Chapter 3: Passing Exotic Emotions
These are still trivial things, but the point is that some men, in order to live up to the title and responsibility of the head of the family, exchange their lives for money, which is often staged in our real life.
As long as the wages are high, the dirty and messy environment is nothing to men? As long as they can make more money, they can't care about the safety of their personal lives and health. What high-risk work, as long as it is rewarded with high wages, is completely negligible. As long as the pay is in line with their wishes, the men volunteer.
Of course, there are also women who work hard to make money to support their families.
In her hometown, Li Xiangyi often sees male colleagues and neighbors around her, knowing that the working environment is harmful to your health, or because of the temptation of high salaries, recklessly. Some are because they don't know the size of the risk factor, and some are knowing that there are tigers in the mountains and prefer to go to the tiger mountains, and they would rather give up their health than give up the opportunity to make money. For example, chemical plants, pesticide factories, plastic products factories, foundries, steel plants, photovoltaic industrial bases, dust, harmful gas pollution, etc.
Don't look at the banner of environmental sanitation boasting every day, if you really want to comply with the relevant regulations of environmental sanitation, no company can meet the requirements. As a result, environmental sanitation has become a means for relevant departments to recruit talents. As long as the treats and gifts are in place, go through the motions, and engage in formalism, it will be a hundred.
If you want the production and processing environment to be harmless to the human body, it is simply a fool's dream, and it is still difficult to completely eliminate it.
Although under the supervision of the environmental supervision department, some factors that are difficult to eliminate in the production process that endanger the physical and mental health of individuals have been controlled. That is only a temporary, palliative, but not a cure. The limelight has passed, and it has become a practice for enterprises, institutions, and environmental sanitation supervision departments to fight guerrilla warfare.
Therefore, the production environment is always there to cause harm to the human body if it does not meet the standards.
Capital investment, with efficiency and expanded reproduction, as well as low labor costs to obtain returns. The use of traditional technology to launch the low-end industrial chain, basically from the developed areas, gradually to the periphery of the industrial output value is relatively weak, the economic foundation is relatively backward underdeveloped areas.
For example, in southern Jiangsu and northern Jiangsu, most of the world's top 500 companies choose the five cities in the south of the Yangtze River.
Most of the polluting chemical enterprises and battery enterprises have moved to northern Jiangsu.
Therefore, don't look at northern Jiangsu, driven by the south of the Yangtze River, factories and industrial parks have sprung up. The essence of this is that the eliminated enterprises in the south of the Yangtze River have moved to northern Jiangsu, and the toxic and harmful chemical enterprises that are heavily polluted and harmed have settled in northern Jiangsu. There is no way, it's not that the local government in northern Jiangsu doesn't know the dangers of pollution.
Instead, it is to deal with heavy polluting enterprises to come to northern Jiangsu, and other enterprises cannot choose northern Jiangsu to invest.
It is not regional discrimination, but is held hostage by the natural geographical location of the region.
Seeing the male colleagues around her and thinking of the man who was thousands of miles away, Li Xiangyi felt it. If we compare the most beautiful love in the world to the gentle wind and drizzle in spring, after a period of washing, everything recovers, the earth rejuvenates, green branches and green leaves, and everywhere is full of vitality.
Then, longing is like a ripple of spring water, after a breeze, there are layers of ripples that spread outward, ups and downs.
"Red beans are born in the south, and a few branches are sent in spring. May you collect more, this thing is the most lovely. ”
At the moment, only this poem can represent Li Xiangyi's mood at this moment. Therefore, whenever Li Xiangyi waited until her husband came back in a year, she served her man Sun Daoliang like an emperor, without any complaints. It doesn't matter if he suffers and suffers outside, or if he is happy like a fairy, all of this is not important to Li Xiangyi.
The most important thing is: as long as he comes back to himself, he is a good husband, a good husband.
Perhaps, Li Xiangyi's tireless dedication is a verification of the painful experience of being separated for a long time like a newlywed.
It's too late to ask for warmth, cherish the people around you, and do what a woman should do when she sees her husband.
Looking through the autumn water, it only takes more than ten days to come back during the Spring Festival every year, and there are too few days left for Li Xiangyi to gather with her husband. She didn't have time to ask about her husband's daily life outside, love him well, and give everything she could to a good woman's dedication in the only time Sun Daoliang came back.
In the face of her husband, who is looking forward to it day and night, Li Xiangyi can do everything she can and should do, she has given full play to it.
What will always be left to the husband is the joy of seeing his wife and children reunited, and the world is beautiful! The impression given to people is always her flushed face and irrepressible smile, like a hibiscus rising against the background of green leaves, blooming with eye-catching and pleasant colors, beautiful and moving.
Whenever Sun Daoliang came back, she would say to everyone: "Hey, tell you something, do you know it, our man is back!" On the twenty-sixth night of the lunar month, I got home, hehe! "I don't know if 2 people like it when they go out, although they can't help but like it! I know that it has nothing to do with others, but I say it to people who are biased, as if I am afraid that others will not know.
