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Xiao Nan reluctantly resigned, and cried for a long time when she returned to her residence. She confided in her boyfriend, who said, "What your leader said is not unreasonable, you have to admit that you are ordinary." It is estimated that there are only people of my level who want you, and without me, you can only find an old man or a primary school graduate. ”

Xiao Nan said that on weekdays, her boyfriend disliked her again and again, and she endured it, but this series of blows directly made her collapse.

In fact, Xiao Nan's conditions are not superior, but they are acceptable. She graduated from 985 undergraduate colleges, is 161cm tall, although she is slightly chubby, she is very attractive, and her whole aura is also open-minded. But such a girl is so unbearable in the eyes of her parents, colleagues, leaders, and boyfriends.

The reality is that many situations seem to be like this, and women can be criticized no matter what.

You are beautiful, you are a vixen, you are bland, you are inactive, you are thin, you are not easy to give birth, you are fat, you are like a man, you are excellent, no one dares to live to be single, you are ordinary, you say you can't recognize your position.

Recently, I have been thinking about the question of why people are becoming more and more lonely in the era when the Internet is becoming more and more developed and various communication tools are becoming more and more convenient.

For example, single people always find it difficult to find a partner, and those who are in love, or even married, will still crave the company and attention of the outside world.

If you think about it, we should be living more freely now than in the past.

Missing someone, no matter how far away it is, you only need to move your fingers to contact each other, but even so, many people's feelings are still insecure.

A friend said that a few days ago, I met a boy I liked on social software, and we chatted happily together at first, but after confirming the relationship, less than a month later, the other party seemed less enthusiastic.

For example, sometimes I send him a lot of messages, but I only receive a "um" word, for example, the other party has not taken the initiative to contact her for several days, and there is no explanation.

This poem was written in memory of his mentor Ouyang Xiu.

Ten years ago, Su Shi and his teacher had a good time, but unexpectedly, this gathering turned out to be a permanent secret, and the teacher passed away the following year. And in the past ten years, I have had ups and downs in officialdom and tasted the warmth and coldness of the world. The author reminisces about the past, lamenting that the years have passed, the ups and downs, and life is like a dream.

"Don't say that everything is empty, and when you don't turn your head, it's all a dream. ”

Ou Gongxian has passed away, although everything is empty, and the people who live in the world are not in a dream, and everything is empty after all.

Don't take Dongpo lightly to say that Dongpo is negative, perhaps it is precisely because of this thought that he was able to calmly face the political blows that came one after another. Since life is just illusory, what is political frustration and frustration?

The words "emptiness" and "dream" are actually teaching us to see through and look down, face setbacks calmly, and laugh at our own lives. One other door changed the fire three times, and the end of the world stepped on the red dust.

Still smiling as spring warmth.

There is no wave of the real ancient well, and there is a festival of autumn yun.

The melancholy lonely sail was sent overnight, sending off the light moon and clouds.

Don't use your eyebrows before honoring.

Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian.

This is a farewell song. The author said goodbye to his best friend Qian Mu's father.

The first half of "Wubo is a real ancient well, and there is a festival is Qiuyun", which is an appreciation of his friend's Gao Fengliang Festival, and it is also a self-portrayal of Su Shi.

The ancients once said: "Those who live with heaven and earth are the adversaries of all things, and those who are timeless are also passers-by of a hundred generations." Su Shi turned it into "life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian".

Since everyone is a passer-by between heaven and earth, why should they care about the gathering and dispersion in front of them and the south and north of the Yangtze River? Open-mindedness and romantic feelings sweep away the suppressed feelings of farewell. This body is shaky and nowhere to be found, and this place of peace is my hometown.

"Fixing the Storm and the South China Sea Returns to Wang Dingguo's Servant Niang"

I often envy the jade lang in the world, and the sky should beg and point to the crisp girl.

As far as the song goes,

The wind rises, the snow flies, and the sea becomes cool.

When he returned from thousands of miles, he smiled and smiled, and when he smiled, he still had the fragrance of Lingmei.

Let's ask if Lingnan should be bad,

But he said: This place of peace is my hometown.

Su Shi's Wutai poetry case was widely implicated, and Wang Gong and Wang Dingguo were the ones who were most implicated. But Wang Gong was demoted but had no complaints, and he never scolded Su Shi.

When Wang Gong was demoted, his kabuki resolutely accompanied him, which made Su Shi deeply impressed, so he wrote this poem to praise Yu Niang's character.

Thousands of miles with her, resolutely not changing her integrity under difficult conditions, Su Shi asked her how to do it?

Yu Niang said: This place of peace is my hometown.

The heart is stable and the waves are not upset, so naturally you can be at peace with what you encounter, and you are everywhere in your hometown. Even if you don't know each other, your face is dusty, and your temples are like frost.

"Jiangchengzi Yimao Dream on the Twentieth Night of the First Lunar Month"

Ten years of life and death, without thinking, unforgettable.

Thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to talk about desolation.

Even if you don't know each other, your face is dusty, and your temples are like frost.

At night, I suddenly returned to my hometown, and I was dressing up in the small window.

There are no words for each other, only a thousand tears.

It is expected that the intestines will be broken every year, the bright moon night, and the short Matsuoka.

When this poem was written, Su Shi's wife Wang Fu had been dead for ten years.

When Su Dongpo was nineteen years old, he married Wang Fu, who was sixteen years old. Wang Fu is young and beautiful, and his relatives are very filial, and the two are deeply in love. It's a pity that destiny is impermanent. This day is the death day of his beloved wife, Su Shi finally dreamed of his wife at night, and wrote this poem in addition to being sentimental.

Don't think about it, it's unforgettable. Not often missed, but by no means forgotten. This kind of feeling buried deep in the bottom of my heart is difficult to eliminate.

In a calm tone, it is extremely painful. Life and death are separated, and when they meet again in their dreams, they only have "no words for each other, only a thousand tears". When your parents are healthy, your work is smooth, and you have free time, learn to drink tea, and it is fun and comfortable when you are old.

Tea people are usually reasonable and polite, behave decently, neither humble nor arrogant, and naturally have a peaceful, amiable, gentle and elegant bearing.

A tea man looms with a strong personal temperament, such a person will never be buried in the crowd, because of the peculiar temperament, and they have a unique light.

Learn to drink tea, the stomach is full of contents. The baptism of time allows that bearing to coexist with the body, because the feeling is indeed extended from a person's body, rather than being mechanically imitated and applied.

It is the leakage of a person's internal force, which may be just the icing on the cake at first, but with the passage of time, it must be the highlight of a person's life.

Drinking tea and learning tea is also practicing your own years and getting rid of the impetuousness of youth, otherwise you will do nothing and miss the best years.

In the past, the half-acre pond in front of us was selected, but when and where I never forgot the distant stars and seas.

Only by enduring the loneliness in front of you can we keep the prosperity of the future.