find one's own place and diverge one's thinking outward, which is called mental maturity, to be able to see the world and perceive the world. Once you encounter a problem, you don't have to be impulsive, you don't make a rash decision, this is the real mental maturity.
For example, if you encounter a problem or a problem, you can think from the perspective of the other side, and this is mental maturity. And when you encounter difficulties and challenges, you have been wronged, and you can take back the right to speak by yourself, are you already mentally mature? Bear the burden of humiliation, this is maturity.
But the reason why most people are immature is that they can only see themselves, and there is only one person in the world, and I tell you with a very certain truth, that is, immature people, he does not know that he is immature at all. Therefore, all book friends, we have to understand one thing, if you want to cultivate your own children, there is one thing that you need to exist as the origin of thinking, that is, you must let him become a mature person.
A mature person is not only able to endure hardships materially, but also to endure hardships spiritually. Such a person is able to see and understand the complexity of the world and will not give up easily because of difficulties. They are able to think from multiple perspectives and do not act impulsively. When faced with challenges and difficulties, they are able to endure humiliation and burden, and solve problems through their own efforts and perseverance. On the contrary, an immature person can often only see himself and think and act with self-centeredness. They are often unable to bear the mental stress and pain, and are easily held back in the face of difficulties. They tend to act impulsively and lack thoughtfulness and patience. Moreover, they are often unaware of their immaturity, which also hinders their growth and development.
Therefore, cultivating a child's mature character is something that every parent and educator should pay attention to. This requires us to guide children to think, understand, and experience the complexity of the world, and help them establish a correct outlook on life and values. At the same time, we should also pay attention to cultivating children's self-control and patience in the education process, so that they can learn to remain calm and firm in the face of difficulties.
In this process, we can help children increase their knowledge and experience through reading, communication, practice, etc., and improve their maturity. At the same time, we should also give enough love and support to our children, so that they can feel warm and supported as they grow up. Only in this way can we help our children become mature minds and better cope with challenges and difficulties in their future lives.