Or, by doing so, she was telling the wild speculation of those who usually pointed at her spine: Alas, you know no, I heard that the man in her family has a family outside the home. It is said that she married the daughter of a wealthy family and gave birth to a big fat boy. You said that this Li Xiangyi is really stupid and cute.
Her own man sold her, and she counted the money for him! Giggle.......
Li Xiangyi always hears the discussion behind her back, and her left ear listens to the right ear, just as the wind in her ears.
She knows that her man is making money outside and has bought a Hongqi car for herself, which is eye-catching, and people who are envious, jealous and hateful abound. If you choose to fight with such a person, not only will you lose time, but even worse, you will affect the harmonious relationship between yourself and your husband because of these people's nonsense after dinner.
Therefore, she took it as her own ear and listened to nothing. However, whenever she meditates alone, Li Xiangyi's mind inevitably comes up with boring, fabricated, and colorful performances and speculations when those neighbors chew their tongues like a movie.
Inevitably, there are some worries and suspicions about men from afar in my heart.
She is a woman, and she can think that men can't sleep, but you can imagine what kind of life atmosphere her man will have in a foreign country when he grows up. So in the depths of Li Xiangyi's heart, there is always this strange suspicion: Could it be that our men really have another home in Shenzhen as they say?
Although she didn't want to think about it herself, when her mind calmed down, all kinds of doubts always surfaced, and it was difficult to get rid of them!
Sometimes, in order to confirm his judgment, in the dead of night, remembering people's foul words behind his back, Li Xiangyi couldn't help but dial Sun Daoliang's mobile phone. Originally, she didn't want to disturb her husband in the middle of the night. Isn't it really unbearable! "Hey, husband! I've heard people say, "You, you have a little wife outside."
They said vividly, that you had a big fat boy with someone, and although I didn't believe it, it was still difficult to sleep because of it. Why don't you tell me if there's such a thing? If you don't ask, husband, I can't sleep! Well, you tell me the truth, I don't want you to be perfunctory, to be honest, I will understand. ”
Sun Daoliang was woken up from his sleep by Li Xiangyi many times, but he had to be comforted.
"Oh, my wife doesn't have to listen to others! Think about it, how many people and families are living like the two of us? They have pink eye, and they can't hope that others are better than their family, do they? Otherwise, you can keep a low profile when you see them later. Let's just say that the car was bought with a loan, and the house in the county was rented.
In short, you have to make them feel that our family is inferior to them in everything, and perhaps, after these people hear it, they will get points to comfort them. Or, when they see you, they hide from you, or they just shut up and hide from you like a plague. Li Xiangyi was right to think about it, but she felt a little wrong.
"Hey, that's not right, husband! Others say that it's called pink eye, so what did your sister Sun Daojing say? People say that they are all behind their backs to listen to your sister talking to them, and accidentally say that she leaked her mouth! Someone didn't believe what your sister Sun Daojing said, she was so anxious that she swore to others, and she used her mobile phone to open the photos you took of their family of three in Shenzhen! ”
Sun Dao's conscience chuckled in his heart, but soon returned a hearty laugh: "Hahaha......", and then denied it: "Hehe, wife, you think too much!" Have you been brainwashed by these people? Live well, don't really ignite the fire of family conflict because of others' discord.
Think about it, if I really have a family outside, what will I do at the end of the year! Besides, why do I have to transfer money to you on time and on point every month? I'm willing to transfer money to you and your children, and the little wives in those mouths don't want to, you cover your heart and think about it, is this the truth! ”
Who's to say it isn't!
Li Xiangyi pondered carefully, and Sun Daoliang was right.
If my man really has a family outside, he can't buy himself a car and transfer money to himself every month. 10,000 yuan a month, I have never been willing to use it. The children are saved in the bank, and the third mother spends the expenses in the county, and spends the 3,500 yuan dormitory manager salary earned by herself at school. Save money every month, 3,500 yuan is enough for the three mothers.
Including, the cost to grandma.
Father-in-law and mother-in-law died at an early age, and the only person whose mother-in-law was in Majiadang's hometown was Sun Daoliang's sister Sun Daojing.
I don't get along well with my aunt Sun Daojing, except for the red and white ceremonies that I have to socialize, usually, Li Xiangyi never takes the children to Sun Daojing's house. Even if she went back to her hometown to watch TV with her mother boringly, Li Xiangyi was reluctant to take her children to Sun Daojing's house to greet her.
Therefore, Li Xiangyi would rather believe that she was talking about the rumors spread by Sun Daojing, and would never believe that Sun Daojing's words were true. Between her aunt and her husband, she chooses to trust her husband. How to say that the husband Sun Daoliang is the closest person to him, except for his father and mother, he is his children and husband.
