Chapter 257: If you don't put a cold arrow behind your back, you don't deserve to be the protagonist (3)
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(I just got off work today, and I'll replace all the chapters on the weekend, so I'm going to trouble the little angels to wait.) I'm so sorry. )
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I have read the answer that the love I can give you is that, despite all your reading of the world, you still feel that you need to be cared for like a child.
Indeed, someone who truly loves you will spoil you like a little girl and make you feel love and warmth in the details.
He will definitely permeate all aspects of his life, and you don't have to guess it, you can really feel it.
Today, Uncle has sorted out 30 small details for you, boys pamper you. See how many of your boyfriends have hit?
Just like Xu Xian, who happened to meet the white lady who was drenched in the rain and had nowhere to hide, she sheltered from the rain, and the two met their eyes and fell in love at first sight.
It's like Baoyu and Daiyu, because of the karma of the previous life, Daiyu was able to meet again in this life in order to repay the kindness, and then continue the previous relationship.
All encounters are fate.
If it weren't for fate, the world is so big, among billions of people, why would they go around and meet a certain person?
In this world, there is no encounter for no reason, and there is no acquaintance for no reason.
Every encounter is a fateful fate;
The appearance of each person has its own unique significance. On the long road of life, you will definitely encounter a lot of difficulties and setbacks, and there will be many moments of confusion and hesitation.
Choosing a difficult path will give you the opportunity to grow quickly, doing what you are afraid to do will give you the opportunity to meet a new self, some roads just seem difficult to walk, and some things just sound difficult to do, once you really act with your heart, many problems are no longer a problem.
Be yourself, especially when you're younger, it means a lot to you!
Luck is real, and the reason why some people can run fast and run ahead is indeed because of luck, but not all misfortunes can be explained simply with a sentence of "bad luck" and "bad fate".
Many times, a person's luck is hidden in his pattern, choices, efforts, abilities, personality, and many other factors.
Don't always attribute your current bad situation to fate, instead of facing the problem and reflecting on the past.
A truly mature person will not hand over his life to koi, there is no miracle in this world, it's just that the harder you work, the luckier you are.
There is a saying: "Since you have chosen the direction, you only care about the wind and rain." ”
It is said that once a person has set a goal, he should strive to achieve it despite the difficulties and obstacles. This quote tells us about the importance of willpower and execution.
But this sentence has a premise, that is, your direction must be correct. If you choose the wrong direction and continue to focus on the ups and downs, you will end up in the opposite direction, further and further away from your goal.
Life needs to explore and pursue, in this process, perseverance is important, but the most important thing is to establish a correct direction.
If you go in the right direction, your efforts will be valuable, otherwise all the efforts will just be useless.
In his view, all kinds of hardships and obstacles experienced in his life are just a process of tempering his mind.
Ordinary heart is the way. Ordinary people don't have a normal heart, but extraordinary people have a normal heart.
Not every stone can be a jade, and not every shell can give birth to a pearl.
You must be able to endure the grinding and pondering, and tolerate the grit in your heart in order to shine with the light.
Ouyang Xiu said: Husband's calamities often accumulate in the slightest, and Zhiyong is mostly trapped in drowning.
This means that people often fail in doing things because they don't pay attention to details.
Even a smart and brave person can indulge in a bad habit and be bewitched by it and fall into trouble.
An ordinary heart is a pure, clear heart. Only by not being blinded by desire can we see the truth of the world.
Be a down-to-earth person, be broad-minded, do things steadily, and have a far-reaching vision.
Human growth, like a tree, needs to be firmly rooted in order to let go of hands and feet, to stretch and absorb. Towards the sun, grow freely. Ji Xiaolan, a university scholar, once went to Wutai Mountain to play.
Walking into the temple, the abbot looked at him, and when he saw that he was in an ordinary manner, he said: "Sit", and called "tea", which means to entertain him with casual tea.
Knowing that it was a guest from the capital, the abbot stood up respectfully, immediately led Ji Xiaolan into the inner hall, and changed his words to: "Please sit down and make tea." ”
After some detailed discussions, when he learned that it was Ji Xiaolan, the secretary of the Ministry of Rites, who came, the abbot humbly led Ji Xiaolan into the meditation room, and said with an embarrassed smile: "Please take a seat and make tea." ”
When Ji Xiaolan was leaving, the abbot took out a pen and paper, and he must ask Ji Xiaolan to leave the ink treasure and light the temple.
I saw Ji Xiaolan and Yan Yuese, and wrote such a couplet: "Sit, please sit, please sit, please sit; ”
When the abbot saw this, he was ashamed. Dale Carnegie once said, "Show respect for other people's opinions, and don't say: You're wrong!"
Mr. Lu Xun once had a banquet at home, and his son Haiying was at the same table.
When eating fish balls, the guests all praised the freshness and deliciousness, but Hai Ying said, "The fish balls are sour!"
When the mother heard this, she immediately reproached the child for talking nonsense and unruly.
Seeing his son who was depressed after being blamed on the side, Lu Xun tasted the fish balls that his son had bitten, and it was really not very fresh.
People are always in a habit of falling into a state of intense self-affirmation and being stubborn.
True respect is not politeness in social situations, but recognition and understanding of people, and it is a rare cultivation.
When planning things, it is easy to be trapped if you don't have an opinion, and when doing things, it is easy to fail if you are not fully prepared.
If you don't have your own opinions, it will not only be difficult to stick to a certain decision, but it is also easy to feel lost about the road ahead.
Drinking tea is a very casual habit, but it is also a thing that cannot be done casually.
No one would say that I have to drink a cup of tea at this time every day, otherwise something big will happen.
When the tea addiction comes, the whole pot is filled, and if it doesn't work, two leaves are sprinkled in the cup of water to satisfy the cravings.
The opinion of drinking tea is not when to drink it or what to drink it, but what to drink.
Blindly following others to drink green tea, your own physique can't bear it, and you have insomnia at night, can you blame the tea for being bad?
It's a pity that no matter how good this tea is, the tea nature is not compatible with your physique. Therefore, what kind of tea to drink, you have to have your own opinions, which varies from person to person.
The preparation stage is very important for the taste of the brewed tea.
What utensils can be used to bring out the mellow taste, and how many grams of tea can be used to taste the shade.
Look at a person from drinking tea.