The ancient road is not too late
"My family has just been destroyed, and now I have nothing, will you want me?"
"Hmm"
"But I don't know anything about laundry, cooking, female workers, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and I haven't finished dealing with anything recently"
"It's okay, I'll wait for you...... Learn to do laundry, cook, female workers, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting are coming to marry you"
"What if your family doesn't agree with us being together"
"Then I won't marry for the rest of my life, and I'll only be with you every day"
"What if they send someone to kill me?"
"Then I'll have to elope with you."