When she can't sleep at night, Li Xiangyi always calls Sun Daoliang, which has become an unconscious habit for her. Anytime, anywhere, even late at night or early in the morning, as long as he is willing, Sun Daoliang has not once failed to answer her calls. Or, what excuse to not talk with her to the end,
The so-called chatting to the end is to talk to her until she falls asleep naturally, and then she stops. "Li Xiangyi, Li Xiangyi......" Sun Daoliang talked about this, and only then did he dare to hang up the phone on his own initiative. Otherwise, Sun Daoliang would never have hung up Ah Jin's own phone in advance. Or talk about him falling asleep naturally, and wait for Li Xiangyi to hang up the phone by himself.
Because he knew that only in this way could Li Xiangyi sleep peacefully. It is said that women are careful and can't leave half a grain of sand in their eyes. Every time Li Xiangyi hears rumors, she always calls to ask Sun Daoliang if there is such a thing, and the answer she gets is always negative!
He laughed at this woman for being too silly, but silly and cute. How can a thief admit that he is a thief? Including Sun Daoliang, how could he tell Li Xiangyi, who was far away from his hometown, about his actual situation in Shenzhen? Because, in Li Xiangyi's mind, her husband will always be his pillar, a rush, a belief, an expectation and a hope when she is helpless in life!
With the existence of this pillar, the home will not collapse.
With this pillar, life can be rich and colorful. In this world, even if there is a robber with a conscience, it is absolutely impossible for him to take the initiative to admit that he is a robber, right? The reason why Li Xiangyi chose to believe in her husband rather than others is not because of her selfless trust in her husband, her unrequited dedication, and her willing dedication.
We summarize this behavior as a hungry and tireless love between couples who are usually difficult to meet, or it is called rain and dew! A rare meeting once a year, the little couple is too late to be warm and in love, how can they have time to discuss trivial family trivialities.
Cherish the present moment because if you see it once, you will miss it once; Everyone knows that love doesn't start all over again. Life is a one-way ticket, and if you miss this village, you will never find that store again. If you miss it, you will only be left with a scenic spot on the journey of life. For Li Xiangyi, the separation from her husband made him suffer from the regret of losing her husband's caress to herself.
She didn't want to make Sun Daoliang unhappy in the more than ten days after her husband came back.
What she wants to leave to Sun Daoliang is full, full of warmth, and her obligations as a woman in front of her husband. Let him come with happiness and return satisfied. Let him return to Shenzhen without any regrets, only happiness. At least, like her Li Xiangyi, every time she recalls the days with her husband Sun Daoliang, she can always open the sky and the sea of clouds.
Forgetful, dripping love, and the endless aftertaste engraved in his heart.
The reason why Li Xiangyi is so good to Sun Daoliang is not because she can empathize.
When she thought about Sun Daoliang and couldn't sleep at night, reverse thinking told her that her man might be thinking about herself this time. Two people who have a common heart are deeply connected everywhere in the depths of their souls. Whether there is a difference between a man thinking about his wife and a woman thinking about her husband, Li Xiangyi believes that women are more tormented.
If you look at the animal world, you will understand that when male animals choose a mate, they just need to smell the smell of the female estrus and get out of control. Even if it is at the cost of life, it will not hesitate. Therefore, the male animal does not adhere to, or rather does not have the obligation and responsibility to do so from the beginning.
Their affection for the opposite sex comes from the temptation of estrogen, or rather, the female's irresistible submission or approval to the roughness of the male animal. During estrus, females are mostly in a passive state. They are chased by males, and the satisfaction of multiple males in a duel that establishes the victor makes the females look at them with envy.
It's like a powerful man who relies on his strength and authority to conquer those high-headed female stars and strong women. Therefore, we say: the body of a man, in the same place as a male animal, is nothing more than a constant search for a female in heat. From the beginning, to both of them, it was a bondage.
And a woman's life, in addition to waiting, is passive. There is also something you have to admit that is enslavement.
The slavery I am referring to symbolizes their subjective reluctance, but they have to go along and submit. Being coerced by the powerful, money, material, underworld forces, etc., against the wishes of women themselves, and making them powerless, but they have to swallow their anger, Li Xiangyi believes that it is all men's abnormal passive persecution of women or atavistic barbarism.
Therefore, it would be hypocritical to say that a woman does not want her husband. There are men who think of women, that is, women who think of men, and God never treats anyone badly! It can only be said that due to the limitations of conditions and environment, it is in vain to think about it, it is better not to think about it. Or think about it, if you can't pass this hurdle, you will take the initiative to attack, that is, you will be red and bad, and red apricots will go out of the wall.
Maybe others will do this, Li Xiangyi can guarantee that she is definitely not the kind of Pan Jinlian-style woman. Sleeping with a pillow between her legs, Li Xiangyi is used to such movements. I remember that it was a sleepless night, and I thought that Sun Daoliang was unbearable .......